Introduction What is family love? Experts explained that the so-called family affection refers to a special feeling that exists between people who are related by blood. This kind of family love is not affected by poverty, wealth, health, disease, good or evil, it will always be t

Introduction

What is family love?

Experts explained that the so-called family affection refers to a special feeling that exists between people who are related by blood. This kind of family love is not affected by poverty, wealth, health, disease, good or evil, it will always be there. Generally speaking, family love has two characteristics: first, family love is mutual, not single; second, family love is three-dimensional, not one-sided.

A literary writer pointed out that " family love " focuses on the word "family", which belongs to the most intimate relationship. The specific embodiment of this kind of family love is: you raise me to grow up, and I will accompany you to grow old.

A humanities expert pointed out that there is generally one of the most beautiful emotions in the world between grandfathers, grandmothers, grandparents, parents and brothers and sisters. This emotion is indescribable and difficult to describe. It is different from love. kind of friendship.

A senior netizen said that "family affection" comes from "love", and the concentration of family affection is always directly proportional to love. Family love is the most impurity-free emotion in the world, pure and bright.

A netizen once told such a story. In the story, the netizen said -----

she had lived in a remote mountain village in since she was a child. Fifty years ago, the main lighting tools in her village were kerosene lamps and pine trees. Because her father died relatively early, their family was the poorest in the village.

She has loved studying since she was a child and likes to read all kinds of books. Since her family cannot afford extracurricular books, she often borrows them from her friends, but there is a time limit for returning the borrowed books. Sometimes, her friends just He would lend her an extracurricular book for one night, and if she wanted to finish the book, she would have to light a kerosene lamp and read. However, because the family was too poor and sometimes did not even have money to buy kerosene, her mother often asked her to go to bed after dark.

One day, she borrowed a book from a village more than ten miles away. Since the book needed to be returned the next day, she planned to light a kerosene lamp and read, but who knew that about night At 10 o'clock, her mother broke into her room and took away the kerosene lamp. It was precisely because of this incident that she fell out with her mother and had a grudge with her mother. In the following years, she never called her mother "Mom".

Later, she was admitted to university, left her hometown, and came to Chongqing. Because she always hated her mother in her heart, she rarely took the initiative to contact her mother. However, when someone from her hometown comes to Chongqing for business, her mother always begs the people from her hometown to bring her a few bottles of kerosene, and entrusts the people from her hometown to tell her: You should study hard! Don’t be afraid of wasting gas on , your mother is saving it for you! "Despite this, she was not moved at all.

When she was in her sophomore year, suddenly one day, a message came to her from her family, saying that her mother had suddenly passed away. When she heard that her mother had died suddenly, , all the previous grudges against her mother were gone, so she hurried back home. When she was finishing her mother's funeral and sorting out her mother's belongings, she suddenly found many shapes under her mother's bed. There were about 30 bottles of different styles. These bottles stood there spotlessly, and all of them were filled with kerosene. Faced with this situation, she finally knew what "family love" is in the world. , so she cried loudly and ran to her mother's grave.

This netizen said with emotion: "The most pure feeling in the world is family love. If a person does not know how to cherish family love, sooner or later, he will regret it. . "

A sociologist pointed out that there are many family stories in the world, and these family stories are happening every moment. In fact, these family stories are happening around us.

In fact, what this sociologist said It's very correct. No, it happened to a woman in Henan. Such a family story happened.

incident

Xiaomei, a woman from Luoning, Henan, is 25 years old. Since her parents went out to work soon after she was born, she has been living with her grandma. It should be said that she was raised by her grandma. .

When Xiaomei was 18 years old, her parents both died in a car accident. Since Xiaomei was an only child and her father was also an only son, Xiaomei once again regarded her widowed grandma's house as her own home. No matter where she went to work, When I go home, I always go back to my grandma.

Xiaomei said: "After I worked for a few years, I also saved a lot of money, so I opened a clothing store in Luoyang. I originally thought that this clothing store would make me financially sound. Turn over so that my grandma and I can My grandma lived a relatively prosperous life. However, God did not go as I wished. Not only did this clothing store fail to turn around my finances, but it also saddled me with a debt of more than 200,000 yuan. For this reason, I cried all day long. After washing my face, I even had thoughts of committing suicide, but my grandma encouraged me and said: "There is compensation." Business is about making money. How can there be no profit in doing business? If the business loses, we will do it slowly, and we will pay back the money we owe. As long as your grandma is here, there is nothing to worry about. With the encouragement of my grandma, I cheered up again, so I decided to go to a place in Zhengzhou first. I work in my home unit, so I can take care of my life and my grandma’s life first.”

Xiaomei continued: “I went to Zhengzhou to work, and sometimes I would only go home once every two or three months, and my grandma was the only one at home. I told my grandma that she only needs to keep the house, but who I know that my 67-year-old grandma secretly picked up rags. Once, when I found a lot of junk piled up at home, I realized what my grandma was doing at home, so I tried to dissuade her. But I But grandma said: "You are still in debt! We, the grandparents, can eat less." "Please, drink less, but you have to pay back the debt you owe me! Don't worry about me, I won't be tired of picking up rags. I can earn every penny. It's business to pay back the money I owe you." Since I couldn't persuade my grandma, I had to let her pick up rags for me. "

Xiaomei continued: "When I usually go home, I will call my grandma in advance. But one day last year, I did not call my grandma before going home, and it was precisely because I did not call my grandma in advance this time. The phone call made me realize how much my grandma lived for me. "Hard days."

According to Xiaomei, since she owed foreign debt, her grandmother was reluctant to buy even a vegetable. When her grandmother went out to pick up rags, she would either go to the vegetable market to pick up some rotten vegetable leaves discarded by others; I would go to the fields to dig some wild vegetables. Moreover, I never add oil when cooking. I just boil it in plain water and mix it with some salt. Of course, when her grandma knew that she was going home, she would go to the vegetable market in advance to buy vegetables. If it weren't for the fact that she didn't call her grandma in advance when she came home that time, she would have no idea how her grandma lived alone at home.

On July 27 this year, Xiaomei’s grandmother died suddenly without any warning. August 27 was one month after her grandma passed away. Xiaomei went home to pay homage to her grandma. When she returned to her grandma’s old house, she unexpectedly found an iron box on a broken table. Out of curiosity, she She found a red paper bag in the box. When she opened the red paper bag, she found that there were two stacks of coins neatly inside. So, she instantly broke her guard. Because she knew that although the money was small, it was all earned by her grandmother by picking up rags in order to enable her to pay off the loan as soon as possible! So Xiaomei cried sadly after realizing her grandma's affection.

The above is the general process of this incident.

Netizen voice

True family affection comes from love and dedication from the heart. Because Xiaomei’s grandmother loves Xiaomei deeply, she is willing to pay her true love for Xiaomei no matter what. I hope Xiaomei can always remember her grandma’s family affection and let her grandma’s family affection accompany her throughout her life.

Lao Hu’s point of view

What exactly is family love?

Lao Hu believes that: Family love is a flower that never withers. It will send you warmth and beauty all the time during the long journey of life; family love is a bright and brilliant spring light. During the difficult journey of your life, it will bring you warmth and beauty. Bringing you light and warmth all the time.

Xiaomei’s grandma is a selfless grandma. She used her family affection to create a haven for Xiaomei and built a peaceful harbor for Xiaomei; Get out of the trough and regain your glory. I hope Xiaomei can write a wonderful life with the family love of her grandma.

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