The article "Waiting for the First See in the Next Life" reads:
"In fact, there are many ways of love, and the way of love is just one. Sometimes it is not that the other party does not love you, but that you do not understand the way he loves you."
Some people are separated not because they do not love, but because they do not understand their love, so they waste time in a relationship and torture in a relationship.
But in fact, any relationship needs to be constantly adjusted and changed.
A person needs to know how to express his feelings and also needs to understand the other person's feelings. Only in this way can each other's lives be integrated and make life more harmonious.
There are always some women who habitually complain that men do not care about themselves enough, and even praise other men in various ways, hoping to use this to stimulate men so that they can get more care from men.
But in most cases, those women do not know much about men's feelings. They are just used to thinking about problems from their own perspective. They just envy women who live better than themselves, so the sharp blade of envy points to men.
If a man truly loves a woman, but because his love is not understood, then the woman’s complaints to him will be a great harm.
If you are in such an atmosphere for a long time, a man dares not love, love will completely die, and the days when the two of you will be together will be completely messy.
In fact, only those who truly love you are willing to treat you like this.
01: Give you the best
I have met a couple, and my relationship is enviable.
At that time, we were in a remote mountainous area, and the conditions were not good in all aspects, but we were not here to experience life, and there was nothing to complain about the environment.
That couple is both capable and optimistic, and everyone around them likes them very much.
However, at the beginning, because these two people had almost no communication, I couldn't tell that they were husband and wife, and even joked with a few smiles.
until later on the dining table , facing a plate of dishes with almost no meat, I saw with my own eyes that after searching for several times, I picked out a piece of lean meat and handed it to the woman's bowl, and said to the woman with disgust: "This lean meat is too hard, and you have to find a toothpick after eating, you can eat it."
The matter has not yet come to an end. After the woman finished the meal, she ran back into the house, took out the soda that she couldn't bear to drink, and handed it to him, "It is easy to hiccup if you drink too much, will hiccup . I don't want to drink anymore, you can drink it." After
finished speaking, the two of them kept laughing there.
At that moment, I was really fed a lot of dog food. They were obviously about thirty years old, and they lived a life similar to falling in love with a young man.
In fact, it is really obvious whether you love or not, because only those who love you will always want to give you the best things.
Just like the love words written by Wang Xiaobo :
"Although I am mediocre, I really want to give you all the best things."
True love is not stingy. He is willing to give you his best things, rather than measuring the pros and cons before every action.
Even if you don’t have the true confession of “I love you”, you will express deep affection everywhere. If you pay attention to such details, you will not blame the other party for not loving you.
02: It’s not easy to be sympathetic to you
Fujian richest man Cao Dewang met a confidante when he was young. The confidante was very compatible with him, so he had the idea of divorceing his wife Chen Fengying and wrote a letter to file for divorce.
. Facing Cao Dewang's letter, Chen Fengying did not make a big fuss or spoke up. She asked her sister-in-law to reply to Cao Dewang, and only put forward two conditions. One was that the child belonged to him and there were someone to accompany him, and the other was to give her the house in her hometown so that she could have a place to live.
It was precisely because of his wife's virtuousness that Cao Dewang began to feel shaky inside. Thinking about the loss of money from starting a business at that time, Chen Fengying took out all his dowry and sold it to support his entrepreneurship.
Now that he has achieved success, he wants to abandon the people who have been together through thick and thin, the scene of his wife willingly giving for his family is flashed back in his mind. He knows that without a wife, he doesn't have the current self at all.
Thinking of this, Cao Dewang let go. He broke off the relationship with his confidante, went home to apologize to Chen Fengying, and transferred all his property to his wife's name.
Marriage will eventually become dull. Even if two people fall in love, as they walk, love gradually turns into family affection. Therefore, some people feel that they no longer love each other, some people are ready to look forward to life outside the siege, and some even regard extramarital affairs as true love.
When those people truly lose the happiness around them, they often suddenly realize that they are not unloved, but they just don’t know how to love and how to cherish love. Unfortunately, time has no turning back and there is no chance to come back.
In fact, a person who truly loves you will be sympathetic to your difficulties.
Even if love and affection are blinded by the years, a person who truly loves you can still find your difficulties and understand your difficulties.
Lin Huiyin once said:
"Happiness is such a luxury. There are always too many regrets in life, and you and I can't let you and I let you and I go and have fun."
Love that is in love is really difficult. If someone loves you, cherish it carefully and don't wait until you miss it before realizing your deep affection.
I am Aya, the writer of warm emotions. How lucky I can meet you in this life! Click to follow and let’s learn together!
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