To some extent, the emotions between husband and wife are also a combination based on common interests. When is blessed, the crisis is hidden by love. Once the other party loses the value of exploitation, the most real emotions between husband and wife can be displayed at a glance. is the so-called joys and sorrows that can be shared but hard to share.
Because of this, there is a saying in ancient times that is more appropriate: Couples are birds in the same forest, and they fly away from each other when the disaster strikes. Although there are many marriages and loves that touch us in life, in the face of the cruel test of reality, we often surrender to reality, choose to abandon marriage for our own selfish interests, and even do things that harm the other party's interests. Although this behavior has been criticized by us, it still exists.
51-year-old Aunt Long and her husband Uncle Lu are half-way couples. Before Uncle Lu had a stroke, the relationship between them was good. Not only did he take good care of his wife Aunt Long, but he also cared about his stepdaughter Ms. Li.
However, all this changed after Uncle Lu had a stroke. The serious sequelae caused by the stroke made Uncle Lu lose the ability to live normally. When he needed his wife Aunt Long to take care of him, his wife not only changed her heart, but in order to satisfy her desires, Aunt Long openly took her 36-year-old lover home to share the same bed.
According to Uncle Lu, His wife and her lover slept upstairs, and he slept alone in the room next to the downstairs. Due to the disrepair of the house, the sounds made by his wife and her lover on the upstairs seemed particularly harsh on the quiet night, which greatly hurt his self-esteem as a man.
In response to this, Uncle Lu said to the mediator that when he heard the movement upstairs, his heart was about to break. It was a pain that could not breathe. Sometimes his wife even took her lover home and slept for more than 20 days in a row. Those days made him live like a year, and his body and mind were greatly damaged.
The reason why my wife became so cruel and had no lower limit is Uncle Lu stammered and admitted that he was useless after he got sick. His wife disliked him as a burden, so she went out to find a man to indulge him again.
, corresponding to it, Uncle Lu said that when he had not suffered a stroke, his wife was injured in the foot once. He served tea and water for four months without regrets. As a result, when it was his turn to be sick and need care, he ended up like this, which really made him feel heartbroken.
While Uncle Lu was telling the mediator, Uncle Lu couldn't help but tremble. In addition to being angry, there were more sequelae that made Uncle Lu unable to control his body's balance, which seemed quite pitiful.
his stepdaughter Ms. Li expressed her approval of everything Uncle Lu said. She said that she felt very embarrassed by her mother's absurd behavior. She expressed her objections many times, but her mother, Aunt Long, still insisted on her own and could not listen to her words at all. She was inseparable from her little lover.
, especially her mother, is already 51 years old, and the young lover is only 36 years old, and is 15 years apart. It can be said that the mother's lover is not much older than Ms. Li, which makes Ms. Li unacceptable. is also the main reason why she firmly opposes her mother's love.
, while Aunt Long, who was sitting next to him, kept bowing his head and silent, only emphasizing that her husband was unable to move, he slept alone downstairs while she slept upstairs. When facing the mediator's inquiry, he was concerned about the left and right, and did not directly answer why he wanted to betray his marriage.
Under the pressure of everyone, Aunt Long finally agreed to call his lover to come and mediate the emotional dispute between the three of them in person. However, Aunt Long called his lover several times, and the other party agreed to arrive at the scene immediately, but he did not show up for a long time.
In desperation, Ms. Li took Aunt Long and the mediator out to find her mother's lover. However, Aunt Long only knew that the lover was engaged in the physical work of cleaning the mud in a nearby river, but she did not know the lover's name. Aunt Long could only call her lover again next to the river, but the other party turned off the phone and stopped answering Aunt Long's phone.
After wandering around the river, the group found the coworker of Aunt Long’s lover, but still did not see the figure of Aunt Long’s lover. The coworker said that he would try his best to contact him, but it still had no effect. Aunt Long’s lover never appeared.
In the end, the group had to go home first, and Aunt Long was particularly depressed. After the mediator and daughter persuaded her, she finally realized that her lover was playing with her feelings. The purpose of being with her was to be greedy and indulge in joy. The other party just used the banner of emotions to meet her physiological needs.
has come to this point, and Uncle Lu also sent a good signal, promised that as long as his wife cut off contact with the other party in the future and live a good life with him, he could live without any blame. He hoped that his wife, Aunt Long, would turn back.
Aunt Long made a promise in front of the mediator and her husband's daughter, saying that she realized the mistake and knew the hypocrisy of the other party. In the future, she promised to return to the family, live with her husband well, and no longer do those absurd behaviors. Hearing this, Uncle Lu's expression relaxed, and the relationship between the couple finally reconciled.
Aunt Long's behavior not only trampled on the bottom line of marriage, but also humiliated her husband's dignity. Although her temporary indulgence was satisfied, she always nailed herself to the pillar of shame, and at the same time put herself on the opposite side of her family. Love and family affection were in turmoil.
Aunt Long and Uncle Lu are half-way couples. It is really difficult to draw a conclusion on how much emotional components exist in their marriage. However, according to Uncle Lu's statement, he took good care of his wife before he had a stroke, but when he needed his wife to take care of her, his wife changed her heart.
Judging from the unequal performance between the two, perhaps Uncle Lu has love for his wife, but when his wife needs to make efforts, she chooses to escape, and even performs absurd behaviors to hurt and stimulate her husband.
or it is still easy for a husband to take care of his wife for 4 months, but if his wife takes care of a stroke, it can be said that his efforts are invisible at all. It is quite a bit like "no filial son in front of the bed for a long time". 's long-term hard work and hard work extremely tests the relationship between husband and wife. In this world, only the heart and the sun cannot be looked directly at. If you have to look directly at it, it may be a cruel reality.
To be fair, everyone has the right to choose their own happiness. Not everyone can withstand the cruel test of reality. But at least we have to learn to be a person and abide by the moral bottom line of the minimum public order and good customs . Even if cannot continue to make contributions to love, it cannot clearly hurt a person who once loved himself deeply.
You can not love, but please don’t hurt. While pursuing happiness, we should properly resolve the emotional disputes in front of us and let ourselves not move forward with the burden of history. as long as we rationally express our objective appeals, we believe that no one will engage in moral kidnapping of our love. Public opinion values the compliance of the rules, but has never rejected the reasonable and objective appeals of human nature.
How do you view Aunt Long’s behavior of finding a lover to indulge in hurting her husband with a stroke? Everyone is welcome to leave a message to discuss, thank you!
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