Text/Tang Ruo
Original work by Tang Ruo Xinxue
The essence of money is the sum of relationships. There is a saying that if you have good relationships around you, it will be difficult for you to make money.
So behind money is the smoothing of various relationships. If you want to have better financial relationships, please be sure to straighten out the most important relationships in your life.
First, your relationship with yourself
If we want to really make money, we must first straighten out the relationship with ourselves. When you know how to straighten out the relationship with yourself, your inner life will not be consumed, and then your inner life will be integrated.
I once told in a psychological training camp that our relationship with individuals is the source of our other relationships. The better we have a good relationship with ourselves, the better we can have a good relationship with others.
In fact, in many people's lives, their relationship with themselves is very bad. They not only do not accept themselves, but also hate their families. They live in self-blame consumption every day, making their lives dim.
If we want to straighten out our relationship with ourselves, the most important thing is to understand our own feelings, return those unreasonable dependencies to others, and learn to be 100% responsible from now on. Then when we can be completely responsible for ourselves and get rid of those unreasonable dependencies, our relationship with ourselves will naturally become better and better.
Our relationship with ourselves is also the root cause of our relationship with our external relationship. When you want to have more money, learn to straighten out your relationship first. I talked about a lot about how we need to straighten out our relationship with ourselves in the psychological training camp, and it also helps us get to know ourselves again.
If we want to have more money, we must first straighten out the relationship with ourselves. This is the foundation for us to improve the relationship between money.
Learning to trust your own life is to believe in yourself well enough, and to understand that you do not doubt yourself, but to continue to cultivate your own life and continue to care for your own life. Only by making your life better and better.
Second, your relationship with your parents
If a person wants to have more money and good luck, the second relationship we need to straighten out is the relationship with his parents. The relationship between you and your parents determines your support.
If you can continue to gain the support of your parents and inner strength during the growth process of your life, your fortune will get better and better.
The reason why many people have bad money and wealth is essentially due to their inconsistent relationship with their parents. When you know how to straighten out your relationship with your parents, you will not only be connected with your family relationship, but you will also be supported by the family system.
From a certain perspective, the growth of life is a way to straighten the relationship between oneself and others. Many people work and live with a sense of resentment, and of course they cannot get support from others.
A good life is a process of gradually opening oneself, and opening means smoothness and more importantly, connection. We straighten out the relationship with our parents. It does not mean that everything is based on the nature of our parents.
We straighten out the relationship with our parents to be respectful but not blindly obedient, respect each other, but maintain a good sense of boundaries in handling things.
Secondly, we need to accept the limitations of our parents, rather than imagine a perfect parent. When you know how to accept your parents, it is the beginning of our smoothing relationship with our parents.
The essence of growth in life is to be responsible for yourself, not to fulfill your life through your parents. This is the best way for us to do ourselves. Only when you know how to straighten out and accept the relationship between yourself and your parents will gradually become enlightened and cheerful.
The third relationship is to straighten out the relationship with others
Many people tend to regard others as competitors when they get along with others. So when you grow up, you are used to being afraid of relationships with others.
When you treat others as competitors, it is easy to confront each other, and the relationship will be particularly embarrassing.
In fact, all relationships are cooperative relationships, and our cooperation with others in relationships reflects our inner cultivation and further reflects our pattern.
Of course, we are not saying that we should not protect ourselves in relationships. This is necessary. However, we straighten out the relationship with others and are a way to handle things from a higher system and pattern.
I really like there is a teacher Li Zhongying . All good relationships are good, I am, hello everyone. When we turn the relationship into a win-win game and situation between three parties, then the relationship will enter a nourishing state.
If the relationship is exploited or suspicious and opposing, then our lives will be in a state of consumption. The real growth is to cooperate with you, everyone, learn to seek common ground while reserving differences, find each other's cooperation points, and can respect each other and establish a harmonious relationship. Once we know how to develop this pattern in the relationship, our future life will be invincible.
If we want to make the relationship between money better and better, you may have to understand that the growth of life is the sum of the relationship between money. The sum of the relationship between money means that we need to be grateful and grateful to the people around us, so that we will naturally have a better relationship.
Today's topic: What do you think needs to be done if you want to improve your money relationship? Welcome to discuss and communicate.
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