Good feelings are like a cup of old tea. As time goes by, it will become more mellow and delicious.
It is really not easy to meet the right person at the right time. In many cases, you will find that what you meet is probably just a passerby.
has some relationship, and you will also find that not all sincerity can be reciprocated, or even your wishful thinking.
A good relationship is about mutual attraction and mutual understanding. Only a relationship that understands equal dedication can last longer.
No matter how much you love someone, you must live your own life well and constantly improve yourself. This is the choice of a smart woman.
Sometimes, you might as well slow down, don't be too proactive, slowly see a person clearly, and then choose a relationship.
01, meet slowly, pay slowly
In heterosexual relationships, if the likes are not equal, then generally the more you give, the more sad you will be.
The deeper the love, the easier it is to do many behaviors that are not controlled by the brain.
If you have a crush on someone in a heterosexual relationship, you should also control your behavior, get to know the other person slowly, and don't make progress too fast, otherwise, it is easy to see someone's heart clearly.
The novelty can indeed bring the relationship between two people closer, but without a serious attitude, it will just be a chance encounter.
Any relationship needs to be understood, let alone someone you just met.
If you want to make him more generous, you actually need to guide him to continue to give, so that he will know how to cherish.
Depending on a person's efforts, he can not only protect himself, but also select high-quality partners.
02, feelings require giving.
If you like someone, you will involuntarily want to give and express your love for the other person through various behaviors.
Because we love each other very much, we always hope to give all the good things we have to each other.
However, love is not everything in life. No matter how much you love someone, you must first have your own life and social circle, and never let love bury everything about you.
When your mind is thinking about how to be with him all day long and you ignore your own life plan, in fact, your quality of life is greatly reduced.
A good relationship requires two-way dedication. If it is only your contribution, then such a relationship is not equal.
He understands your hard work, and you understand his dedication. Only in this way can a pure relationship be created.
Give slowly, see the other person's sincerity, and then give love, only in this way can you get happiness.
03, don't be too anxious to get married.
Love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families. Don't get your marriage certificate just because you are in a hurry.
When feelings are the strongest, you often cannot see the true nature of the other person. If you don't understand the opposite character, you won't live a good life after marriage.
When we are in love, all we see are the advantages of the other person, but in marriage, what we need to face is daily necessities.
Time can allow you to meet love, but it can also allow you to meet human nature.
Regarding marriage, you must be cautious and first examine the other person’s family, character, and plans for the future family.
first improve themselves, improve themselves, and work together for a common goal.
A good relationship takes time to brew. As a smart woman, you must learn to slow down and understand the other person's sincerity. The author of
, Ranxia Yingzi, is a freelance writer who focuses on self-media operations, writing and live broadcast entrepreneurship. Welcome to pay attention and consult.