Twins are magical beings. Not only do they look the same, but they are also very similar in appearance, preferences and living habits. They often have a similar understanding. It is really enviable for any family to have a pair of twins.
However, for twin families, parents have to bear double the education expenditure. Under normal circumstances, parents will work hard to create the same learning environment for their students. Two people can help each other, and their grades will improve soon.
Many twins have about the same academic performance. It would be a great joy for their parents if both twins could be admitted to their ideal colleges. However, there are also some twin families. Due to limited financial conditions, it is difficult to provide the same educational environment for two students at the same time , so that the two students are born at the same time but have different fates.
The twin sisters' college entrance examination scores were only 5 points apart, but their lives after graduation were like living in "two worlds"
Ms. Guo is a single mother with a pair of twin daughters. As she grows older, education Expenses were getting higher and higher, and the heavy financial pressure made Ms. Guo unable to bear it. After weighing the considerations, she decided to send her eldest daughter to study in her hometown. She would work alone to earn money, so that she could barely support her youngest daughter's education. After all, it is better for one person to receive a better education than to go back to her hometown.
In this way, the two sisters studied in different places. Fortunately, the elder sister was also more competitive. She ranked among the best in every exam. During the high school entrance examination, she was admitted to a local key high school with excellent results.
My younger sister has been studying in the city with her mother. She is also very good at . Like her elder sister, she was admitted to a key high school. At this time, Ms. Guo also had a certain financial foundation and was able to provide for her two daughters to study, so she brought her eldest daughter back. The two sisters went to school together every day, and after returning home at night, they also studied together until late at night.
Since her eldest daughter came home, Ms. Guo feels that her character is a bit introverted and rarely talks at home. In contrast, her younger daughter's character is optimistic and cheerful, and she can become the center of attention no matter where she is. However, seeing that her eldest daughter's grades were very good, Ms. Guo didn't think much about it. She thought it might be because she was under too much study pressure and was just too tired to talk.
After three years of hard study, both sisters were admitted to their favorite school, , with excellent results. The difference in the college entrance examination scores between the two sisters was only 5 points. This made Ms. Guo very happy. As long as the two daughters study hard in college, their future life will be immeasurable.
After entering college, the two sisters still maintained their original study habits, but their personalities were completely different. The older sister was withdrawn, and even her classmates in the dormitory rarely interacted with each other. , she usually went to class or went to eat alone, and she had been studying for four years in college.
In contrast, ’s younger sister had a richer college life. In addition to working hard to learn professional skills, she also actively participated in various activities and ran for the class committee. My younger sister determined her career direction very early and spent the entire college period preparing for the public examination. Due to her sufficient preparation and her super comprehensive ability, was successfully admitted to the local civil servant after graduation.
The lives of the two sisters were very different after graduation. At this time, the elder sister did not want to interact with others due to personality problems, so she had no way to find a job. Fortunately, she got good grades and later decided to take the postgraduate entrance examination and successfully landed.
While her mother was happy, she was also worried about her eldest daughter's future, because her eldest daughter said that she still planned to study for a Ph.D. after she finished her master's degree. When asked about work and personal relationship issues, her eldest daughter kept silent.
The mother felt regretful when she saw her two daughters who looked the same but had completely different personalities.
When Ms. Guo saw her daughters who could have had the same life, she also regretted her original decision. If she had been more capable or worked harder and kept both daughters by her side to take care of her, perhaps she would not be in the current situation .
Or send both daughters back to their hometown to study. The sisters also take care of each other in life and study. Maybe the eldest daughter will not become the character she is today. In any case, the matter is a foregone conclusion. Even if Ms. Guo is full of melancholy, she cannot buy regret medicine.
It can be seen that family education is crucial to the growth of students , especially in primary and secondary schools. It is a critical period for the formation of students' outlook on life and personality. If there is a lack of family education, it will inevitably lead to a lack of students' personality.
Like Ms. Guo’s eldest daughter, although her personality is relatively withdrawn, she has no problem with her outlook on life and her academic performance is also very good. However, such a personality is not popular in today’s society. Unless she has been engaged in scientific research after graduation, she may not be popular if she enters the workplace.
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When students grow up, the importance of family education cannot be underestimated. Good family education can allow students to grow up physically and mentally healthily. Even if their academic performance is not ideal, they can become very good people in the future. However, if family education exists, even if students have good academic performance, they will still have many problems to face in the future.
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