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In a relationship, women are always worried about gains and losses, lack some sense of security, and try every means to test their place in a man's heart.
For this reason, some women even did something out of order, causing the two to have misunderstandings.
In fact, there is no need to deliberately test how much a man loves you. He carefully feels your way of getting along with each other and find the answer from his words and deeds.
When you enter a person's heart, how much care will he care about you? The answer to the question
is worth pondering. Maybe it is to remember your every word and deed in your heart, maybe it is to carve your every frown and smile in your heart, or to announce your existence to his parents and friends, or to think about you all the time.
answer is not unique, and the characteristics are the same.
Because everyone has different personalities, some men are steady and self-sustaining, some men are lively and extroverted, some men are dull, and some men are smart and sensitive...
So, when such characteristics return to daily life, how should you self-test how much a man loves you?
is actually very simple, just observe how long it takes to contact you.
The reason is very simple. If a man loves you, you will definitely be his primary and only person to talk to.
may be an interesting thing I saw on the way to work, or a difficult problem encountered at work. When he wants to talk and pick up his phone, the dialog box that he subconsciously clicks on must be yours.
If a man doesn’t love you, then at best you are a fish in his fish pond, hanging it when he is free and leaving it behind when he is busy.
If you love you very much, the message frequency will be in line with the rhythm of his life
In this era, many people will use a unified excuse to explain the reason why they do not reply to messages: "Busy". It is actually impossible to verify whether
is really "busy" or fake "busy".
So as soon as you say it, you can stop the other party's inquiries and accusations. Because you are very busy, you don't reply to messages. This reason can be said to be seamless.
So under this answer, how should a woman determine his true situation?
First of all, observe his life rhythm, that is, the simplest time period for getting up, going out, working, dining, getting off work, and getting home. Of course, it is not required to copy and paste every day, but the difference in this time period should be controlled within half an hour.
Secondly, observe whether it sends you a message during these time periods.
Although you will forget to eat and sleep at work, or you will concentrate on drinking and having fun at dinner, or you will accidentally oversleep when you sleep, there will definitely be a gap in sending you a message between the changes in these things.
Finally, combine time and message to observe how stable he does these things.
If he did this today and there will be no news tomorrow, it means that he does not want to chat with you. If he is in this state day after day, then it can basically be sure that he really loves you.
In fact, the reason for this observation is very simple, or the meaning given by this set of observations is very simple:
If he loves you, he will let you understand his entire life. Even if you are far apart, you are still as if in front of you, and his life will be displayed in front of you in all directions and in a flexible manner.
You will suddenly find that even if he is busy with work and not much news about it, you still know his entire life, and you can even know exactly what he is doing at this moment.
If he doesn't love you, then his message will be automatically replied to
Shen Congwen persistently loves his wife Zhang Zhaohe , which can be seen from the letters he wrote.
They were newly married and farewell. In the chaotic world, Shen Congwen passed on his pain of longing and his unique insights into the world to Zhang Zhaohe through one family letter after another.
He wrote: I have walked through many roads, walked through many bridges, seen many clouds, drank many kinds of wine, but I have only loved one of the best age.
He always cares about someone in his heart, someone who has the patience to listen to his storytelling. And he is also willing to tell him all his thoughts word by word.
He didn't feel bored, and every word in his pen contained a deep longing for her. Although he and her were separated for many years, nothing changed. He wrote to him frequently, and every word was love.
If a man loves you, even a simple greeting can convey his love for you. If he doesn't love you, even if he says the three words "I love you" in his own mouth, it will still be like a cliché.
If a man doesn't love you, the speed or time of his reply to your message must be when he is bored. Once he has other things to do, he will definitely not think of you.
If he doesn't love you, he may suddenly send you a message in the middle of the night or in the early morning, or during lunch break.
In short, the time he sends the message must not match his life rhythm, nor do you match your life rhythm, it depends entirely on his own preferences.
Time emotional class:
How much a man loves you can tell from the time he contacts you.
This kind of time is not a deliberate act, not a fixed time and point, but as long as he can pick up his phone, he can send you a message or call you.
In the Korean variety show "Transfer Love 2", the ex-boyfriend of Wu Haien is a good example.
Because he doesn't love Hayn anymore, even though Hayn is right in front of him, even if Hayn sends him text messages every day, he still ignores it.
Even if two people are under the same roof, he will never take the initiative to contact Hayn. Even if Hayn is injured, as his former lover, he can be indifferent.
So, if a man loves you, he will definitely want to contact you anytime, anywhere.
On the contrary, if a man is never willing to contact you on his own initiative, then he must not love you and there will be no other reason.
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