Although teachers and parents tend to agree on the issue of educating children, because they stand on different standpoints, conflicts of one kind or another will always occur.
As teachers, they need to face a group of students. There are forty or fifty students in a class, and it is impossible for a teacher to cover everything. In many cases, the teacher will not have a deep understanding of the students' situation. The only ones who do have understanding are only a few students.
However, parents are different. They only face three or two children. How can they not have an in-depth understanding of their children? It is because of this difference that conflicts arise between teachers and parents.
In addition, everyone has different education methods, different life experiences, and different requirements for children, so conflicts between teachers and parents are common and nothing to make a fuss about. However, a post I saw made people a little depressed - is this the teacher who is the worst teacher, or the parent who is the most incompetent parent?
Let’s take a look at this parent’s post -
The class president of my son’s elementary school is also very, very snobbish. If the child's memory is not good, let the child copy the story 50 times 50 times. Words, texts, and homework books are copied in various ways every day. One time, the child was lying on the podium with his schoolbag on his back and copying.
The most bizarre thing is the final exam. The teacher asked the children to write a pledge to express their determination: they must get good grades at the end of the semester. This sentence was threatened 100 times and parents were asked to sign 100 times. Only one person in the class refused to sign, and the child was immediately depressed and unable to sleep.
I collected a lot of evidence and went to the Education Bureau to file a complaint against her. My son cried and refused to let me go.
It has been a few years since this happened, and when I think about it now, I still feel a thorn in my heart about all the things this teacher did, but I know that most teachers are kind. This is the only bad teacher I have ever met, very bad.
Why did this parent report the teacher? Because the class teacher has never stopped punishing me with various kinds of copying, including punishing words, ancient poems, and texts, and even a sentence expressing determination must be copied 100 times. This teacher is not teaching at all. He is simply struggling. Does he know anything about teaching? How can learning
be so difficult? When studying, children should be relaxed and happy, without any worries. Now, it’s okay. Not only do you have a lot of homework, but you also have to do a lot of mechanical copying. Isn’t it just tormenting people? There is a lot of pressure on children to learn. How can they learn if they are punished from time to time?
The teacher assigned a lot of repetitive homework. Parents had no way to solve it for their children, and the children could only stay up late at night to work. This is what teachers should do, so why is it all placed on children?
Isn’t this corporal punishment in disguise? Look, the child has been tricked into being severely depressed - if she is not reported, who will be reported?
Why do children stop their father from complaining about their teachers? This is also easy to understand. Because this teacher did not do this to him alone, but to everyone. If she reports the teacher on this matter, will the head teacher give her some guns and sticks? Will his classmates look down on him because of this?
In the eyes of students at school, teachers are god-like existences, and they are in awe of them. And now if his classmates alienate him, isolate him, and exclude him because of this incident, then his situation in the class is conceivable.
As for why he was targeted in this way by his head teacher, his father actually said it, it was because of his poor memory. Is it really just a bad memory? I'm afraid not necessarily.
Judging from the repetitive homework assigned to him by this teacher, in addition to poor memory, it is more likely that he has a lack of serious attitude towards learning, laziness in study, and poor grades. This can be seen from the fact that he was asked to write a letter of guarantee and his father was asked to write his name after each sentence.
It is precisely because he knows that he has not done well, and he can only bear silently if he is punished.Therefore, he believed that he could not report the teacher because he was not strong enough at this point.
So, is the teacher not wrong in this matter? There is obviously something wrong. That is asking parents to sign, but why do they have to sign 100 times? You said it was to punish parents. Is there such a punishment? Parents are not your students either. Look, you've made other people's children severely depressed.
Is this true? Obviously not, he just attracts attention. My son is really moderately depressed. Is he still in the mood to sit here and post?
In this matter, what the father did was very bad. Since you know that your son has poor memory, you should go directly to the class teacher to make it clear. What do you want from your children? If you have no requirements for your children to study, just open the window and speak out. I think any teacher will choose to ignore it - it is not his own child, so why bother?
The reason why this father kept silent was that he actually hoped that his child would make progress in learning. However, seeing his son working so hard and being so tired, he couldn't sit still and even sorted out the teacher's dirty information. Fortunately, his son stopped him from doing this, so his class teacher did not suffer an "unwarranted disaster." The incident of
actually reminds teachers that children should be treated differently when educating them, and don’t think about cultivating children who don’t learn into talents. It’s not worth it to be thankless for your efforts and to be disturbed by them!
Dear readers, what do you want to say about a father who was so angry that he wanted to report the teacher because his son asked him to sign 100 times? What do you want to say? Everyone is welcome to leave messages and discuss.
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