Family of origin refers to the family in which one was born and raised. The atmosphere of the family, traditional habits, what children learn in the family, and the relationship between family members, etc., will affect the performance of children in their new family in the future, as well as the life of each of us.
I was studying abroad today and heard this passage: "Society is stratified, and human beings are born unequal; fame, power, and wealth are the main criteria for measuring a person's social status. The background determines the starting point of your social stratification , and personal struggle determines the end point."
Many people struggle for the end of their lives, but it is only the starting point that a small number of people can easily get from .
strives to climb up the other hierarchy , never just on its own.
What were your parents like? What is their family of origin and educational background? What kind of work have you done? What results have you achieved? What kind of class transition experience have you had? What social class does it ultimately belong to?
What influence have your parents and other important family members had on your worldview , life , values and your personality , character , character? What significant impact has it had on your thinking mode and habit formation? What was the most important experience in your growing up with
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The answers to these questions are the starting point of your hierarchy. The influence of the
family of origin is deeply rooted in the bone marrow. Although we always stubbornly say that I will never become what kind of person, but in the end, we still gradually become our own mother or father.
The family of origin is the enlightenment point for children to grow up.
Although this reality is a little helpless, it is still believed that "knowledge changes destiny".
birth cannot be chosen, but we can choose the starting point of our struggle, the way we work hard, and the end point we are heading towards.
I have always believed in "life is endless, learning is endless". Reading, writing, and learning are constantly expanding the boundaries of our cognition and . As cognition improves, the world we see will be different.
No matter what level you are in now, don't give up learning, even if you spend the time of watching videos for reading, it is the starting point of learning. It's never too late to start.
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