Introduction:
Shakespeare wrote in his " King Lear ": ignorant children can extinguish people's hearts more than the sharp teeth of poisonous snakes.
In fact, ungrateful children are actually ungrateful ungrateful wolves. Their parents have been in vain for more than 20 years, but in the end they are in vain.
In a family, the more children, the more secure the parents will be in their later years. After all, if the east is not bright, the west is bright, if this child is not raised, the other child will support it.
However, some children like to shirk responsibility. Anyway, there are many parents and children, so if you don’t raise them, they will naturally be raised by other children. But no one expected that if you shirk me, my parents would eventually fall to the point where no one would support them.
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After supporting her mother-in-law for 5 years, Su Min realized that her heart was soft-hearted and caused such a big trouble for herself. It is obvious that my mother-in-law belongs to everyone, and the three families should take turns to support her. Why do you now put all the responsibility for retirement? You shirke your responsibility for various reasons and are unwilling to take responsibility?
Su Min has been married to her husband for 8 years, but she has supported her mother-in-law for 5 years. Just because her husband is the eldest, her younger brothers and sisters have all the responsibility for their parents' retirement.
My husband is a filial son. He felt sorry for his parents and raised three siblings. Naturally, he would not refuse to accept his parents for retirement. And my husband's big take on it naturally made Su Min suffer.
Plus when Su Min gave birth to her first child, her mother-in-law served her confinement period with all her heart and helping her bring the child to half a year old. Just because of her mother-in-law's kindness, Su Min couldn't push her in-laws out.
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Since her in-laws came to her home, Su Min's life has indeed been much easier. After all, her mother-in-law is a diligent and not lazy person. My mother-in-law took care of all the housework and meals at home. Su Min is able to eat hot meals late after get off work, and her mother-in-law's contribution is indispensable.
But at the same time, Su Min also became financially nervous. My parents-in-law are older and their health is not as good as before, and they are suffering from minor illnesses and pains. Every time her parents-in-law gets sick and is hospitalized, she and her husband are always running up and down.
My brother-in-law and sister-in-law always shirke their responsibilities for various reasons. Over time, everyone took it for granted that Su Min and his wife paid and worked hard to take care of their parents. No one had ever considered that their family had just started and their financial difficulties were too short.
Although Su Min was frustrated, considering her in-laws' kindness and diligence, she did not bother with her brother-in-law and sister-in-law. Until my father-in-law fell seriously ill and needed surgery, and the operation cost was 100,000 yuan. The couple would not be able to afford so much money for a while.
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Su Min called his brother-in-law and sister-in-law one by one and asked them to come to the hospital to discuss the cost of the surgery. As a result, Su Min waited in the hospital for a day, and neither her brother-in-law nor sister-in-law showed up. It was not until the evening that my brother-in-law and sister-in-law rushed over to sue him, saying that he was busy with work and had no skills.
Su Min didn't talk to them much, and directly asked that the operation cost was 100,000 yuan, and the postoperative recovery was 20,000 yuan, totaling 120,000 yuan, and the three siblings, each sharing 40,000 yuan. Seeing that my sister-in-law raised money with them, my sister-in-law jumped up the first time: "Married daughter, splashed water, I have no obligation to share the responsibilities my son should bear. But that is my parents after all, I will get 20,000 yuan. The rest are you just a share of your sons."
Seeing that my sister-in-law was only willing to pay 20,000 yuan, my brother-in-law also stood up and said that he had just gotten married and there were places where money was used everywhere. He didn't have much savings, so he could only get 20,000 yuan, and the remaining 80,000 yuan. I hope my brother and sister-in-law will have it. After all, my brother and sister-in-law have a high salary and make quick money. 80,000 yuan is just a slight idea.
Su Min frowned more and more. She looked at her husband, and her husband also had a gloomy face and didn't say a word. The mother-in-law was still sitting on the bench in the corridor, watching her brother-in-law shirking responsibility for each other.
Seeing her mother-in-law's appearance, Su Min was both pitiful and sympathetic, but she couldn't take out 80,000 at once.In the end, she became cruel and said, "My parents belong to everyone. The three families take turns to support their elderly care, each of whom gets 40,000 yuan. In the future, everyone takes turns to take care of their elderly care. We will no longer take over the big debts."
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Seeing that my brother and sister-in-law were ready to show off their bad luck. The matter was so anxious that my sister-in-law and brother-in-law jumped up and said that the elder brother was like his father and the elder sister-in-law was like his mother. If they didn’t care about the matter, who would take care of it? You can't throw your parents to them.
sister-in-law and brother-in-law are accusing Su Min and her husband of trashing the blame, and her mother-in-law's eyes are gradually wetting. Seeing this scene, Su Min wanted to compromise and concessions, and he alone collected 80,000 yuan in surgery. It is conceivable that there is one thing, there are two things. This time they compromise, so will they have to compromise again next time?
Su Min decided not to take over the big responsibility, and decided to start taking over the elderly in the three families after their father-in-law recovered and discharged from the hospital. Although she couldn't bear it, she had no choice. Her parents are not her own. Judging from the current situation, she and her husband cannot bear the support of the two elderly people.
Someone once joked that a pair of parents can support several children, but a few children cannot support a pair of parents. Is this the sorrow of the times or the sorrow of parents?
Today’s topic:
Do you support Su Min’s approach?
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