A Qiang is from Fujian. He was born in 1990. His parents are both simple farmers.A Qiang is the third generation of single-handed family.
Grandpa is the only son in the family, dad is also the only son in the family, and Aqiang's generation is also the only son in the family.
A Qiang was destined to live in a very wealthy family. He gave him any delicious food and delicious food to his parents.
received the care of grandparents. Aqiang became a young master in this family and never had to worry about food and clothing.
The mother farms at home, and her father works in construction because there is only Aqiang, a child at home.
The family’s economy is also very good. Aqiang has been a grandparent and mother-in-law since he was a child.
In a blink of an eye, Aqiang grew up, and his grandparents were looking forward to their eldest grandson, hoping that their eldest grandson would get married and have children as soon as possible and continue the family incense.
A Qiang graduated from technical secondary school and chose to work as a welder with his cousin because the salary of being a welder was particularly high at that time.
Plus, my father is also a construction worker. He learns to be an electric welder and has developed his father's career.
A Qiang is working, but his lifelong affairs are still not resolved. As a single family member of three generations, he carries the important task of passing on the family line.
My parents were very anxious when they saw that Aqiang had reached the age of marriage and didn’t even have a girlfriend.
Later, Aqiang fell in love with a girl in the same village. The girl was named Xiaoying and was born in 1994.
Both are from the same village, and are also born in the 1990s. A Qiang Xiaoying is four years old. During the contact, they fell in love.
Both parents also support them in dating and dating. After all, in the same village, they are also aware of each other's family.
When the two of them entered the relationship, A Qiang Xiaoying was four years old and took good care of Xiaoying in life.
Xiaoying also felt that Aqiang is a considerate person, so the process of their love is also very romantic
Aqiang and Xiaoying's marriage certificate
December 15, 2015, after they received their marriage certificate from their relationship, It becomes a couple who is in trouble.
Both parents held their wedding for them and received blessings from their parents, relatives and friends. They got married.
After marriage, they hope to have a child together, and the child represents the crystallization of the love between the couple.
But Xiaoying's belly has not moved for a long time. Since there are no children, both parents are anxious for them.
A Qiang envys couples who have children very much. He thinks that he and his wife have been married for more than two years and still have no children.
As the only child in the family, he was more anxious than anyone else. He was thinking in his heart, is he having a problem? Or is there any problem with your wife?
In order to find out who is infertile, on June 13, 2017, Xiaoying and Aqiang went to Zhangzhou Hospital for a comprehensive examination for the first time. The results of
examination came out. Aqiang's sperm activity rate is very low. His wife Xiaoying suffers from infertility because her uterus is blocked.
The probability of being naturally conceived by is simply impossible, so why are they not pregnant for two years?
Aqiang, the examination results
The couple suffered from infertility at the same time. When the news came out, they hugged each other and cried bitterly.
Why is it so easy for other people to have children? They also suffer from infertility, how can they have children?
In order to have a child as soon as possible, Aqiang and Xiaoying can only cooperate with the doctor's treatment, and hope that the two of them will give birth to a child together.
Xiaoying's examination report
Xiaoying cooperates with the doctor's treatment every day and drinks a lot of Chinese medicine. She has been treated in Zhangzhou Hospital for more than a year, but it still has no effect.
The doctor saw that the treatment of the two was not effective and suggested that they have IVF, although they cannot get pregnant naturally.
The child also gave birth to two people together. The sperm was provided by Aqiang and the egg was Xiaoying.
Because medicine is developing rapidly, many couples cannot get pregnant naturally, so they use artificial insemination to allow patients to have their own children.
A Qiang and Xiaoying heard the doctor's advice, after hearing the doctor's advice, it was better to discuss such a big deal with the parents of both parties.
Back home, the two told the four parents that they wanted to have IVF. After Aqiang's parents knew about it, they just wanted to hold their eldest grandson and agree to the children's choice.
It doesn’t matter how much it costs. You must give birth to a child. Aqiang and Xiaoying have received support from their parents and they embarked on the road to seeking medical treatment.
In September 2018, Aqiang and Xiaoying were recommended by their cousin. With great expectations, they came from the original Zhangzhou Hospital to Xiamen Anbao Hospital.
I heard from my cousin that his friend had IVF in this hospital, and many of them succeeded in the first time and gave birth to a healthy baby.
Xiaoying and Aqiang were very happy after hearing this, hoping that they would have such luck. They came to Xiamen Anbao Hospital .
They were treated as Zhou Yu, a doctor at Anbao Hospital. After Dr. Zhou looked at their medical records.
learned that they had been married for three years, and the hospital experts studied their condition and evaluated them.
feels to help them with pregnancy through artificial insemination . I hope to help them fulfill their wishes as soon as possible and give birth to a healthy baby.
Xiao Jing's attending doctor
However, during the process of assisted pregnancy, it was not as simple as they imagined, because Xiaoying's physical condition and Aqiang's sperm activity rate were very low.
They had three IVFs in Anbao Hospital but failed. Dr. Zhou Yu saw three IVFs, but did not make Xiaoying pregnant.
Doctor Zhou formulated a special plan for them. In November 2018, Aqiang and Xiaoying signed this informed contract.
Xiaoying, the agreement signed by Aqiang and the hospital
Let Xiaoying and Aqiang go home to adjust their bodies, and prepare for their next sperm and egg extraction.
In October 2019, Xiaoying recovered well and came to the hospital to Dr. Zhou to perform a transplant on her.
Later, Xiaoying and Aqiang went to the hospital for examination. Dr. Zhou told them that the transplant was very successful and Xiaoying successfully became pregnant.
Xiaoying and Aqiang learned that their children were developing well in their stomachs and shed tears of excitement.
After suffering so much and suffering so much, I finally had a baby and Xiaoying became pregnant.
Aqiang and his parents are not allowed to do anything at home. I hope she will give birth to the child safely.
This child is their family’s hope. I don’t want Xiaoying to take good care of her as she bumps into her.
But their hope was still broken. In December 2019, when Xiaoying was in the ninth week of pregnancy.
Xiaoying and Aqiang came to the hospital for examination again with joy. The doctor told them that the child had stopped developing.
Xiaoying and Aqiang learned that the child had stopped developing in their stomachs, which means that the child had died.
The two people are very depressed every day. In addition to comforting each other, they are very painful.
Frozen embryos
Why is God unfair to them? They just want a healthy baby to be with them and why is it so difficult?
The first child stayed in Xiaoying's belly for nine weeks, which was a very difficult fact for Xiaoying.
In addition to their sadness, they are both parents, and they don’t know what kind of hardships these two children will encounter.
can give birth to their baby. For the sake of the incense at home, Aqiang and Xiaoying can only continue to go to the hospital for treatment.
and prepared one by one according to the hospital's prescribed procedures. After that, the two people frozen the embryos at Anbao Hospital.
Because of Xiaoying's health, Xiaoying is ready for recovery at home, and the two parties agreed to be in 2020.
The next transplant is half a year later. Dr. Zhou hopes that Xiaoying will adjust her body.
In April 2020, Aqiang wanted to make money to support his family, so Xiaoying came to the hospital alone and found Dr. Zhou.
Doctor Zhou Yu gave Xiaoying a detailed examination and felt that her body was recovering well. The two parties agreed to undergo a transplant at the end of May.
Next, an unexpected incident happened at home, which broke the happiness of this family and caused Xiaoying to transplant embryos to cause a lot of obstacles.
May 6, 2020, on this day, when Aqiang was at work, he was dispatched by the company to work as an electrician.
touched the power while he was working and heard his scream, and then Aqiang fell to the ground.
was rescued by two colleagues. The two colleagues resuscited him and also called 120. The colleague sent Aqiang to the hospital for emergency treatment.
The doctor came out to announce that Aqiang was dead. Regarding the news that Aqiang was dead, his colleague immediately called the police.
Fujian Province police came to the scene after receiving the alarm and asked Aqiang's two colleagues why they didn't turn off the power supply when working.
Aqiang's comrade said that if they turn off all the power supply, it will affect the work of the company and cause great losses to the company.
So when they work, they usually choose to turn on the power supply, but when they work, they are very careful.
They didn't know that there would be an accident in Aqiang's work, which caused Aqiang to be electrocuted and died.
Comrade comrade has called his parents and wife, hoping that they can come to the hospital to see Aqiang for the last time.
Especially Aqiang's cousin, I know that Aqiang touched the power supply while working, which means that Aqiang will either be disabled or die if something happens.
A Qiang, where an accident occurred
A Qiang is a single-handed person in the family for three generations. His cousin couldn't stand steadily, and the family hurriedly prepared to come to the hospital.
A Qiang works in Dongshan District, Zhangzhou City, Fujian Province, 150 kilometers away from home. His parents heard that their son had an accident.
The family drove a car to the hospital quickly. Because Aqiang's death was very miserable, the police were afraid that his family would not accept it.
wrapped Aqiang's body with a piece of white cloth and let his family come in and see him for the last glance.
A Qiang's mother cried so hard that she never dreamed that her young son would leave like this because of work.
Wife Xiaoying saw her husband die suddenly and thought that they were about to go to the hospital for transplant surgery and would have children.
hugged Aqiang's body and cried heartbrokenly. For half an hour, he had to pull her away under the persuasion of the police.
The police and doctors present felt uncomfortable when they heard Xiaoying's heart-wrenching cry.
Everyone shed tears. They understood that this family has experienced too many hardships. Now, Aqiang's departure has brought heavy blows to this family.
The police came to the place where Aqiang had an accident to check. It turned out that Aqiang accidentally touched the power supply while working.
The boss of the company gave Aqiang's parents a one-time compensation of 900,000 yuan according to the contract. The parents received Aqiang's compensation, and they were in great pain.
Xiaoying and her parents-in-law took care of their husband's funeral, and neither of them was willing to investigate the cause of Aqiang's accident.
Everyone thought that Aqiang had left, and what should this family do in the future, and no incense was left behind.
The family has been cut off from incense, and the parents-in-law also know that their son has left.
The daughter-in-law Xiaoying must be remarried, so everyone is helpless about whether there is any incense?
Xiaoying heard her parents-in-law's words and said, "My parents, we have two embryos in Xiamen Anbao Hospital. Although Aqiang has left, I want to continue with the transplant surgery. I want to leave it for Aqiang. A descendant."
The parents-in-law was very excited when they heard this. It turned out that his son had two embryos left in the world.
If Xiaoying successfully gets pregnant with the transplant surgery, they will have grandchildren or granddaughter in the near future.
With the news of two embryos, my parents-in-law had hope of survival. Xiaoying was very determined and told her.
She insisted on finding Dr. Zhou to transfer embryos. After she had a child, she was not ready to remarry.
Her parents have elder brothers and sisters to live in their old age. Aqiang passed away unexpectedly and died. Xiaoying wanted to continue living in her in-laws' house.
Ask Dr. Zhou to complete the transplant and leave a descendant for Aqiang. In the future, she will prepare to support her parents-in-law in the old age and see her offspring.
That night, Xiaoying took the initiative to ask the attending doctor Zhou Yu and told Dr. Zhou that her husband Aqiang had died in an accident.
I hope Dr. Zhou will continue to transplant them according to the contract, and Dr. Zhou was stunned on the spot.
Her husband was fine a few days ago, how could he die unexpectedly? It must be Xiaoying's liar himself.
Is Xiaoying in a bad mood? Describing his father-in-law as her husband passed away, Dr. Zhou finally believed it.
Both parents knew that Xiaoying insisted on continuing the transplant, and Xiaoying's parents supported her decision.
The parents-in-law were so happy to see the in-laws’ attitude and Xiaoying’s persistence. It’s great that they have such a in-laws and daughter-in-law.
It was time for both parties to make an appointment for transplant time. Xiaoying's parents-in-law, parents, and relatives and friends in the family accompanied Xiaoying to Xiamen Anbao Hospital for transplant surgery.
When they came to the hospital, Dr. Zhou Yu was unwilling to continue the transplant for Xiaoying because she felt that Xiaoying was not the subject of their transplant.
Xiaoying told the doctor about her family situation. The hospital sympathized with Xiaoying's experience and they also wanted to help Xiaoying.
However, in 2003, the state stipulated that the transplant recipients cannot be single-parent women, and both men and women must sign on the spot before the transplant surgery can be performed.
A Qiang has passed away. Xiaoying is here for the transplant. Without A Qiang's signature, the doctor will definitely not be willing to do it.
The hospital dared not violate the rules and performed a transplant on Xiaoying because they were afraid. What if Xiaoying had a transplant on him and he didn't want to give birth to a child?
The hospital has many considerations, and in fact, they also sympathize with Xiaoying for this case.
In the face of legal provisions, they can only choose to respect the law. For them, transplantation may face many problems.
Xiaoying begs the hospital to transplant two embryos into his body. Aqiang's family is just his child.
In his generation, if there is no child, the parents of both sides are very anxious when they see it.
The family came to the hospital with joy in order to get the transplant. Now they are stuck tightly by a regulation.
Xiaoying hugged her head and cried bitterly. Dr. Zhou came over to comfort her. As a doctor, she had no other choice in this matter.
Because Xiaoying is still very young and will remarry in the future, this child will face many difficulties when he is born.
The elder brother and sister in the family said that after the child is born, they will help raise him, and the parents of both parties also sign the agreement. When the child is born, they will help take care of him.
has already followed all these concerns in the hospital, and the hospital is still unwilling to perform a transplant for Xiaoying.
In June 2020, in order to give birth to a child for Ah Qiang, Xiaoying had to sue Anbao Hospital.
asked Anbao Hospital to continue to perform transplant surgery on her according to the contract. The judge saw that this case was about an embryo transfer case.
in Xiamen is the first case about embryonic surrogacy. The judge attaches great importance to it. How to make a judgment to win the hearts of the people?
Anbao Hospital received a subpoena from the court, and they held another ethical discussion meeting, and all the personnel believed.
The hospital should not continue to perform the contract with the plaintiff, and the opinion of the chairman of the committee is to "comply with the court's judgment and execute it."
The hospital expressed sympathy and understanding for Xiaoying, but they also stated that they could not break through the legal provisions and violate regulations.
As doctors, they know the interests of illegal operations. In fact, as doctors, they should help their patients get pregnant.
However, under the law, they still dare not do this, nor dare to use the reputation of the hospital.
Especially Dr. Zhou Yu, she was also in a very contradictory period. Seeing Xiaoying's family, she really wanted to help them.
So they think since Xiaoying has sued the hospital, how will the court decide they do it?
On August 5, 2020, Xiaoying sued Anbao Hospital for the first trial. During the trial, the judge specially asked the lawyer to tell Xiaoying to let her appear in court.
It can be seen that Xiaoying and her lawyer sat in the plaintiff's seat. It was the first time she sat in such a position. Xiaoying seemed a little nervous.
In order to be able to determine whether Xiaoying voluntarily continued embryo transfer surgery? During the trial, the judge asked Xiaoying.
"You have undergone a transplant now. You will give birth to this child in the future. Ask her if she is really willing to raise the child?"
Xiaoying replied crisply: "Yes, I am now conditioning my body and waiting for the body. After meeting the normal indicators, he is ready to undergo a transplant. "
judge continued to ask: "Does the family parents agree? You are ready to want a child?"
Xiaoying expressed her firm expression, that is, she wants to give birth to a child for her husband Ah Qiang. Pass on his family line.
Xiaoying and her lawyer
A Qiang had always hoped to have a healthy baby before he died. Now he has left. The two embryos are hard-won, and it is the hope for parents and themselves to survive.
When the judge heard Xiaoying's words, he was very moved by Xiaoying's approach, and her kindness also moved the people present.
Xiaoying uses her future as a bet and must give birth to her husband's child. Her behavior makes everyone recognize it as a Chinese virtue tradition.
The judge asked the parents of both parties again, and Xiaoying's parents expressed their attitude and supported their daughter's decision.
hope that the daughter will pass the embryo that has not been transplanted, give birth to their children, and comfort the son-in-law's spirit in heaven.
The court attached great importance to this case. After the trial, the judge organized an internal discussion.
Judge believes that Xiaoying is a widowed single woman, similar to other postpartum babies, and the hospital should continue to undergo transplant surgery, which does not violate the law.
The judge asked Xiaoying many times, what is the secret to making such a big decision?
Xiaoying said that this decision was not a hasty decision, but was considered carefully.
A Qiang's parents have already prepared everything. Xiao Jing gave birth to the child, and they will help take care of the child and raise it together.
Judge specially invited Fujian Province Law Research Liu Wenge
"It is understandable that Anbao Hospital complies with the 2003 legal provisions, but the current situation is different."
Because Aqiang and Xiaoying used to be very eager to have a child, Aqiang did not give up the decision to transplant embryos before his death.
shows that he still hopes to have a child. Now that her husband has left, Xiaoying will continue to pass on the family line for her husband’s family.
This is a kind of good traditional virtue of family tradition. In the face of life, Xiaoying has made a good combination of traditional virtues.
On September 1, 2020, Siming District Court made a first-instance judgment, ruling that Anbao Hospital needs to continue to perform embryo transplant surgery for Xiaoying. After the verdict was issued, the plaintiff and defendant did not continue to appeal. Xiaoying hugged her family, with tears of joy.
They use the law to save two embryos and will give birth to Aqiang's child in the near future. After winning the lawsuit, Xiaoying began to take care of her body at home. She went to check her body every month and cooperated with the doctor's treatment. When the body is suitable for Xiaoying, Xiaoying comes to Anbao Hospital, and Dr. Zhou takes care of Xiaoying. After
and others reach the ideal state, they will undergo embryo transfer surgery. After seeing this judgment, Dr. Zhou smiled on his face.
With the verdict as evidence, their hospital tried its best to help Xiaoying transplant embryo surgery.
Doctor Zhou said that the success rate this time is higher than the last time, and he heard the doctor say that the success rate reaches 60%.
For Xiaoying's family, this news is better than they thought. Now Aqiang is not here.
They cherish their existence very much for the only two embryos. They hope that Xiaoying will regulate her body and restore her confidence to transplant the embryo.
But they still have to wait for the embryo transfer surgery to succeed and give birth to a healthy baby in order to achieve their true purpose.
Xiaoying's kind actions made many people not understand why her husband passed away, so why should she insist on giving birth to an embryo? Because she loves her husband deeply.
In the past, I hoped to have a healthy baby with my husband. Later, my husband died unexpectedly, and two embryos became the hope for the family to survive.
The judge's judgment made many people applaud, because this family has experienced too many things, and the two embryos are the only ones that pass on the family through the family.
Hospitals also have their own difficulties. As doctors, they originally saved lives and helped the patients to solve problems.
Faced with this difficult decision, they dared not violate the law and the court's judgment came down.
cooperates with the court's judgment and performs transplant surgery on Xiaoying. Everyone is in a different position and has no choice but to do so.
I hope Xiaoying will successfully transplant embryos and become a mother as soon as possible. In the future, she will use her love to move more people around her.
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