has such a word describing love in "Wulin Wai Biography":
"Love is a mixture of tenderness and passion." HT. "HT. ml5
In other words: Two people love each other, at the beginning, passion and passion and passion Attraction makes two people get closer to each other; and as the time is longer, the warmth and softness between the two people are getting more and more.
love will make people lose their minds and become emotional, follow the emotions, follow each other.
and the turning point of the relationship between men and women is after "relationship".
You will find that at this turning point, men and women's attitudes and methods of love have also changed.
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Love Early Period: Boys added investment, girls suffer from losing
. "Two people fall in love, what if they have intimate relationships too early?"
is the answer from more than half of which netizens: Tai It is easy to be disappointed in anxiety; because you have not yet understood each other, and you are not sure whether the other party is the one who is suitable for you to get married.
is actually the same.
is just. However, for those in the early days of love, it is the first turning point of emotional relationship.
is in the early days of love, boys' feelings for you have changed from "tentative investment" to "paid without reservation".
is in the subconsciousness of the boys:
"I have got you, I treat you as my own; 10
What will happen to girls? The first idea of
is not a change to boys, not more dependent on boys, but suffering from losses.
"I promised his request so early, would he dislike me too casual?" ML0 This is the heart of most girls.
, they are suffering, while trying to prove their love, they are worried about being suspected of being abandoned by the other party.
In fact, this is the "thinking misunderstanding" that girls strongly give them.
always uses chastity theory to improve its chips in emotional.
Actually, what is the most important thing in feelings? It is your own value.
The higher your value, the more you can't do it without you.
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love mid-love mid-term: boys reduce investment, girls' emotional rising
do you know?
Boys' love for girls will "decrease" over time.
If the boy is pursuing you, he pays 10 points in you; then, after the boy gets you, his feelings start to decrease.
is because he has got you, so his mentality is relaxed.
has a paragraph on the Internet. After the relationship, the subconscious of the boys will send a signal of "lax".
is before this, and boys often make the requirements for girls as soon as possible, without hesitation.
Girls are just the opposite.
Zhang Ailing wrote such a sentence in the book: "The road to the woman's soul is XX.”
Why can’t a girl forget her first love?
It is precisely because she gave her youth, her most precious thing, and the most innocent and pure love to her first love.
In a girl's subconscious, the moment she entrusts herself to you, it means that she is completely dependent on you and trusts you.
Her feelings for you begin to rise, and she is willing to pay more and more to you.
this At this time, the balance of love has gradually tilted towards the side of boys.
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Later in love: boys start to withdraw, and girls love passionately. ht What is true love? ml2
It is the process of two people gradually "seeing each other as one".
So, what are the characteristics when love disappears?
You can feel: the relationship between you seems to be getting stronger and stronger. Farther away.
This kind of distance is not only a sense of psychological alienation, but also one party begins to avoid the other party intentionally or unintentionally.
In the later stages of love, boys' attitude towards love basically "hits the bottom".
Essentially, this is the lack of freshness.
Men are "adventurous" at heart and like to try new things.
When he loses his patience with you, he loses it. Passion, tired of living with you every day.
What will he do next?
Don't forget, men are natural hunters. ml0
When girls reach this stage, their investment in love has reached its peak.
At this moment, girls gradually realize:
"Why has he changed?" Why is he becoming more and more indifferent to me? Did I do something wrong? "
The most ironic thing in love is:
When a girl completely falls in love with a boy, the boy has already decided to leave.
If your relationship enters a "flat period", the performance is like this:
"Deep dependence, habits have You, keep going steadily. "
If you don't love someone anymore, your behavior will become: "Indifferent and perfunctory, and don't care. ”
In fact, we should not regard love as everything, let alone think of love too purely.
The decisive factor for two people from love to marriage is: value.
Today’s topic:
What do you think are the differences between men and women after having an intimate relationship?
(Photo source of the article is from the Internet)
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