When did you realize that you really broke up?
A friend said that after she broke up, she deleted her boyfriend's contact information and canceled the weather forecast notice in his city. She had been used to it for a long time before she remembered the password of the new door lock that had nothing to do with her boyfriend, and drove the little animal in Animation Crossing out of the island overnight.
Maybe everyone needs some sense of breaking up ritual. This is not to commemorate the love I used to do, but to make yourself realize through some changes that that person will no longer belong to you in the future.
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@star rebate pick-up period
Seeing his friend application time and time again,
no longer want to click through.
@Xiaoming is a longliyu
Really realized the breakup,
actually happened to him at the moment of reunion,
After physiological nausea,
I suddenly felt that this person was really not OK...
@Melle
may It was when I saved the result, and
The moment he asked me to go to bed early,
I knew it was impossible for us.
@anonymous
thought about it and it must have been from testing again and again until I asked him to make a choice, either block me or we would get back together, and then he really blocked me. It was only then that I realized that we really broke up. I haven't deleted his social account. still habitually says a lot of words to the red exclamation mark every day. I'm a little stupid. Maybe I need a process. . I look forward to suddenly discovering that I no longer know. When I want to talk to him, I really let it go.
@YUAN
quarrels a day before breaking up, and quarrels a lot every day, not crying every day The face is anger. Two months after the breakup, the ovarian cyst pedicle of was twisted by in the early morning, and called his ex immediately. He said he had a fucked up at a meeting, and finally he could only contact the child to send me to the hospital for surgery. When I lay on the hospital bed after the operation, I felt that he was the same as this cyst to me. Only by "cutting it off" will I restore my health.
@anonymous
html l4 was discovered one day that she quit the Ant Forest's combined species . She once joked that she would not marry me until the fertilization was completed. What a pity, it's already 93%.
@Maggie Chen
encountered a very interesting thing, I saw A very fun video, subconsciously, not sharing it with him , but after giving it to his friends, he suddenly realized that his habits and shadows in life could disappear so much. quick.
@anonymous
probably because I accepted the blind date arranged by my elders for me. l5, I felt very good after chatting with my blind date for the first time and it was very comfortable to get along with, but I was very sad. The next day, I cried alone in the room alone. All day, the whole thing happened this weekend.
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@plant flowers in your heart
After he changed his relationship with another girl just a few days ago,
2 I know if it is really a breakup is no longer allowed to do so. @Bai Mengqing She is no longer a frequent visit to my Weibo.
@Andy Lau
heard right After Fang's name, he pretended not to recognize him.
was the ceremony for me to draw a clear line.
@anonymous
has been in love for ten years, and he moved to a new home for the first time, leaving all the collection of love memorial objects with him. The second time was when the cat I raised was sick and needed to be fed medicine every day. I happened to be on a business trip and asked him to keep the cat temporarily for a while. After being rejected, I threw away the things he bought for the cat after the breakup. I was angry at that moment, and I was even more disappointed with this person than when I broke up. It seemed that doing so would be equivalent to expelling his "father" identity, and also cut off my final relationship with him.
But in fact, the real "breakup" was the third time. After a long time, I said in my dream that I forgave him. After waking up, I did nothing. There were still photos of the two people who had not deleted cleanly in my phone. In the drawer He also kept the perfume he bought. When we are together, our lives are too closely connected. Ten years are not so much our memories, but rather my time. I don’t want my life to be blank. That’s too incomplete, let alone stay in growth. What is inside will never be thrown away. At that moment, I knew that we finally became the most familiar strangers.
@anonymous
pean After handing over, I bought tickets for the performance he should go to. I met him before the opening, heard him say "This makes me sick" to me, and then left, and went downstairs and deleted all his contacts. Way.
@Tingjie
One year, I couldn't eat sweet and chewy dishes I've gotten used to, can no longer remember any mobile phone number . I left the city where I stayed for 7 years and never wanted to go to the city where she was. I have gained 50 kilograms and I like to cook and never like to eat again.
@Zhang Yu
When people around me comfort me, you have nothing to do with him from now on . This sentence sounds both desperate and suffocating, and since then life has lost a corner, a corner that can never be made up for.
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@chess three-bu Confused
Found that I haven't dreamed again for a long time,
Think carefully,
She also is very ordinary when she breaks off her girlfriend.
@R.
input method,
will never appear again.
@0Chen
When I saw his marriage registration photo, 5
was stunned for ten minutes and burst into tears.
never thought we really broke up before.
@涓
Delete WeChat QQ mobile number, change couple avatars, unclose his Weibo, delete his circle of friends related to him, clear his album exclusively, and delete what he wrote for him The memo deleted the songs he sang for me and the short compositions he wrote, and deleted his delivery address. But there are still many missing bits. Just like today, on the third day of our breakup, I accidentally flipped through his photo album, and my eyes still felt sore in an instant; now I am holding what he gave me to me in my arms. The little bear still couldn't help crying when he wrote these.
@Liu Lian
Listen to his favorite band's song "She", The song loop cried all night and I heard this song again, so my eyes trembled every time I heard this song again. But one day after , I heard it again and found that I sighed instinctively and smiled .
@Xiaoxingren
realized that we really broke up, and I bought it for him. He always wanted to buy it but was reluctant to let it go. I have to buy a small refrigerator. When I was together, I was reluctant to leave money and wanted to separate, but instead I was willing to leave . Maybe I know that there will be no chance again.
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@salted egg
When I realized that
In this small county town that took less than ten minutes from my house to his house,
When I and he may never meet again.
@MY
is he will reply to me,
But I didn’t chat with me after 11 o’clock.
@Ariel
My emergency contact can no longer write him .
@Chen Wuyou
html l3 We are both medical students. I am one of his class, and our relationship almost ran through his college years. We hardly have a group photo, so we agreed to leave a group photo at least when we graduate. I graduated that year and he didn't participate in the graduation activities that lasted for a week. He graduated the next year and we had broken up for 2 months. I went back to school to attend the graduation ceremony of my juniors. When he found out, he found me and said to me, "I promised to take a photo together, let's make up for it this time." He hadn't seen him for more than two months and I burst into tears. He didn't speak and skillfully wiped my tears. The photo of has always been left on my old phone. I have never read it. He has never owned .
@Ivy Hou
is more uncomfortable than realizing when I broke up I realized that we should break up , but the two of them were speechless, trying to break the silence and say something, and looked up at each other's face and his expression. , lowered his head again, feeling that it was unnecessary and there was no need to do anything.
You can understand after reading the above stories that "break up" and "end a relationship" are two completely different things.
The former may mean a brief separation, while the latter will be achieved through two breakups. One is the moment when you decide to separate, and the other is the moment when each other is sure that there will be no contact with each other again.
After all, the premise that the past relationship can completely disappear is that not only will reason tell you to distance yourself from that person, but also need to forget him on a certain day, at a certain moment, or at a certain moment. preparation.
Some people will make a decision after being disappointed by the other party's behavior, while others will make a list and forget more of the past every time they do something. I don’t know where you have just broken up, but please believe that one day you will do the necessary quit this time.
head image / Aaren
illustration / From the Internet
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