My name is Li Mei and I am a native of southern China. I have never been in love until I was 28 years old. I am a single mother . In the past, I always focused on study and career.
The custom in my hometown is that if a woman is not married until the age of 28, she is a leftover woman. No one wants her and she is laughed at by the villagers.
Because I have an introverted personality and am not good at talking, I have never been able to make a boyfriend. My family members became anxious and asked for introductions everywhere.
My mother took me to live with 8 people, and the conditions were not very good. I was worried when my cousin found out and introduced me to my current husband.
He is good-looking, and his family owns a car and a house. Their family said they would give him a gift of 200,000 yuan if they were chosen. My mother took a fancy to their bride price, so she took me on a blind date with him.
When we met, he looked humble, polite and gentlemanly. My mother was very happy with him and spent a lot of money. After only being together for half a month, he proposed marriage.
held a grand wedding. I was welcomed in by them wearing a white wedding dress and hardware.
I changed out of my toast clothes that night, and my mother-in-law brought out a bowl of black soup for me to drink, saying it was the secret recipe for having children.
I don’t want to drink it. My husband has been persuading me to have a baby as soon as possible because I really like children and they make the house lively. He also said that this was their secret recipe that they spent a lot of money to buy.
I could only bear to drink it for a few months. Within half a year, I don’t know if it was the effect of the decoction, but I became pregnant.
After my mother-in-law saw that I was pregnant, she hired a nanny to take care of me. When I was 8 months pregnant, I found out that my husband had cheated on me.
He chatted with several women online, always calling each other husband and wife, and even had sex together.
I felt disgusting and couldn't bear it, so I went to make trouble with him. He said confidently: "I am a man who needs to meet my physiological needs. I can't hold it in, and I can't stop eating meat all the time." The reason why their family married me at a high price was because it was my first time and they wanted me to have a child. Instead of spending money to take care of him.
At that moment, I wanted to regret my marriage, but my husband’s family refused to let me go, saying that I was their family’s son in life and their family’s ghost in death. Otherwise, give birth to the child, return all the bride price, and let me go.
I had no choice but to call my mother and tell her about it. She said that the bride price had already been used to build a house for my brother.
I have been asking my husband for divorce, but he just doesn’t agree. Until my son was born, I couldn't leave him alone. I couldn't take him away. I couldn't support him and I was afraid that my husband's family would teach him bad things, so I didn't mention the divorce again.
But my husband is different. After my son was born, he wanted to drive me away. He asked me for divorce every day and asked me to bring my son to him, but I didn't agree. After spending 4 years with him
my mother had a car accident and I went back to take care of her before I brought my son to him. I felt more at ease with a nanny at home.
Unexpectedly, 17 days after I returned home, he instigated his son to call me and curse me to die. This sentence was used in 227 phone calls.
What am I doing wrong.
