text | Zhu Sinyong
Women, if you want a man to have you in his heart, you need to have a good relationship based on yours. How to manage relationships well
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means that you can see whether each other’s needs are met. Men’s needs in marriage are to be understood, respected, and recognized.
Simply put, it is what he thinks and says. You can understand him when you can have the same frequency. You should make him feel involved and decide on some matters at home, so that he can feel the importance of it. You can usually affirm his progress and behavior.
When his main needs can be met, your relationship will never be bad. A good relationship is more conducive to your cooperation and communication.
The flow of couples' emotions cannot lack effective communication. I recommend a positive communication method "Couple Communication Method" .
1. Communicate the feelings of both parties and be good at describing your own feelings and the feelings of each other.
2. Objectively describe what specific events have occurred and reduce evaluation and accusation.
3. Let the other party understand your thoughts. When communicating, you should make clear your thoughts and not complain about your emotions.
4. Make a clear demand to the other party. You must express clearly how the other party wants to cooperate with you.
5. Can affirm the other party in a timely and sincere manner.
Positive psychological hints can unconsciously enter a state of optimism, which can bring about changes in cognition, emotion and behavior, making people calm, focus and more aware.
In life, no one can reject the energy brought by praise. It will make us feel that it is worth doing something, and thus continue to invest our time and energy with enthusiasm.
The more you communicate your needs between husband and wife, the clearer, more specific and operational the description of the needs, the more likely it is to achieve.
After the request is proposed, the results can be preset to reduce the demand.
When you preset the possible results in advance, that is, after you make a request, you can imagine all possible reactions in advance. Then when he responds, you will not be too lost or anxious, which will affect your mood.
In the process of promoting the realization of demands, we must consciously and continuously strengthen our needs.
In couple interaction, it is not uncommon for our needs to be ignored by our husbands. Don't dare to mention it again just because you were rejected. The reason why he doesn't pay enough attention to
is because you have not strengthened it enough.
If my husband does not achieve this demand, he can continue to raise it next time and continue to strengthen it repeatedly. Gradually, the demand for you in his mind will become deeper and deeper. You will even subconsciously think of your needs and unconsciously complete them.
If your husband has completed your needs, remember to be more sure of him and tell him that you have a good feeling. When he is always affirmed by you, he will be more willing to spoil you. Both of you and your wife will also improve your sense of happiness.
can always satisfy your needs, and your sense of happiness can naturally be gradually improved.
Finally, women should improve their entertainment value rather than pay too much attention to their practical value.
Interesting women always like to listen to his complaints first, and then start a relaxed and interesting topic to make him forget his unpleasant worries.
A wise woman knows how to be a little lazy, and has a little temper. When getting along with men, women should improve their emotional intelligence and be an interesting and vivid person, so that they can relax and enjoy themselves while making the people around them feel like spring breeze.
wonderful recommendations:
After divorce, is it the man who lives a miserable life or the woman who lives a miserable life?
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