Introduction:
Parents hope that their students can have excellent academic performance and be admitted to a high-quality university successfully. But in the past many years, parents seem to pay more attention to students' high school education, after all, they are facing a very important college entrance examination.
But with the "high school entrance examination diversion" and parents pay more and more attention to education, parents attach great importance to scores since students enter primary school. used to say "every minute is the lifeblood of students", but now it seems that "every minute is the lifeblood of parents".
, especially in primary school, because the difficulty of learning is relatively small, the proportion of students who get high scores is relatively high. Once students in their own home have low scores or their grades are removed, many parents cannot accept it. At this stage, a primary school student accused his parents after getting 99 points, which attracted the attention of many netizens. Let’s discuss it together.
elementary school students scored 99 points, and went home to "collapse and cry" to accuse their parents. Netizens in the comment area said they felt sorry for
, in fact, they were able to get 99 points. No matter what grade students are, it is also quite good. people who have experienced or those who understand education should understand that contemporary students learn very profoundly, Many undergraduates who have graduated for many years cannot tutor primary school students' studies.
However, a parent of a primary school student in Jiangsu recorded that the student got 99 points and then collapsed and cried when he returned home. cried and accused the parents. What was going on?
Primary school students said bluntly that every time they get 99 points, the first thing parents said was to ask the students where they lost one point and why they lost one point. asked the students if they were careless. students believe that parents never care how good the students do in the exam, and parents never think about what they think in their hearts, and never think about whether students want their parents to praise him or question him.
is such a video that has attracted the attention of many netizens. Some netizens believe that parents are incompetent but put all the pressure on the students; also think that students are so sad, but parents are still recording videos when a joke comes out; Some netizens even think that it is time for the parents of this student to reflect on their education.
The author first affirms that the parents of this student must attach great importance to students, attaches great importance to students' education, and also holds high hopes for students' future. This proves that they are at least responsible parents.
But secondly, the author believes that parents' education methods and how they get along with students have problems . This parent obviously ignored the students' emotions and always forced their thoughts to the students.
The most important thing is that when the students cried and accused, they still did not treat the students fairly, but instead shot videos to share their lives. In fact, this student’s accusation should sound the alarm for the education of every parent. How long has it been since you communicated with students, and how long has it been since you really understood the students’ hearts?
only grade theory is not desirable, and students’ accusations should also sound an alarm for parents. Student education time is easy to change and
The main accusation of this student is the attitude and behavior of parents. In fact, this situation will occur in many families. If parents can first affirm the students’ efforts and think that the student’s 99 points is already very good, then explain to the students, where is the deduction of this 1 point? It would be better if it can be made up for it. Only students can accept education like
. education should have methods. Every student has different characteristics and personalities. There are many methods for education, but the best one is really suitable for students. Parents and students should also be able to communicate and understand each other.
Only when parents truly stand on the perspective of students and understand their inner world can they give students a more correct and scientific education . The author knows that parents have good intentions, but it is precisely because of their attention to students that they can understand them better. They hurt their students because of their wrong education and may regret it.
The era of development and education is also progressing. Contemporary students cannot be compared with traditional post-80s and post-90s. they are smarter and more mature, and the knowledge they learn is more difficult. Parents should also change the times and communicate and educate in a more suitable way.
Author's message:
Although it cannot be said that scores are not important in primary school, in my opinion, developing good habits and stimulating students' interest in learning is actually more important. Learning is of course boring, but it also has the fun of exploring knowledge.
I hope every student can get high-quality and scientific education, parents grow up with students, and meet a better selves in the process of accompanying and educating students. I also hope that students can understand the meaning of learning and establish a correct learning attitude.
may work hard and succeed, but at least you won’t regret it. Students are still young and must know how to work hard and strive for their future. Finally, I wish the students of the motherland to achieve success in their studies, enter their ideal university through their own efforts, and achieve their own future.
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