Zhu Dunru said: "The world is as short as spring dreams, and people's feelings are as thin as autumn clouds."
In life, there is nothing more than people's hearts and people's feelings are as thin as paper.
No matter when, it will always be much more convenient for someone to do things, but human feelings are also the easiest to make people fall into the end.
human feelings are full of helplessness
That year, I went to the sixth grade of elementary school in a small town, and my academic performance is neither good nor bad. After the midterm exam of
, my mother went to school to learn about my study situation.
The math teacher said to my mother directly in front of many teachers: "Your child's academic performance is too poor, teach it well."
I can now imagine my mother's embarrassment expression at that time.
When my mother returned home, she just learned what the math teacher said from me. Not long after, my mother and I were choosing vegetables together.
My mother said, "I'll give you some gifts to your math teacher and ask her to take care of you more."
I directly refused, saying no, I hate math teacher. I don’t know if
was given in the end, but I was really disgusted with gifts at that time.
My mother actually doesn’t want to give gifts. She also thought of giving something to the teacher out of helplessness, wanting the other party to take care of me more.
Many times, if you don’t give gifts, you won’t be able to do anything.
If you want your leader to promote you, you will definitely be able to greet and give gifts in private;
If you want to get things done quickly, you will definitely bend down with a smile to the other party;
If you want to make the other party less trouble, you will definitely be able to make the other party's wallet;
...
Do they want to give gifts?
They didn't want to do it, and they were helpless, but there was no way. People were in love with each other, and they benefited each other.
is not something that can be accepted by any human relationship
Once something happens, will someone come to help you?
If this is true, then there is no difference between poor and rich.
Friends must be based on the exchange of values and win-win interests between the two parties.
Whether others can help you, they will first consider whether they will lose their own interests and whether they will harm you.
Before helping others, you must put your own interests first.
I have read a story:
The boss of a branch was flattered and dedicated by many subordinates
Because once this boss resigns, he will have a certain say who should be promoted in the next position.
appears to turn a blind eye to subordinates' flattery, but they will also take some benefits in private.
But money is generally not collected.
People nowadays are very smart. They can record and shoot videos. Once these are revealed, the boss can't afford to take care of it.
Therefore, gifts that should be received will be collected, and gifts that should not be collected will never be collected.
favors also need to be divided into matters and situations.
If you take a piece of it that you can’t do, it’s best to let go, otherwise it will only harm yourself.
Appropriate use of favors can help us avoid detours, but we cannot overdo it.
Excessive consumption of your favor will only make yourself and the other person go further and further.
Human feelings and worldly ways, you will know the warmth and coldness!
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