A girl knows how to have a relationship is a sign of growing up, while a woman knows how to protect herself in love or marriage is a sign of maturity.
Growing up does not mean maturity, and age cannot be the standard for determining whether a woman is mature.
If a girl has a thinking pattern that loves first and puts all her energy and thoughts on her lover in love, then this girl can be called Love Brain .
Love brain is not bad, but this kind of person treats feelings too seriously, which can easily cause harm to himself.
Recently, a woman in Guangdong shared a video of a girl in love on her social platform. The 19-year-old girl who was in her youth moved into the boy's dormitory privately, regardless of the eyes of others and the impact on others. In order to be able to be with your boyfriend often.
19-year-old girl is a ignorant person with feelings, and she happened to meet a boy of the same age as hers. After contacting her, she found that every place in the boy was extremely attractive, making her obsessed with her.
The boy is also paying attention to the girl at all times, trying his best to get in touch with the girl.
Boys and girls of this age do not beat around the bush. It will be obvious if you like someone, and it will be obvious if you hate someone.
It is obvious that the two of them were together when they had some feelings for each other. During their relationship, they had a very good relationship and wanted to be together 24 hours a day.
But at this time the boy worked in a factory and usually lived in the dormitory in the factory. There were several workers in a dormitory.
In order to be able to be with her boyfriend, the girl made an extremely bold decision. It is precisely because of this that the young man's performance of not considering the consequences is fully reflected in the girl.
This girl resolutely moved into her boyfriend's dormitory and lived in the same bed with her boyfriend.
, and without the factory's consent, he moved into his boyfriend's dormitory privately.
It didn't take long for the factory to understand this situation. In this case, the factory will definitely intervene in this matter. After all, a girl is as beautiful as a flower, and there are boys in the dormitory. If an accident occurs in the factory, there are still people in the factory. If so, this consequence is unbearable for everyone.
Also, as a woman, the dormitory manager feels a little disappointed when he sees the girl like this. If the girl does not know how to protect herself, she will definitely suffer in the future. The dormitory manager of
The dormitory found the girl and explained the situation. He wanted the girl to move out of the dormitory and find another place to live, but the girl's reaction was unexpected to everyone.
not only did the girl not think about moving away, but also felt that the dormitory manager was a little meddling and living in her boyfriend's dormitory, so what's wrong with it?
The dormitory manager explained the girl's affection and reason, but he failed to persuade the girl to move out of the dormitory. As he had no choice, the dormitory manager made severe criticism of the girl and made all the words.
Even so, the girl still did not let go and insisted on living with her boyfriend. At this time, the girl looked completely impatient and directly called the dormitory manager an old woman, and she felt that the dormitory manager was too long-winded.
The dormitory manager is angry, but it cannot really drive the girl out. He can only swallow his anger and find other ways to move the girl out of the dormitory.
In the eyes of many netizens, the girl is really ungrateful. What will happen if a girl lives in a boy's dormitory is unpredictable, and the dormitory manager can't drive it away. In the future, this girl will definitely be able to do it. A loss.
Like the girl in the article, she ignores nothing in order to accompany her boyfriend, and does nothing to consider the consequences. Everything is based on love first and the boyfriend is the main one. This formation can be clearly called the love brain.
The girl is only 19 years old. It is such a stupid behavior to hand over all herself to a person who doesn’t know the future. Even if the two people have a good relationship now, people will always change. Who will do it? Can you guarantee that the girl and her boyfriend will definitely come to the end and take care of their old age?
in the name of love, squandering the capital of youth is not only irresponsible to oneself, but also irresponsible to the other party.
A good relationship should be a good relationship that two people complement each other and help each other, rather than wasting time and energy in this limited youth. Only by making yourself excellent first can you have a foothold in this relationship.
gives each other independent space, allowing each other to grow slowly. When two people work hard to become better at the same time, their future lives will be better. This is the true awakening of life.