Recently, my snobbish and arrogant mother has been constantly pleased me. In addition to taking care of my two-year-old daughter, she also cleaned the house very clean and the food was particularly exquisite and delicious.

Oral description: Wu Cailian Compiled by: Zhou Yujiang

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Recently, my snobbish and arrogant mother kept pleasing me. In addition to taking care of my two-year-old daughter, she also cleaned the house very clean and the food was particularly exquisite and delicious.

What's even more incredible is that the same is true for my father-in-law who collected waste products. He also took the initiative to ask him to wash clothes and brush his shoes, which made me a little confused.

You know that my mother used to despise my father-in-law. She always thought that a person who was trashed was dirty and sloppy from the bottom of her bones, and her body was sour and smelly that it was difficult for people to get close to her.

My mother has only been here for more than a year, so has she changed her opinion?

In fact, my mother lived with me, and at first I firmly opposed it, because she had a son, my younger brother, so she should live with her son. Second, what she did made me so angry that she gave her baby son all the money she had paid for more than one million yuan in the family. I didn't get a penny, but I asked me to take care of the elderly, which made no one accept it.

It was still with the strong persuasion of my kind and kind husband and equally kind father-in-law that I finally accepted her.

I was influenced by my mother's preference for boys over girls since I was a child. I was abused at home. Although my brother is only one year younger than me, I will consider everything before I can have me. Mother always has one sentence: Your younger brother is young, you have to give in to him.

If the siblings have a dispute, I will always be the abuser. I will either be slapped by my mother with a backhand or twisted on my thigh and make me cry. Although my father likes him as a little cotton-padded jacket, he has no choice but to face his strong mother.

so that I didn’t get into college after graduating from high school. I thought I would repeat the year, but my mother refused. There are two reasons: First, it’s good for a girl to go to high school. What else do you want? Second, my brothers and sisters have all gone to college, so how can my family afford the cost of going to school? My brother studied for two years and at least read a second book, which at least fulfilled his mother's wish.

I can only get a job in a plastic factory in the county town. (My home lives in the suburbs of the county) At work, I met and fell in love with a young man named Li Gang.

Li Gang is a simple and kind person. His hometown is poor Yimeng Mountain District . After graduating from high school, he worked in our county through relatives. His father was working in the waste collection business. After several years of hard work, he had mortgaged a house and a car.

But when my mother found out, she firmly disagreed with letting me come from another county and collect junk, and let me go to the son of a wealthy man from the village. I know this person, in addition to being short and ugly, he also takes up all his food, drink, whore and gambling, which of course was rejected by me.

Two years later, when my mother saw that she could not stand stubbornly, she proposed to ask Li Gang to pay a 100,000 yuan gift in order to force me to submit.

Li Gang's father had to ask. My aunt, who had a good relationship with my mother, said that she had peace. At least she reduced 20,000 yuan and asked me to marry Li Gang with a bride price of 80,000 yuan. From then on, I felt a knot in my heart, thinking that such a mother is rare in the world, and she was angry and determined not to go back to her parents' home.

But every Christmas, my father-in-law prepared generous gifts for us, urging me and Li Gang to visit my parents.

But no matter how much we take, my mother always ignores her. Li Gang gave her some money, but she didn't even say polite words, thinking that this was a matter of course and didn't even care about us for a decent meal.

After I got home, the more I thought about it, the more I felt wronged I was on the bed and cried. My kind husband wiped the tears on my cheeks and said: The old man is still angry, she will understand in the future. We are our elderly, we can't blame them.

That year, my father was living in the hospital with liver disease, and Li Gang and I took turns to serve. My father-in-law was afraid of losing his etiquette, so he bought a lot of expensive supplements and insisted on visiting the hospital.

But when lunch was lunch, my mother actually invited other relatives and friends who came to visit to the hotel for dinner. She left my father-in-law in the ward and had a meal of hospital meal.

I asked my mother why she did this, but she said shamelessly: How can a person who collects rags and smells all over her body sit in front of others and not get rid of everyone? You are shameless, I can't afford to lose this person.

I couldn't bear it anymore and was furious. I scolded my mother like this: My father-in-law is ten thousand times cleaner than you! You are not even as good as one of my father-in-law’s fingers!

I went home with tears in my eyes to apologize to my father-in-law, but my father-in-law said: Child, your mother has her difficulties. We are our own family, I won’t blame her, it’s the same wherever she eats.

I feel the open-mindedness and tolerance of the father and son, and I feel that eating savory food in such a family is also sweet and happy.

After my father passed away, we started demolition due to building a school district house. My four ancestral houses and a huge Taoyuan, the government paid us 1.09 million yuan in demolition payment.

My household registration is still in the village. I thought that no matter what, my mother would give me hundreds of thousands of dollars, but unexpectedly, my mother, who seemed smart but actually stupid, gave all the money to her younger brother.

I have negotiated with my mother about this, and my mother’s answer is: Should the Wang family sell the house and land to the Li family? The water splashed by the married girl is no longer a member of the Wang family, so don’t even think about the wealth of our Wang family! If you don’t give this money to your brother, I have to rely on them to support you in the old age and see you off. My mother thought it was beautiful, but she slapped her in the face soon.

. I don’t know why. My sister-in-law was annoyed when she saw my mother. She couldn’t do anything to her heart. After my mother and my brother lived together, they often quarreled with their daughter-in-law about trivial matters.

Her daughter-in-law either complained that the floor she was washed was not clean, or complained that the rice she cooked was not soft and the dishes she fried were not to taste.

Finally one night, the mother started a big quarrel because she used her mouth to test the temperature of the child's milk, and was scolded by her daughter-in-law. My younger brother, who is weak by nature, is hiding in the room and not daring to show off.

My mother had no choice but to run to my house regardless of her face, and said in tears that if she lived in my brother's house, she would soon be angry and wanted to come and live with me.

I recalled what my mother did in the past, and I was so angry that I directly refused my mother's request to live there.

I said, "I have old people and young people, what's wrong with you living here? Besides, I can't make the decision."

My mother also realized at this time that she had done too much before, and now she can only cry silently, saying nothing.

At this time, the understanding father-in-law called me from the living room to his room and said to me, "Child, don't make things difficult for your mother, and don't talk about the past. No matter what, she is your mother. Where do you let her go at this time? Let her stay quickly. It's nothing more than a pair of chopsticks and a bowl. Moreover, your mother can take care of Niu Niu (my two-year-old daughter), and you can go to work immediately. What a great thing."

In fact, it is always an irreplaceable mother-son relationship with blood thicker than water. When I saw the pitiful mother in my fifties' appearance of tears, I had already softened my heart and just vented my breath. Of course, my husband didn't say anything, and my mother stayed here and lived with us.

My mother lived for a short time, and our family atmosphere left a beautiful impression on her.

She found that our family never speaks loudly, they discuss and deal with things in a gentle voice, never quarrels or disputes, only orderly calm and warm, and the tenderness of mutual love.

Mother said to me with emotion: "Lian, I didn't expect you to marry such a good family, and I didn't expect a waste collector to live such a good life. You are blessed."

Kind people do things for others and are all warm.

My father-in-law found that my mother likes to eat a pineapple cream and grasshopper sauce , so he brought some from outside every few days.

I found that my mother loves beauty and dyes her hair all over the head every once in a while. But when he saw that his mother was using a very inferior hair dye that was harmful to the skin, he spent hundreds of times to buy high-quality hair dye cream that is harmless to the body, which moved my mother very much.

What moved her even more was that my father-in-law would give her some money to her mother every few days and said that she would buy some things she liked. The number was between three or five hundred every time, and even thousands of them were available on holidays.

In addition to being moved, my mother was also surprised. When did she get so much money when she rides an electric three-wheeled electric trash? In addition to all the expenses at home, she also has spare money to give him? In her mind, the person who collects waste products earns thirty or twenty every day, she can't starve to death.

Until one day she discovered a secret of my father-in-law.

In fact, It's not a big secret. It's just that when she was cleaning her father-in-law's room, she accidentally saw the income of her father-in-law collecting waste.

From the book, my father-in-law's income was no less than 300 yuan, sometimes as high as thousands of yuan. This made her feel very surprised. She naturally thought that this old man in his fifties earned at least 10,000 yuan a month, which was more than his daughter and son-in-law. This also made her look at my father-in-law differently.

In fact, this is also a fault that my mother didn't understand this industry, let alone understand, and couldn't understand my father-in-law.

My father-in-law was a high school student in the 1980s. I was admitted to university and was in a poor mountainous area with harsh natural conditions. I had no chance to show my talents. After my mother-in-law died of illness, she came to the county town to collect waste.

My father-in-law's fortune also came from his kindness.

On the 23rd day of the 1st lunar month, he collected a tricycle of scrap in a household in a community. When he came back to sort out the waste and was about to sell it, he found a pair of broken shoes in a very small worn cardboard box. He found that there were 3,000 yuan in the shoes. He rushed to this house the next day without saying a word and returned the money.

This is a family that runs several chain supermarkets in the county town.

The old mother of the owner is also from the countryside. She hid the pocket money her son usually gave her in her broken shoes and placed it in a small broken cardboard box under her bed. On the day of the New Year, she and her son went back to her hometown to celebrate the New Year. They were sold by her daughter-in-law during the sanitation cleaning at home before the New Year. For this reason, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law also had a misunderstanding.

When the family was struggling, my father-in-law sent the money back. Therefore, the boss of this supermarket was grateful to his father-in-law. In addition to selling a large number of carton packaging boxes in his supermarket to his father-in-law, he was also widely promoted among his fellow industry friends. His father-in-law's reputation became famous for him. Almost half of the county's industrial and commercial households knew that there was a kind and righteous man who collected waste and sold the waste to his father-in-law, which made him do a good job in this industry.

Now my father-in-law doesn’t have to go around the streets and go around. He just answers the phone at home to purchase it and there are endless scraps and endless money to earn.

There is an aunt Wang in our community. Her children are all working in other places. Her wife passed away and she fell in love with her kind and kind father-in-law. After the Mid-Autumn Festival, I found my mother and wanted to let her get in touch with her and wanted to get along with my father-in-law.

This accidentally provided my mother with a space for thinking. My mother thought: Why don’t we chase a man who is considerate and careful to others and can make money? Moreover, we are still in-laws at the same age. Wouldn’t we get the moon first when we get close to the water and the wealth will not flow to outsiders’ fields?

At the end of last month, my mother finally couldn't help but confide in me. She said to me privately: "Mrs. Wang downstairs asked me to ask your father-in-law, she wants to marry him. I want...I want..."My mother blushed and swallowed, and I understood eighty or ninety. Although my mother was in her fifties, she still felt a little embarrassed to say such things to her daughter.

I deliberately stretched her and said, "What do you want." "I think we are a family, your father-in-law is so good at making money. I want to follow him and we will be a companion in our later years." My mother said again.

I deliberately teased her again: "He is just a trash collector. If you are shameless, I think it's embarrassing."

Mother knew that I was revealing her shortcomings and said angrily: "Damn my son! No matter what he does, just be kind and kind."

I said again: "You can't compare to Aunt Wang, who is younger and more beautiful than you." At this time, my mother was anxious and hurriedly said: "She is fifty-six. I am only fifty-four years old with your father-in-law. Your Aunt Wang has such dark skin and beautiful skin?"

In fact, in terms of image, my mother is better than Aunt Wang. She has white skin and thin face, and her body is plump and well-proportioned.

I continued to tease her: "I'm afraid my father-in-law will disagree, your fucking temper and temperament." In fact, I concluded that my father-in-law would agree in almost every ten years. From his usual eyes to my mother, I can be sure.

My mother said with a little sad expression: "Aren't I changing this? When people get old, they have to be honest, otherwise no one will care about it." After my mother came to our home, she became much gentler and more intellectual.

I said again, "My father has only been gone for three years. Do you think you deserve him?" My mother said even more depressedly: "It was him who was sorry for me first and left me alone. As the saying goes, no matter how good the children are, they are not as good as the couple halfway through. Your sister-in-law treats me like this. I don't even have a heart-to-heart person, but how can I survive?"

After saying that, she cried out loud.

I wiped my mother's tears and swallowed, "Don't worry, my father-in-law will agree, you will be happy." Then, my mother and daughter hugged each other tightly.

As expected, my father-in-law agreed readily as soon as he asked the question. The reason why he loved my mother was: after living together for more than a year, she found that in addition to being a thriller, my mother was a good woman who was thrifty and could live a life.