Zhang Ailing once said:
"In love, I chased red rose , and in marriage, I turn into a wisp of mosquito blood on the wall, I chased white rose in love, and in marriage, I turn into white rice grains stuck on clothes."
Perhaps everyone hopes to have a lifelong relationship, sincere feelings, and never leave forever.
But feelings will fade, people's hearts will change, and the deep affection that once regarded more than life may become worthless in the temptations of the outside world during the long years.
This world is so realistic and helpless. Nothing is eternal, and nothing will not expire.
When a woman starts to have the following behaviors, it is often the beginning of a change of mind, and you must understand.
suddenly pays special attention to dressing up
There is a saying in "Tulip":
"Women are to please themselves, and flowers are to love their confidants."
This is true. When a woman has someone she loves in her heart, the most direct change is the change in appearance.
I have seen a story online:
A couple, two have been married for five years. In the past five years, their wife has gone from being a delicate girl who loves beauty to a person who can get disheveled when she goes out.
But suddenly one day my wife changed. Not only did she have to put on makeup when she went out, but she also bought new clothes every now and then.
The man was surprised by his wife's changes, so he asked his wife tentatively:
"Why do you suddenly love to dress up so much?"
The wife replied:
"The company is now paying attention to employee image management, which is what the company requires!"
Although the man was a little strange about his wife's answer, he did not think about it in other aspects, just thinking that the wife wanted to live a more refined life.
It was not until one day that the husband broke the wife's ulterior motive secret on his wife's mobile phone that the husband woke up and the marriage between the two came to an end.
There may be nothing strange about women who love to dress up, after all, love beauty is human nature.
However, if a woman did not pay special attention to her image before, but suddenly one day, she changed and became particularly concerned about her appearance.
Then, if something goes wrong, there will be a demon.
This abnormal love for beauty often means that you have other people you like in your heart, and your exquisite dress is just to attract his attention.
Dislikes the other half
Someone said:
"The deterioration of a relationship often starts with disgust. When one party dislikes the other party, he will be unwilling to give up and feel wronged. The relationship is destined to be unable to maintain!"
A good relationship, the people who love each other deeply will also have moments of conflicts and quarrels, but they must appreciate more than dislike.
However, a woman always feels that her partner is not good, and that is not good, it can only prove that the woman has no love in her heart.
In this case, once a better opposite sex appears, this dislike will be more obvious because of the comparison.
has seen a video like this:
has such a family. Although the husband does not have any great skills, the couple has always lived a warm and happy life.
But later, the woman's ex arrived at the city where the two were located and became the woman's immediate boss.
Before, because there was no comparison, the woman felt that although her husband didn’t make much money, fortunately, she was quite happy because she was a family.
But when I see my ex-worker doing well, I feel unbalanced and start to pick on my husband. There will always be quarrels and complaining at home within three minutes.
In the end, as soon as the ex showed his goodwill, the woman was completely in trouble.
Love or not love, the attitude will really be obvious.
If a woman starts to dislike a man, it only means that she has changed her mind and is tired of this relationship. In situations like
, feelings are destined to not last long.
responds to the concern of other opposite sexes
Ding Mo wrote in "You and My Falling Time":
"Ambiguousness once breeds, it is everywhere. Every word and action is ambiguous, a look, a hug that has not yet been approached, and it is also ambiguous."
Those feelings that are gradually transcending in time are behind them sharing back and forthcoming and responses to their hearts.
A female netizen shared this experience:
She met such a male colleague. In her daily work and life, this male colleague would take good care of and care about her.
At the beginning, although she also had a good impression of him, she knew that she already had a family, so she would deliberately keep a distance from her male colleagues.
But later, she quarreled with her husband, and she felt very wronged, so she asked her male colleague to complain.
The male colleague naturally expressed concern and cares for her grievances and stroked her hair. She did not refuse the male colleague's intimate behavior this time.
Later, she felt that she had really fallen and lost her marriage because of this.
Men and women are always sensitive to getting along with each other, and they will deliberately keep a distance in a normal relationship, especially when dealing with the more ambiguous concern.
But when a woman is not only not rejecting the care of other opposite sex, but also having a kind of enjoyment.
This performance is obviously because of your favorable impression and even falling in love with it.
Don't deny it quickly. In this tempting world, perhaps everyone will be curious about the scenery outside the siege and have the urge to go out.
However, we must also be clear that people have more than love, they also have responsibilities. In addition to obsessing with love, people should also have awe of marriage.
So, for women, you must know how to restrain yourself, because it is difficult to be happy outside of marriage.
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Author: Li Yu Weiliang, a post-90s writer who can be rational and emotional, likes to express personal opinions in words, bringing you spiritual healing, emotional resolving, and life insights.
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