Be a positive person
Facing the same half cup of water, negative people say sadly: "It's so bad, only half cup of water is left."
, while optimistic people will say: "It's great, there's still half cup of water."
has the same thing, but has completely different attitudes to life and value judgments, which are also two completely different self-psychological hints.
In the famous movie "Gone with Gone", we often see the heroine - the beautiful Scarlett , which has a typical habit.
means that whenever she encounters any troubles or problems that cannot be solved, she will happily say to herself: "I don't think about it now. If you think about it tomorrow, tomorrow will be another day."
In fact, this idea of "thinking about it tomorrow will be another day" is a way to give her soul a vacation, which is an optimistic and cheerful personality.
If you have been thinking about a problem for a day and still have no significant progress, then you should not think about it and not make any decisions for the time being, so that the problem can be slowly solved as time goes by.
If you can't let go and still think about it with all your heart, then you can't think of any good method, because your condition was already in a trough at that time. I believe that thinking of it is not the best method.
If you are an optimistic person, no matter how difficult the things are, they will have a positive side in your opinion. When encountering things, you will first make it optimistic and simplify them. This is a foregone conclusion, and you will also think about bringing back to life.
If each of us knows how to put optimistic thoughts in our hearts
we will have hope, strength, and courage, which will make us happily pursue our dreams and get what we want.
Qing Dynasty people Jin Shengtan is also a person who is always optimistic about life. He is free and optimistic, and knows how to play and understand the joy of life.
Once, he lived with a friend. It rained outside the house for 10 days and was bored when sitting opposite each other. He talked to his friends about the joys in daily life one by one, and listed more than 30 "very happy" things.
In Jin Shengtan's eyes, ordinary life is full of happiness everywhere.
This just confirms a sentence from Newton : "A happy life is caused by happy thoughts, and happy thoughts are caused by optimistic personality."
Optimistic personality makes people's life full of joy and brings happiness, and they are still confident and optimistic in the face of difficulties and ups and downs.
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