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. The biggest difference between love and marriage is that love is a matter of two people, while marriage is related to two families. When you are in love, you can only pursue love, but when it comes to marriage, there are many practical issues that need to be taken into consideration.

For example: each other's family, one's personality, outlook on life, work, income, future life plans, etc. Only when these external and internal things are understood and recognized can we work together to spend the rest of our lives together.

Otherwise, if you find out halfway through that they are not suitable for each other, you will waste your time and feelings, and your expectations and trust in marriage will be wasted.

A truly far-sighted person will not treat marriage as a child's play, but understands the importance of marriage to themselves and their family, so they will be cautious when choosing a spouse.

As parents, we also have the responsibility to help our children recognize the human heart.

A mother with high emotional intelligence once warned her son: If a woman does not have the following three things, no matter how beautiful she is or how rich the family is, she cannot be married as his wife, otherwise there is a high risk of endless troubles.

1: No morals

There is a saying: A good woman can be prosperous for three generations.

This statement is not an exaggeration. The impact of a good woman on a family is self-evident. As a wife, she will be her husband's backing and support; as a parent, she can educate her children well so that they can become talents; as a daughter-in-law, she can also take good care of her parents-in-law and make them live a relaxed and comfortable life.

It can be said that no matter what role they play, they are competent and can make people feel happy and at ease.

On the contrary, a bad woman can only bring disaster to a family. She will not only consume the fortune of the whole family, but also make the whole family restless. Living in such an environment, not only cannot you feel happiness, but you will also be depressed all day long.

A woman without a sense of morality is such an existence.

She will not be loyal to her husband, will not be responsible for her children, and will not think about being filial to her parents-in-law. Because her principles and bottom line are very low or even non-existent, she behaves unscrupulously.

If you become a family with such a woman, there will be many hidden dangers in the future.

2: No filial piety

If you want to know a person’s true character and qualities, you only need to take a look at his attitude towards his family.

Because we are unprepared for our family members, we will show ourselves in front of our family members as we really look like, and we won’t even think about pretending. Just as psychology says: people only rely on their own safety. He loses his temper within a certain range, because he knows subconsciously that the other person will not leave him.

Because of this, we often leave our good temper to outsiders, and leave all our bad temper and bad emotions to our family members.

However, no matter how emotionally out of control there is a limit, if a person unscrupulously hurts his family, that is another matter.

There is a kind of woman in life who has never been filial. They squeeze their parents endlessly to satisfy their own desires and vanity, without even thinking about them at all. Marrying such a woman as your wife will really lead to endless troubles.

Three: There is no correct outlook on life

How a person behaves is often determined by his outlook on life. Women with incorrect outlook on life will naturally behave inappropriately. If you are with such a person, you will only have a steady stream of troubles in the future. Troublesome, because she will constantly subvert your understanding of human nature.

For example, she will think that it is natural for you to help her and her family. She thinks that after getting married, we are a family. If your mother's family needs help with anything, you should do your part.

But she has not considered that after getting married and having a family of her own, her focus should shift.

There are many women who are confused in life and are called supporting their younger brothers. They will use their husbands’ money to support their parents’ families without any bottom line. Some even buy houses for their younger brothers. This kind of behavior will only destroy their families step by step. Just drop it.

This is a typical example of not having correct views. If you marry such a woman, you may never be happy in the future.

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Marriage is a lifelong matter. Although you can get divorced midway if you marry the wrong person, the impact of a wrong marriage on people is still immeasurable, so it is best to be cautious enough when getting married to avoid making mistakes. People who have ruined their originally good life.

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