Text丨Love in the West Chamber
Time is not long, I hope you will meet in my words and it will not be too late!
We always say that being deeply liked by someone is a kind of luck, but every woman facing love wants far more than just liking, but deep love.
Similarly, in the rational world of men, there is an essential difference between love and liking. The former is a responsibility after careful consideration, while the latter is just an inner impulse.
It is precisely because of this clear distinction that men often have completely different attitudes towards these two types of partners.
Women all long to be regarded as the only one by the one they love. However, in many love relationships, men’s feelings remain at liking and they are never willing to take one more step forward.
So, how to judge whether a man likes you or is deeply in love?
There is this sentence in "Basic Psychology": "Emotional stimulation causes physiological reactions in the body, and physiological reactions further lead to the generation of emotional experience."
It can be seen that physiological reactions are one of the criteria for verifying whether a person loves or not. , is also a distinctive characteristic that will appear after a person is deeply in love.
Therefore, women must learn to be smarter when facing love. In fact, if a man never shows these physiological reactions, it means that he just likes you and does not love you enough.
1. Never get nervous because of your affairs
When we have a deeply loved person in our hearts, we will always put the other person at the top of our heart anytime, anywhere, and worry about everything for him.
Although a man is not good at expressing himself in detail, once he has someone he really wants to protect in his heart, his attitude will change accordingly.
It is obvious that if a man just likes you, then when we get along, he is willing to accompany you to laugh and play around, and he is willing to accompany you for any joyful things, but he will not worry about you.
And a man who loves you enough will not only be willing to accept your emotions, but when you encounter trouble, he will also act more anxious than you and wish he could help you deal with all the troubles.
A man who loves you is not afraid of trouble. No matter how big or small your problems are, he will worry about it for you and help you share it.
A man who just likes you can accept the pleasure you bring, but when you are in trouble, his first reaction is trouble.
No matter how troubled you appear, he will not be nervous and may even reject you subconsciously.
2. I have never introduced you to my friends, and I will never talk about you.
When you love someone deeply, you like to carry that person with you no matter what you do, especially the joy in your heart. It is bound to find a person. A suitable outlet to vent.
For a man, meeting the woman he loves is like winning a battle, and he can't wait to show off.
Therefore, the moment he determines his intention, he will take the initiative to introduce you to the people around him. When chatting, I often talk about you and always say "what is my girlfriend doing" unconsciously.
But if a man's feelings for you only remain superficial, then he will not be willing to introduce you in a big way.
Because this type of man has his own plans in mind, he is not willing to expose the fact that he is not single outside, and his hiding is often to facilitate the meeting of other members of the opposite sex at any time.
Furthermore, since he only cares about you for fun, he certainly doesn’t want you to be known by his friends.
Not only that, this kind of man will not talk about you at any time. As long as you are not together, he will not remember you, let alone talk about you all the time.
Therefore, when a man neither introduces you nor wants to care about you, you should understand that he just likes you, not deeply loves you.
3. Never restrain any behavior towards you
We often say that liking means being unbridled and loving means restraining.
When a man deeply loves a woman, even if he has a giant beast in his heart, he is still willing to curb his wildness and become docile when facing his lover.
For example, a man who loves you will not lose his temper with you, and even if he quarrels, he will only make sense.
Moreover, he is not willing to touch you without your permission, because he cares more about your feelings than his selfish desires.
But when a man just likes you, he will care more about his own feelings and do whatever he wants to you, not caring whether you like it or not.
Not only that, if you don't meet his requirements when getting along, he will even lose his temper and complain about you. Even if you are not wrong, he will feel that you don't love him enough.
In short, it is useless to talk about love with this kind of man, because his feeling for you is not yet deep love.
Especially when you have conflicts, he will expose his true nature, not restraining his anger at all, and showing the worst side to you.
I hope you can understand that this kind of man who never restrains his words and deeds towards you only loves himself, and he only likes you lightly.
Conclusion:
It is said that when two people are together, it is enough if they like each other.
But men’s definition of liking is too broad. They can easily fall in love with someone, but they won’t pay too much for her.
Because this kind of liking is just an emotional excitement, not a real heartbeat.
Therefore, Ximei hopes that you can understand that when you are with a man, if you want to judge whether he loves you, it depends on whether he will have these physiological reactions to you.
After all, a person's subconscious actions don't lie. If he has never had these reactions to you, then it is obvious that he has not taken you to heart.
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