recently appeared on the Internet called mother and fetus solo , somehow, I checked a subject: mother-fetal single is a mother-fetal solo, also known as "mother-fetal solo". "So" refers to a person who has been single since birth and has never been in a relationship.
People who are single for a long time are most afraid of meeting someone and falling in love. The walls that had been built all the time fell apart. Fear of injury, fear of losing yourself by relying on others, so I chose to be single
A sister from the neighbor's family, 42 years old this year, a returnee doctor, senior white-collar worker, annual salary of one million, knowledge, literacy and standard. But he has never been married, has been single, and has never even fallen in love.
The elders in the family urged the marriage many times and asked someone to talk to her. She seemed uninterested, but she refused to introduce a high-quality object. The elders in the family are helpless. She still does her own way and is at ease.
I haven't seen each other for many years. Once I met her and asked her why she was single. She said that she found out that she had been studying for a long time, and she didn't know what it was like to like someone. She didn't seem to be very open.
I have been obsessed with learning until I was 30 years old. I am used to this feeling of solitude when I am out of society at the age of 30. I always feel that I am not good enough. I will talk about it when I am better.
There are a lot of friends who can play when you are young, you don’t feel lonely, and falling in love is not a must. There has been no suitable object and it has been dragged to the present.
Now she still believes in Buddhism, is a vegetarian every day, and has time to run to the temple to study Buddhism and see through it. Most of the savings also contribute to Buddhist studies.
She said that it is rare to go home now. Basically, she hasn't come back in a few years. Going home is to urge her to marry and force her to go on a blind date. She has no desire. She thought that she was destined to be with the ancient Buddha of the blue lantern, and she would never get married again in this life.
I have become accustomed to running all over the world, I am used to the noisy streets and thousands of lights and I walk through alone. I am used to looking up at the sky when I am sad, and I am used to self-healing.
I am accustomed to and learned to enjoy the state of being single, and I am busy every day with work, social interaction, pet, shopping, travel and other hobbies to enrich my life, replace the role of a lover, and fully meet my emotional needs . "Besides love, I have 100 ways to make myself happy."
She said that if she is going to fall in love now, she feels even more uncomfortable. is used to being single and likes being single.I like loneliness This is my current state of life. I have become a person full of contradictions and desirelessness.
The longer you are single, the less likely it is to find your partner. The longer you are single, the more you like to be alone. Once I like this peace, I don't want to be attached to others.
Prefer high-quality singles to low-quality marriages. Life is a spiritual practice! Achieve Ningque not overrun, never hungry or choose food! I just want to think about it in the second half of my life. Only by yourself will you be happy and have everything!
Marriage means that one person's life becomes the chase of two people, and at the beginning, yearning for beautiful love and marriage. The trivial and invisible harm of life will wipe out the illusion of love within a few years.
20 years ago, a TV series Don’t talk to strangers , the famous scenes of domestic violence are still fresh in my memory and can be called a classic. In the play, played by Feng Yuanzheng Anjia and are well-known doctors. Outside, they are gentlemen, gentle and polite, and they are extremely high in the local area.
The heroine Mei Shonan is not only beautiful, but also a teacher. The combination of doctors and teachers is the choice of many people in choosing a spouse in China, a more traditional country.Many single women want their husbands to be doctors, so that they can have a lifetime health escort by their side. Such a husband, because he is proficient in medical science, understands the wife's hard work in childbirth, and is usually a model.
Dr. Ann was very lucky and met a knowledgeable and understanding wife. But Mei Xiangnan was not so lucky. Because of his distorted personality, Dr. An suspected that his wife had an affair. He had committed domestic violence against his wife for a long time, causing domestic violence. His wife was about to escape and was arrested several times. He was arrested and beaten again and again. Finally, finally Escape.
Because the actors were too real, the divorce rate increased when the drama came out. Love is experienced once in a lifetime. Don't fantasize about marrying love. Only after experiencing marriage can you understand that marrying love is a perfectionist idea.
Many people believe in love, but those who believe more have no love. So I have been reluctant to do it.
The husband Lin Shengbin in the Hangzhou community arson case that went viral on the Internet recently collapsed. The cause was the collapse of his family in the middle of the night on June 30. Lin Shengbin posted a message on Weibo announcing that he had remarried and gave birth to a daughter. , I hope to get your blessings.
Careful netizens calculated based on the child's birth time that Lin Shengbin had already walked out of the pain of losing his wife and child two or three years ago, and had a new love. However, for four years, he has been playing the role of a "good husband" and "good dad" on social media. He also uses these personal settings to open stores and sell goods to make money, and to consume his deceased relatives. The food is really ugly.
When Lin Shengbin married Zhu Xiaozhen, the Zhu family did not agree.Zhejiang people think that Fujian’s land is partial, and the Zhu family can be regarded as a kind of superiority. Zhu Xiaozhen married without turning back and chose to marry love. Married to love ended in the death of the mother and son in a sea of flames. There is even evidence that Lin Shengbin participated in and manipulated this arson case.
Love is a dream, everything is just a dream, it has always been just self-righteous, it has always been just wishful thinking, it has never existed. The cruelty of marriage makes dreams awake and broken.
According to Tanabata’s 2021 contemporary youth marriage status study: More than half of contemporary young people have no boy/girlfriend, and one third of the mother and child are solo. They enjoy being single and are more willing to make money and careers. Love to please yourself.
Males prefer girls to have a good family background, while females hope to have the upper hand in their relationship. They can buy a house and pay for a date. They look forward to having a sibling relationship with a "young man".
The current social concept is progressing. Women are becoming more and more independent. They are no longer an old society that depends on men to live. Many people choose not to marry, not to marry or have children, and to pursue careers.
The current love model is more free. It can be a named couple, or a partner can be a brother, and some people choose close relationships such as weekend couples, two-headed marriages, paper sex, etc., to cope with this " internal volume " era.
Now the Civil Affairs Bureau has put a new slogan in response to the high divorce rate: " Marriage is not necessarily happy, single is not necessarily unhappy, one person is born, and it is impossible to be two when you leave. Love is a luxury. You don’t have to be .”
You have to understand that the most important thing is a stable mood and good finances.Not whether someone loves you or not. Everything is indifferent, independence is better than anything else. Modern feelings have long been indifferent. Life is vast. It shouldn't be all about love and being loved.
Marriage is a besieged city. People outside the city want to go in. People in the city figure it out. You must find the beloved who can warm you all seasons.
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