When I was reading an article yesterday, I saw a sentence: "After thirty, I feel that I have become a heavy-duty ox. In the early morning and in the evening, I moan tiredly, but I don't know where to rest."
"House mortgage, car loan, the health of the elderly at home, the high school that the children are about to attend, banquets hosted by relatives...all cost money."
I felt depressed when I saw this passage.
When people reach middle age, their parents and children have become the ones to worry about. If the parents are in good health, the pressure will be less.
If parents are in poor health and have to go to the hospital, it is the most painful time. Coupled with the monthly living expenses for children's education, these have become a considerable expense.
The pressure from all aspects makes people feel breathless.
Who can be completely freed from the anxiety of middle age? How can you let go of your loved ones?
These things are not the anxiety of one person, but the anxiety of a group of people.
We are all in this together and there is no way out.
We can't tell our family or others about the pain in our hearts and the tears in our eyes.
is worried that his situation will affect his family, and he is also worried that his situation will be known to others.
When you are tired and suffering, you can only sigh when you get off work, but you can't fall asleep at night no matter how hard you sleep.
But in life, if you don’t love yourself, who can love you?
Only you know the pain in your heart, and only you know when you feel uncomfortable, tired, and annoyed.
Those pressures and pains are all responsibilities we should bear.
We can't put these things aside, we can only find sugar from these pains to make our lives easier.
Eat something you like every once in a while, and tell yourself every once in a while: Love life and yourself well.
Don't let yourself live a depressed life because of pain, and don't inflict your temper on others because of irritability.
No one has any obligation to bear our temper. Venting it to others will inevitably seriously hurt those who love us.
In order to live, we must pretend to be impeccable, show reliability in front of family members, and show calmness in front of friends.
But at this moment when no one knows, please take care of yourself who is already very vulnerable at this time.
When I feel really uncomfortable, I go to a circle of friends where no one knows me to vent my emotions, or tell strangers my grievances and worries.
Wait until the next day and face the world positively.
A person's life will not always be at the bottom. We can always climb up.
believes that everything we are facing now will eventually pass. In the future, we will step on these grievances and these annoyances, ride the wind and waves, and bloom gorgeous roses.
Our lives will become dazzling because of these pains, and our families will give us the same and corresponding love along with our upbringing.
Finally, the world is big, but our hearts are small. Nothing can be accommodated, but we can accommodate a little of everything.
Don’t be afraid of the difficulties in the future, and don’t be afraid of the pressure that will come your way. We will eventually become better versions of ourselves.
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