, Indian girl, college in Chinese, married to Xi'an husband, three mixed -race baby
s in 7 years. Salad, From India, 31 years old. Nine years ago, I just graduated from college and studied in Chinese, and my first job was a mobile phone company in China. This also gave me a chance to know my husband. He is a regional director and my top boss in India. We met from each other to getting married and experienced two years of test. When
was studying in college, it felt that China was very backward and could not produce its own chips, because there were many high -tech talents in India, especially in the Internet field. It is not difficult to find out information. They are from India.
, after knowing my husband, I also had the opportunity to go to China, which also directly gave me a more direct understanding of China. It is unimaginable. China, which is only separated by a mountain, is far beyond India, whether it is urban construction or the lives of the people. At that time, self -esteem was also hit. I thought they were all superficial work. Since marrying to China, all the facts have been in front of me, completely subverting my awareness of China. Today, I am the mother of three children and a Chinese daughter -in -law. Not only is I live a happy life, but I also have my own career.
In 1991, I was born in a wealthy family in New Delhi, India. According to India's surname level, our family members are Brahmin , so I have enjoyed a better living environment and educational benefits since I was a child. There are six children in our family. I am the fourth child in the family and the only girl to learn foreign languages. When
was young, parents managed very strictly for our sisters. They were not allowed to play with children with low surnames, and they would not even look at it. Once they violated the requirements of their dads, they would be punished. Light.
Girls will hidden a secret boy in my heart when they are in the age of their first love. I am no exception. Because I am a surname, I do n’t get married in my teens, but I have always enjoyed education. Learn knowledge. But when I was in high school, I fell in love with a low -surnamed boy with only one street. In order to dismantle us, my father even kicked the opponent out of New Delhi . This is the most unfair incident in my life.
is born in a wealthy family, but you can't enjoy better treatment at home like his brother and brother. After all, in India, the thought of men and women is very serious. Give the man, which is completely opposite to China.
Everyone has their own regrets. My regret is that I did not be with my beloved. After studying in college, I chose to read Chinese. This is because my first smartphone was Chinese brand, and then I was right at that time. At that time, I was right. China's cognition can almost ignore it, and always thinks that China is much behind India.
Studying Chinese is also to better participate in work in the future. I never thought about marrying to China in the future.
may be more to escape the control of the family. During the college, I learned Chinese very carefully. Among the 34 students in the same class, my grades have always been the first place. I finally won the scholarship when I graduated. Graduate students, but this opportunity was abandoned by me. I want to participate in the work early and enjoy my own life. After graduating from
, he found a assistant job in a Chinese company. In addition to being translated for his boss, he also did some trivial things. My boss was 16 years older than me. The Chinese youth who was married, he was not tall, wearing glasses, very sophisticated, and very gentleman.
has been in contact for a long time. I found that many Chinese people are particularly literate, especially for women, and they can't help but start paying attention to their boss's life.
actually did not know his real name in the first three months of doing things with his boss. He only knew that his English name was "Peter". Later The introduction: "I don't know what my name is? My name is Zhu Yulong, from Xi'an, Shaanxi Province, China, a cultural ancient capital of a civilized world."
heard the word Xi'an. When I was in junior high school, I heard that Chinese terracotta warriors and Great Wall , these two civilized monuments also spread in India. After
, Zhu Yulong began to pursue me, but I was very clear in my heart. Mom and dad would definitely not let me marry a foreigner. Make excessive moves.
However, no matter those difficulties, Zhu Yulong repeatedly proposed to be a guest in our house. I had to make excuses to refuse. When I couldn't get rid of it, I promised to find a chance to ask my dad. What I didn't expect was that Dad knew that a Chinese guest had to go home as a guest, and it was my top boss, which was very welcome.
This is the first time Zhu Yulong saw his father's scene, not as a boyfriend, but as a Chinese friend.
Dad is curious about the young man in front of him, and has been asking about the current development of China. Zhu Yulong always takes it to China for a look at it. I know. In fact, since I met Zhu Yulong, I also thought of China to see what it looks like, what kind of life of the people lives, and what kind of sight of the city.
Dad is very clever, and gradually discovered that I and Zhu Yulong's eyebrows came. I noticed that the relationship between us was not just the relationship between subordinates. Once my father invited Zhu Yulong to fight golf. As for what I talked about Happy, it seems to have reached a certain consensus.
I probably understand my father's heart, so it is bright with Zhu Yulong. Mom is actually good at Zhu Yulong, but still in conservative thoughts, I always feel that we are not proper.
But after Zhu Yulong proposed to me, Dad agreed to get married, and the mother was hard to say anything.
returned to Xi'an in 2015 to handle the wedding certificate and held a traditional wedding in India. After all, my father had a good face and needed to marry me out. And according to India's tradition, I packed 4 kilograms of gold with me. After
was married, my husband and I returned to Xi'an to live, because my husband's company was in Xi'an, and my mother -in -law kept urging us to have children, and said, "Xiaomi (my mother -in -law gave me a nickname), your eyes are so so so. Beautiful, there are a few children, and now they can have a second child. The mixed -race children look good and smart. I thought I don't have to have children. But as the third child was let go, my mother -in -law changed her pattern every day for me. What chicken soup and fish soup did not break, let me adjust my body.
couldn't help it. In 2021, I gave birth to another daughter, and my mother -in -law didn't urge it.
is very happy to live in Xi'an. Whether it is a husband or a father -in -law, it is good to me. Before, I returned to India for two months every year. You can only bless your parents in the video.