There are always many women who think that getting a certificate, getting married, and having a child is a lifelong thing, and they can "liberate their nature" and completely lie down.
Little do you know that all marriages in the world need to be managed, and you need to manage yourself and grow yourself.
No matter who it is, there is no obligation to accept the willfulness, sloppyness and inability to grow up of women.
Happy women with high emotional intelligence in their relationship will manage themselves with their hearts and are particularly good at doing the following 5 things to make their relationship healthier and their families more harmonious.
Business your own image
World's life path is to manage yourself well. The first thing is to dress up, manage your external image, and live a decent life.
Montesquieu said:
"A woman can be beautiful only in one way, but she can make herself more cute in thousands of ways."
Even if she does not have a "beautiful" beauty, she must improve herself in temperament and clothing, and then be full of confidence and charm.
A woman, no matter twenty, thirty, forty, or even sixty or seventy, her image and temperament are too important for a woman.
You should dress appropriately according to your figure, skin color and style, and manage your external image and temperament. Let yourself live with a decent image, so that life will not treat you badly.
Reading and growing yourself
Marriage is not the best destination for women, but self-growth can be the destination of women for life.
There are many beautiful skins in the world, but there are very few interesting souls. There is a kind of women who may not have the beauty that is charming, but they have extremely interesting souls.
. In women who keep reading habits, there is a kind of . Watching the flowers bloom and fall in front of the courtyard, leaving without any intention, . Looking at the clouds rolling in the sky, ” . A woman like
always has her own light when walking in the crowd, and she can't help but make people want to get close.
With the habit of reading, you will no longer let life down and ignore yourself. When you work, you work hard; when you are free, you read and calm down. You will dare to try new things.
Learn emotional wisdom
The most important thing in life is actually to gain a sense of happiness and accomplishment.
If we want to achieve these two things, each of us needs to develop two important two quotients:
One is a professional work skill, which is the IQ of learning to make a living. The other is emotional wisdom and communication.
It can help us correctly interpret our own emotions and others' emotions, and avoid misunderstandings and conflicts. A person's emotional wisdom is a kind of wisdom with higher IQ.
Emotional wisdom has a huge impact on our career and marriage in life. A woman with emotional wisdom and communication skills:
Her ability to understand her inner emotional needs and correctly interpret various complex emotions.
Her ability to effectively guide and deal with her various emotions.
At the same time, it can also guide and deal with and face other people's emotions.
You have become a wife and mother without learning, but you can improve your emotional wisdom, learn the ability to love and manage a good marriage, so that your marriage and family can be happier.
Learn to manage finance, economically independent
"The essence of financial management is to manage life." So women must be able to manage their finances and be financially independent.
Learning financial planning and mastering certain skills is a capital for women's economic independence and a means of self-protection for modern women.
Modern women not only need to take good care of their families and children, but also have to work hard to make money at work. The pressure they bear can be imagined.
But even if you give so, women cannot escape the risk of marriage breakdown. My wife cheated during pregnancy, and her husband started from scratch and abandoned her wife after she became rich... Have you heard little about such social news?
The New Marriage Law advocates Equality between men and women freedom. The standard for property division during divorce is "who earns it will belong to whoever earns it." Obviously, " Marriage Law " protects property, not love.
If a woman does not have independent financial ability and does not know how to manage finances and increase wealth, then once the marriage relationship breaks down, your world will collapse instantly.
Financial management and economic independence are the only bargaining chips for modern women to protect themselves. It can not only help you improve your quality of life, maintain a decent image and a decent life, but also protect you from being hurt less in your married life.
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Know how to socialize
You will find that the outstanding and happy women around you especially like to meet new friends and socialize
You will find that all the outstanding and happy women around you especially like to meet new friends and socialize .
In their opinion, meeting new friends can bring in new fields and there are endless topics to talk about.
Women who know how to socialize will use their free time to gather with friends and talk about interesting things in their respective industries. With laughter and joy, they may suddenly have unexpected inspiration or gains for their work or life, and may even be an opportunity.
When a woman grows up, she must not be afraid of socializing upwardly, and she will not be afraid of being rejected if she takes the initiative to find others.
The road you have walked in the past few decades, the old clothes you have worn, the books you have read, the things you have experienced, the wealth you have accumulated, the friends you have dated have become what you are today and what you are in front of everyone.
The meaning of some women is to help themselves grow up. All their experiences are to make themselves understand themselves better.
They approach light, follow light, become light, and emit light.
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