Zhang Han, the person seeking help, said that his husband Zhao Jun was in a car accident two months ago and was in a coma. Now my father-in-law Zhao Jianfei ignores his two grandsons and forces him to sell his only property to save his husband Zhao Jun.

Zhang Han

Seeking helper Zhang Han said that his husband Zhao Jun was in a car accident two months ago and has been in a coma until now. Now my father-in-law Zhao Jianfei ignores his two grandsons and forces him to sell his only property to save his husband Zhao Jun.

But my father-in-law Zhao Jianfei has one property, three storefronts, and is well-funded. So what exactly made Zhao Jianfei do such an unreasonable thing?

The husband suddenly encountered a car accident, but his wife was out of the matter

Zhao Jun

Zhao Jun is 32 years old and the owner of a clothing factory. He suddenly suffered a car accident two months ago and was sent to the hospital in an emergency. He had an operation immediately, but his condition was not good after the operation.

Recently, it was found that bilateral ventricle enlargement was a manifestation of hydrocephalus . A second surgery is urgently needed to restore consciousness. Otherwise, the consequences will be unimaginable.

Because it was drunk driving at the time, all medical expenses were paid by yourself.

This means that not only does it require a lot of financial support, but also a special nursing staff is needed to take care of day and night in every detail.

As Zhao Jun's wife, Zhang Han, only came once on the night of the car accident, and later visited him occasionally a few times. At other times, Zhao Jun's aunt Zhao Yufen was taking good care of him.

Zhao Jun's aunt

As Zhao Jun's father, Zhao Jianfei, just received more than 200,000 yuan during Zhao Jun's first operation. Later, on the grounds that his second wife did not agree, he never took care of his son for a day.

My aunt is nearly 60 years old and takes care of a 180cm young man day and night. Whether in terms of physical strength or energy, she is really unable to do so.

Now the attending doctor proposed to have a second operation based on Zhao Jun's condition. Faced with the expensive surgical expenses and medical expenses, Zhao Jianfei asked his daughter-in-law to sell their house, but Zhang Han firmly opposed it. As a nurse, she even said something that she lets her husband die here.

Then what did Zhao Jun do to make his closest wife so cruel and ruthless to him?

failed to settle the wave and then

The problem of secondary surgery fee has not been solved yet. Another mysterious man came to the hospital, claiming to be a worker from Zhao Jun’s clothing factory, and on behalf of all the workers, came to ask the boss’s wife for wages.

garment factory workers asked for wages

Because Zhang Han had visited the garment factory some time ago, he sold more than 200,000 yuan worth of equipment, and kept saying that he sold it to the workers for wages, but nearly a month has passed, and there has been no movement.

. Zhang Han said that the money had already paid back the loan to her husband. Is Zhang Han lying to avoid responsibility? Or is Zhang Han having money but not treating her husband?

How to solve the second surgery fee of Zhao Jun?

In order to solve the problem, Zhao Jun's aunt took the reporter to find Zhao Jianfei first.

Reasons for Zhao Jianfei to ask his daughter-in-law to sell the house

Zhao Jianfei and Zhang Han

Zhao Jianfei said with a puzzled look: "If this happened three years ago, I wouldn't even blink, because I ran a clinic at that time and had a fixed income."

"But since I had a stroke, I not only lost my source of income, but also took medicine all year round. To be honest, I had paid the storefront for two years in order to save my son."

"Before my son got married, I gave them a house in City A, and later they sold it and bought one in City B. Since it's true that I have paid for the rent for my storefront for two years."

"Before my son got married, I gave them a house in City A, and later they sold it and bought one in City B. Now that my daughter-in-law doesn't work, she must pay for it! "

" Besides, the house itself is the property I gave them, so I have the right to ask her to sell the house to save my son. "

" I have a house and three houses, but I have a wife in my family. As a stepmother, she used to buy a house and a car for Zhao Jun. Now I can't make money, and I dare not ask her for money anymore. Besides, it's not a small amount. I have been hiding the advance rent from her."

In the end, he insisted that his daughter-in-law sell the house first. Saving her son's life is important. He will pay for the mother and son to rent a house first. In the future, when his son recovers, he will buy another house for them, and ensure that he will do what he says!

, but Zhang Han shook his head and said his thoughts and reasons frankly.

Zhang Han told me about his 7-year marriage and his reason for being cold toward her husband

8 years ago, after I graduated from college, I came to Guangzhou to make a fuss because of my departure from my hometown and the heavy work, which made me feel very lonely and helpless.

At that time, I met my fellow villager Zhao Jun through someone's introduction. His handsome appearance and gentle and considerate care for me made me fall in love quickly.

Zhang Han and Zhao Jun

After marriage, we spent three years of poverty but happy time in a rental house in Guangzhou, and gave birth to two sons one after another.

At that time, after his failed investment in lamps, he had no fixed job. In addition, two young children needed to be taken care of, so he chose to take care of the children at home and I went to work outside.

At that time, he was very patient and careful in taking care of the children. I was busy with work and often worked night shifts. Every time I went home, I could eat a bite of hot meal.

I understand the difficulty of raising children very much, and I always think that he is the most responsible and responsible good husband in the world. So when he proposed to start a business again, I chose to support it unconditionally.

And in order to make him start a business with peace of mind, I quit my beloved nurse job and specialize in taking care of two children at home.

Shortly after starting his business, he said that the company's working capital was insufficient, so I supported him to sell his wedding house in City A and sold it for 750,000 yuan.

of them, 400,000 yuan was used as the down payment, and another loan was bought in City B. He used 200,000 yuan to pay off his entrepreneurial loan, 40,000 yuan rented a factory, and 30,000 yuan rented an employee dormitory, and all the rest was given to him as working capital.

Zhang Han’s new home

I didn’t get a penny for that 750,000. Although he looks like the boss of a glorious clothing factory, in fact, we have emptied all our savings.

If you sell the house in City B as required by your father-in-law, no matter whether you have a mortgage or a sale, you will not be able to get much money because it is not the full amount.

Since I married my husband, I have never asked for a penny for my husband's family. Even the tens of thousands of dollars needed to decorate a new house are paid by myself. For the past three or four years, I have been raising and caring for both children.

Now my father-in-law only considers his son, not his two grandsons, and is also partial to the son and daughter he and his second wife, so he insists on letting me sell the house.

plus he is old, and now he verbally says that he might be a short check if he buys us another set in the future.

Now there is a property in the name of my father-in-law, with three storefronts, and the storefronts are all in prosperous areas. The rent is only hundreds of thousands of yuan per year. Selling a storefront will not hurt the root cause.

Now my father-in-law just wants to squeeze me and make me compromise. He is simply forcing me to be forced to kidnap on me .

Zhao Jianfei strongly asked Zhang Han to sell the house to save his husband

Since you are ruthless, I will not save face for him and his son. To be honest, there is a large part of the reason why I can't take care of Zhao Jun now because I discovered his unknown secret after he was in a car accident, which broke my heart.

Since his startup this time, we have lived a life of separation from two places, and he is like a completely different person.

He pretended to be a single rich second generation, and actually squandered the money from the loan outside, and did not give his family a penny of living expenses.

After he got into a car accident, I sorted out his phone and found that he cheated more than once, and he also used the house we lived in as a mortgage loan of 200,000 yuan, plus a credit card and Huabei overdrawn of 100,000 yuan.

Now he has no ability to repay. I have consulted the bank and said that the money must be paid back, so it still fell on me.

There were four women in his car when he was in a car accident, one of which was his girlfriend. He drove after drinking and driving. He was eating, drinking and having fun with other women, and was so happy that he became sad.

I was really painful and entangled after I knew it. I have been in the torment of morality and heartbreak in the past two months.

When I saw his wedding photo, I remembered the sweetness of my life with him before, coupled with the professional qualities developed by the nurse for 7 years, and wanted to put aside everything and save him.

But when I think of him wandering around with other women, I feel instantly unbalanced and feel heartbroken. My wholehearted efforts for this family for many years have been exchanged for his ruthless betrayal! I feel that this is God's retribution.

plus two young children need to be taken care of, so I was too tired, so I didn’t want to go to the hospital to take care of him.

I want to keep our house for the sake of my two children. It is the shelter of our mother and son, and it is also the only guarantee for our survival. I will take good care of them, protect their lives, and solve the Zhao family's worries.

I no longer care about what Zhao Jun had done before, and truly do not blame him for his past, after all, his life is in danger now.

As for the responsibility of taking care of Zhao Jun in the hospital, I hope Zhao Jun’s biological mother can stand up.

As for all the costs of the secondary operation, I hope my father-in-law can weigh the pros and cons, discuss with Zhao Jun's stepmother, and sell a storefront.

This is the most suitable solution I have come up with. Because of danger, only if the whole family works together can we overcome the difficulties together.

Found Zhao Jun's stepmother Liu Min

Zhang Han and Zhao Jun's aunt

Zhao Jun's aunt felt that Zhang Han made sense, because his younger brother's house and storefront were 4 places, and any place was more valuable than Zhang Han's house.

But first of all, you have to do the ideological work of his second wife.

My younger brother was indeed very popular before he got sick. He was the only one who had the ability and skills to accumulate a lot of wealth.

But since he got sick three years ago, he has been unable to do anything and is subject to his second wife everywhere, including now he does not dare to come to the hospital to take care of his son and does not dare to sell his presence easily, which is a sign that he cannot afford to offend his wife.

So the group came to Zhao Jianfei's house to do ideological work for his wife Liu Min.

A group of people found Liu Min

As soon as they arrived at the door, they saw Liu Min. Liu Min saw the Zhao family's face full of hostility.

When the reporter explained his purpose, she complained.

"Since entering this house, I have regarded Zhao Jun as my own. Although he grew up with his aunt, I have always cared about him and have never treated him financially."

"When he graduated from college, he wanted to start a business, so I gave him startup funds to do the lamp business without saying a word. Although I failed later, I never said a word of blame."

"Including buying a house and a car for him to organize a marriage, I did nothing worse than my biological mother."

LIU Min told reporters that as a stepmother, he had done a good job as a stepmother

"But since he had a car accident, the Zhao family has always treated me as an outsider's guardian, and he hides everything from me. He did not discuss with me when he arranged for someone to take care of him and did not treat me as the mistress of this family. My stepmother has not received the respect she deserves."

"My despair was forced out by the Zhao family."

And Zhao Jun's aunt said that if Liu Min had not stopped Zhao Jianfei from taking care of his son, the Zhao family would not interfere with Zhao Jianfei's family affairs.

In this way, the two sides started a fierce quarrel.

Liu Min asks Zhang Han about the financial situation

Liu Min finds Zhang Han and asks her why Zhao Jianfei gets the money for the first surgery? Shouldn’t a wife bear the obligation to treat her husband first?

After Zhang Han explained the financial situation at home to her, she became even more angry and immediately took out the divorce agreement prepared in advance.

Liu Min plans to divorce in advance

It seems that she had long thought that Zhao Jianfei would do everything for his son. Even if he was reluctant, he would be forced to treat him under the pressure of the Zhao family.

So she wants her husband to make a choice in saving his son and preserving his marriage.

Zhao Jianfei never expected that his wife, who had lived with him for nearly 30 years, would use this trick. He was disappointed and angry and immediately expressed his agreement to divorce, but he needed to carefully consider the distribution of property before making a decision.

also strengthened his determination to sell a storefront to save his son.

The second surgery fee has been solved, and Zhao Jun’s daily care problem has to be solved. After all, Zhao Jun’s aunt is over fifty years old and cannot stand the trouble.

So the group came to find Zhao Jun's biological mother Zou Yan.

Zhao Jun's biological mother Zou Yan's difficulties

Zhao Jun's biological mother Zou Yan

She told reporters: "Since I divorced Zhao Jianfei, I have experienced two failed marriages. The reason why mother and son have not met for so many years is not that they don't want to see each other, but that there is a reason for it."

"I left his son when he was three years old. He has always been my biggest concern. At first it was because of the obstruction of the second-married husband, and I couldn't help it. Later, after the divorce, I couldn't protect myself and had no face to face my son."

"Until I married my third husband, I was still the one who was not allowed to do so. Later, after the divorce, I couldn't protect myself and had no face to face my son."

"Until I married my third husband, I was still the one who married me. Only then did I have the ability to see him, but I didn't expect to be blocked by Liu Min again. "

" Now I am over fifty years old, and I ended my third marriage not long ago and raised a minor daughter alone. "

" I went to the hospital that night of the car accident and gave Zhang Han 10,000 yuan, which I did my best. I also wanted to give my son a little more, but after all, I have limited ability and have no desire but not enough strength. "

" But I can go to the hospital to take care of my son. I will do my best to make up for the love I have lost for so many years!"

It's like this, regardless of financial or human resources, the matter has been successfully solved!

Conclusion

I have to say that Zhao Jun is a man with a miserable life. Logically speaking, children who grow up in such a complex family should know how to cherish their small family. However, this is not the case. I hope he will realize his mistakes after he wakes up.

As a man who stands tall and upright, he should be the pillar of the family and take good care of his wife and children. Unexpectedly, he was obsessed with it and embarked on the wrong path. Ignoring your family and doing things randomly will inevitably be punished by God!

As a middle-aged couple, there are old people and young people. No matter who falls down, the whole family will collapse. At this time, family affection is particularly important. Only when the whole family unites can they finally overcome the danger. Instead of slandering each other.

May everyone cherish their small home, love their own everyone, and everyone is healthy, safe and smooth!

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