What do you think about premarital sex? You can see what netizens have to say.
JENNY, female, 29 years old:
Because of my family's traditional beliefs, I had the idea of not being able to have premarital sex when I was a child.
Actually, I don't think a man's love for you has anything to do with xxoo. If
loves you, he will love you for a long time. If he doesn't love you, can it only be maintained by xxoo?
Peach, female, 24:
I think premarital sex is okay. But I personally think that after the age of 18, both men and women have the ability to be responsible for their own actions.
As they age, more women know what they want.
Xiao Liu, male, 28 years old:
Before I knew her, she gave it to others for the first time, I was a little sad!
But she is the person I want to marry and I will respect her behavior.
After reading the "Small Survey", let's take a look at the "Big Data", how contemporary young men and women view premarital sex.
1. More than 60% of college students accept premarital sex
China Family Planning Association, China Youth Network and the Public Health Research Center of Tsinghua University jointly launched the "National Survey on Sexual and Reproductive Health of College Students".
According to the survey results, from university to undergraduate graduation, more than 53% of students have explicit sexual behavior.
From a gender perspective, the incidence of sexual activity in boys is higher than that in girls.
By the graduation stage, sexual behavior between men and women is basically the same.
Judging from the age of first sexual intercourse, the average age of and is between 18 and 19 years old, with boys accounting for 28.84% and girls accounting for 25.14%.
There was no significant difference in the age of first sex between men and women.
The incidence of sexual activity increases significantly with age.
In terms of attitude towards sex before marriage, 75.14% of men and 55.03% of women answered "I can accept it".
In addition, from the first year to the fourth year of college, the overall acceptance of sexual behavior before marriage has increased year by year, and the proportion of all fourth-year students who can accept it reaches 86.56%.
In addition, in terms of open house or cohabitation, up to 83.85% of boys can accept cohabitation, while the proportion of girls is lower, reaching 60.97%.
Similarly, with the increase of age, from freshman to senior year, the overall acceptance is also increasing. Another survey by
also reflected similar results.
In China, people born between 1995 and 2012 have distinct personalities and outstanding advantages.
They were born and grew up in an era of domestic economic prosperity and the rise of the mobile Internet, known as the Pink Z era.
According to China's post-1995 report, 66% of men and 53% of women accepted premarital sex after 1995.
While 9% of men and 16% of women said premarital sex was not acceptable.
In the case of unmarried, the attitude of unmarried pregnancy is that 76% of people choose to have children and get married.
11% of people choose to abort their children and not get married; 9% of them choose to abort their children and get married; 3% of people think that they should bring their own children without getting married; finally, 1% of people choose to have children but not to marry. Get married and leave it to your parents.
In terms of gender, 86% of men and 66% of women are in favor of "marry after having children".
In general, men and women think differently when unwed pregnancy occurs, but most people choose to have children and get married.
Regarding the form of marriage, 54% of post-95s are willing to choose tourism marriage, while 31% of post-95s choose not to care; 24% of post-95s are willing to choose " naked marriage ".
In the "naked marriage" group, 65% of men agreed, while 35% of women agreed.
2. Why are more and more people accepting premarital sex?
Nowadays, more and more young people are open to premarital sex, which is an essential change in the concept of the times.
Since the 20th century, sexual culture has undergone tremendous changes in the world.
On the one hand, with the advancement of equal rights for men and women, sex has become the best choice for indirect acceptance of each other.
Another objective fact is that in the age of agricultural civilization, people were married in their teens. After
entered the industrial civilization era, the age of marriage was generally delayed.
From a purely physiological point of view, there is nothing inherently wrong with premarital sex.
With the changes in the social structure of and , many people go to school and work, and often they are not married when they are 30 years old, and marriage in the legal sense has not been carried out.
However, from a biological point of view, sexual needs are very mature.
With the change of concept, premarital sex has become a fact and is accepted by more and more people.
And premarital sex is not without its benefits.
First of all, it can meet physiological needs.
People gradually mature after entering adolescence. In this case, if their needs are not met, it may affect their life and work, and even lead to psychological and mental diseases..
Second, you can check the harmony.
Whether a couple's sexual relationship is harmonious or not directly affects their relationship and future life, and pre-marriage can test the compatibility of the two in advance to avoid regrets after marriage.
is the best, and it can also enhance mutual understanding and bring the relationship between the two parties closer. After the understanding is deepened, the relationship will also deepen.
In addition, it is also possible to know in advance whether the other party's sexual orientation and physical condition are healthy.
3. There are certain risks in "trial love" before marriage
In fact, pre-marital sex has certain benefits, but also certain risks.
is unintended pregnancy, which is more harmful to women.
According to relevant data, as early as 2012, the abortion rate in my country reached 29%, with an average of more than 10 million women receiving induced abortions every year.
Among them, women under the age of 20 become the top three high-risk miscarriage.
At present, there are about 13 million females in my country every year, of which more than half are under the age of 25.
And the harm to women caused by the flow of people is both physical and psychological.
Physiologically, induced abortion is an artificial curettage, which has a strong adsorption force on surgical instruments and dismembers the fetus and absorbs it into the body.
This process causes irreversible damage to the endometrium.
12% of women will have symptoms such as induced abortion syndrome, bradycardia, arrhythmia, drop in blood pressure, pale complexion, sweating and other symptoms, which can cause syncope and convulsions in severe cases.
Even if the operation is successful, there may be complications and sequelae such as endometritis, pelvic inflammatory disease, uterine bleeding, chronic pelvic inflammatory disease, menstrual abnormalities, and endometriosis.
If the situation is serious, it will lead to infertility , conception, and fertility will be greatly reduced.
Psychologically, most young women have no source of income, they are worried that their pregnancy will be known to their families, and bear a heavy mental burden.
Some serious patients may even have depression and suicidal tendencies.
Message: Always be safe
Therefore, it is important to be safe when it comes to sexual activity, whether it is a man or a woman, before or after marriage.
Especially in pre-marriage sex, condoms must be properly worn for contraception and prevention of sexually transmitted infections.
If there is a possibility of pregnancy, you should take the birth control pill immediately to avoid "self-defeating" and ultimately harm your own body.
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