When it comes to mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it seems that 9 of the ten people are dissatisfied, and another one may not be together.
Everyone thinks that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good, unless they are lucky, they will not have a chance to be with them.
Some people also think that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is as good as money. In fact, whether it is money or distance, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also a kind of relationship.
As long as it is a relationship, it conforms to the principle of good relationship: mild language and good intentions.
Even if you are as close as a mother and daughter, and as close as a couple, if you do not tolerate each other, you can only complain about each other, you cannot think about each other, and you cannot contribute to your efforts in the family and always rely on each other, it is also difficult to be good.
Good relationships are opened by gentle words
As the saying goes, a good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts people in June.
There is no deep feelings for each other, or if you want to gradually build a good impression, it starts with language.
Because of one sentence, everyone may feel that they can't get along because a thorn planted in each other's hearts.
" Happiness to Wanjia" in " Happiness to Wanjia" " was detected to be bleeding because the sick child fainted. The harm of water pollution was gradually exposed. When she got home, her mother-in-law said that Xiaodou had diarrhea, so she was worried and took her to the hospital for a visit immediately.
But my mother-in-law has also brought it there, and she didn't know about it, so she felt depressed and felt that she was taking care of their children, so she was afraid that it would be bad for her to fall into trouble. Unexpectedly, she was still unsatisfied with happiness.
So I saw Xingfu bringing the child back and not having dinner. I also said that she would not take it anymore. Xingfu was always worried about Xiaodouzi. At this time, I heard from my husband that my mother-in-law had misunderstood.
So she hurried in and explained the whole story to her mother-in-law. At first, her mother-in-law mistakenly thought that happiness was the one she said, but later she found out the situation.
The conflict between the two has finally been resolved.
But many people may be on their own standpoint, for example, Xingfu feels that mother-in-law is making a fuss and there is nothing unreasonable to bring it with her. If you don’t explain it when you come back, then mother-in-law will feel even less painful.
After the mother-in-law explained happiness, if she still grasped the matter, spoke ill of each other, and got angry, then the relationship between the two people would probably not be good from now on, and dissatisfaction would begin to take root and sprout from now on.
After that, whenever something happens, two people may speak ill of each other, and it is difficult to get along peacefully.
Kind-willed actions to bless the continuous relationship
If gentle words make two people willing to get closer, then kind-willed actions can really make two people trust each other.
Although the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are just as harmonious as they appear and don’t need to trust them, if they can really go further, it will be of great help to the happiness of the entire family.
In "Happiness to Ten Thousand Family", the mother-in-law said in front of the whole family, I will give you all the keys to the whole family. If you come to this family, our Wang family will benefit you from your blessing.
It is not that happiness wants to covet their family’s rights, but my mother-in-law’s move really treats happiness as a family member and supports her from the bottom of her heart.
Happiness will be rewarded with happiness when feeling the love my mother-in-law has for herself.
Many people say that if the Wang family does not have two smart women, Happiness and mother-in-law, they can only live a cowardly life.
Mr. Nan Huaijin said that you should be strict with yourself; when blaming others for your mistakes, don’t be as strict as yourself.
This way, there will be less resentment towards colleagues and family members.
On the contrary, when you have heavy demands on others and less demands on yourself, and don’t just consider yourself in everything, it is difficult to have a harmonious relationship.
The same is true for the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. They cannot escape like other relationships, so they can only realize that this person has a close relationship with them in the future.
is a mutually touching relationship. Elders love their daughter-in-law and can maintain their son's marriage. Only when their daughter-in-law knows how to respect their mother-in-law can the family be harmonious.
Then even if the relationship is not good, it will not be bad.
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