The current fifth and sixth grades of primary school are equivalent to our junior high school age in the past. In addition, almost every child now has an electronic device, and the information received is much richer than when we were young.
inevitably accepts something that they shouldn't have come into contact with at their age.
However, there is no way, we can only adapt to the environment, but we cannot change the environment.
We thought that children in their teenage years old didn’t know anything, but in fact, they might know more than us.
Parents also guard against wolves and tigers at night, for fear that their children will go astray if they are accidentally.
For example, some time ago, a mother actually found a condom in her son's schoolbag, but it was unpacked. Her heart suddenly hit her throat.
Mom's mind is full of bad things, and the child will not do anything amazing.
Fortunately, it was just a prank by the boys. He deliberately put it in his son's schoolbag, trying to see him make a fool of himself, so he made a mistake.
But are we really sure these adolescent kids have no idea at all?
So, you must get the vaccine in advance if you should get it in advance, and you must also do the health education you should do in advance if something happens. If something happens, you will regret it.
In fact, parents are much more enlightened than when we were young, and their premature love for children is not like before, as if they have seen some kind of disaster.
Everyone understands that this is what children of this age should experience.
However, parents still hope that their children can communicate with themselves when they have this idea so that they can grasp their children's dynamics in a timely manner and not let their children go the wrong way.
Children don’t think so. They are just starting to fall in love. They just want to recite it silently by themselves. Sometimes they will be distracted in class, and they will unknowingly write the names of the people they like.
A mother found that her child’s textbook was full of other people’s names, and she suspected that her child fell in love early. After learning the truth, she became even more worried.
Mother accidentally saw that the child's textbook was filled with the names " Qin Xiaoxian ". She didn't dare to directly point out the child, so she quietly communicated with the teacher first.
Mother asked the teacher if the child had any bad behavior in school, who is Qin Xiaoxian, and why is his textbook full of his name?
suddenly stopped the teacher. The teacher thought for a while and there was no student named this name in his class. After thinking for a long time, the teacher slapped his thigh, oh! This is not the name of a student, it is the name of a crosstalk actor.
This child is not in love early, but is chasing stars!
Now, the mother is even more worried. The child is not listening to the class well in class, and the whole mind is full of celebrities. Can he still study hard?
Moreover, my mother has heard of the fanaticism of star-chasing people, such as stealing family money to buy gifts for celebrities, browsing albums, playing all night long, etc., there is nothing good anyway.
However, the teacher is not so worried about this. She said that 8 out of 10 children at this stage are chasing stars, which is normal.
Some students have written their idols into their compositions.
Idol’s birthday and family background are memorized, and they may not remember their parents’ birthdays.
Some children are almost obsessed with it. They don’t answer questions well during the exam, and the full test papers are written all the names of their favorite idol groups.
The parents’ worries are not unreasonable, but they cannot be blocked, they can only be relieved.
Children of this age have their outlook on life and values gradually. They really need someone they like to use as their idol, imitate their behavior, and even desire to be them.
This is a very normal phenomenon.
What you need to pay attention to is that parents should not dislike their children's idols, but just beat their children to death with just one stick.
Instead, we should guide children to discover the advantages of idols, let them take this as an example, and motivate themselves to work hard to become idols. One day in the future, when they can meet their idols, they can be proud of themselves.
Just like this little girl who likes Yuzuru Hanyu, she has actually discovered the shining points of her idol, so we can guide her that if you want to become your idol, your princess must work hard enough to make yourself shine in order to realize this dream.
When the child grows up, his views are mature, and he will naturally have his own judgment on whether to realize this dream.
Therefore, parents do not have to regard their children as chasing stars as a disaster, and what they want is just a spiritual guide.
When parents learn that their children have someone they like, it is best to chase them with them and empathize with them with and to better understand their children.
Who doesn’t have their own idol yet? Parents themselves have it!
Learn to think from the perspective of others, and the problem will be solved!
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