Everyone says that in a person's life, middle age is a big hurdle. If you get through it, your life will be smooth. If you can't get through it, you will be sadder.
People who are middle-aged, parents and children have become the objects of concern.
I remember one time I watched a TV series that talked about a scene: a girl is only child, and a boy is also only child. They only have to support eight elderly people after only a few years of marriage.
Because the parents and grandparents of the girl and boy's family are still alive. After they got married, they had children, and the elderly at home gradually grew older.
The elderly do not have a retirement salary, so the burden on the young couple is very heavy.
The elderly cannot find a job. In order to relieve the pressure on their children, they pick up garbage during the day. Their income is very meager, but being able to see money can also make people feel relieved.
After watching this TV series, I felt a little uncomfortable. Before I knew it, the pressure on middle-aged people seemed to be very high.
Even in the countryside, I have a relative in my family who is 53 years old and still has to work hard for my children.
Because he got married late, even though he is 53 years old now, his daughter is still in the third year of high school.
After middle age, it will obviously be more difficult to live a good life without any excess savings.
Sometimes I often think about how to live my life, and I can't sleep no matter how I stay up until night.
But in life, without this level, how can it be considered perfect? Without this period of time, how can it be full of children and grandchildren?
people say that when they were young, they depended on adults. When they grew up, they depended on children.
I don't think so.
The continuation of a family is useless to rely on parents. You need to have a prosperous descendant. The wealth of a family is useless to rely on sons. You need to work together.
No one can rely on himself to lead the entire family to prosperity. There is no one in
, and he can drag down a family just by relying on his own cowardice.
We are irritable and we feel sad. We might as well put the problem first.
Then ask yourself: What level can I do and what can my family bring to me?
Many people feel uncomfortable in middle age, but they are not because they are so difficult about what they are going through, but they always like to put those bad things in their hearts.
doesn't want your family to worry with you. You are afraid that speaking out will make your family's life not peaceful.
There is no way to say the pain in my heart, only I know the tears I shed.
, if you live like this for a long time, it will make people feel depressed.
But who can really get rid of middle-aged anxiety?
Most people face a situation similar to ours. However, as adults, we prefer to force ourselves to smile, and we also prefer to show calmness and responsibility outside.
Because you understand, exposing your fragile self to others will not solve the problem, but it will easily attract villains to harm you.
We all live under high pressure, but as long as we survive step by step, we will be a new sky.
is like people who try their best to get into a professional exam and those who can only run around to do nothing. You are no longer under the sky.
I am a high and low career, but a stable life is something that everyone yearns for.
Because you have worked hard and passed what you want, you have entered a new level.
Similarly, this is not the case when people reach middle age.
During this period, when you have a job, you will work hard to learn skills and find ways to get promoted.
has no hope of promotion, so I find a way to learn a technique and start planning for myself in the future.
If you don’t plan early, when an accident comes, people’s life is the most desperate.
I remember there was a person in my hometown. When he was young, he was the envy of everyone. He worked in a chemical factory. His salary was high at that time. I thought he could work in it for the rest of his life.
But when he was fifty, the chemical factory went bankrupt. He was older and could not find any other jobs. During his time, he did not learn any skills. Even if he was a coolie, he was not as good as others.
can't make money anywhere, and my old age was very miserable.
Middle age is a difficult period, but it is also a period of struggle.
Because at this time, you are no longer as impulsive and confused as you were when you were young, and you are not as immature as you were when you were thirty.
At this time, you have seen too many ups and downs of your life, experienced fraud, blackmail, unemployment, and job-changing. You have also understood more clearly what you can do and what level you need to do to be more likely to succeed.
Some people, after a daze, slowly reach old age.
Some people have been holding these days tightly, and have been rich all their lives together in their later years.
There is no difficulty in life, it is given to you for no reason.
Every time people make progress, difficulties are definitely not stumbling blocks, but ladders that make people climb upwards.
However, some people bravely stepped on it, while others always dared not take action.
I have always believed in one sentence: As long as you work hard, God will not treat anyone unfairly.
for more than one life, I hope you and me can become a better self!
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