When I was in the third year of junior high school, my daughter was under great pressure. Everyone said that only half of the students could go to high school, and the other half would either go to vocational high school or go to technical school. As parents and children, of course they want to go to high school and college. Who doesn’t want to have better learning opportunities!
Because we do not have a local household registration, if we go to a public high school, the admission score for a foreign household registration is much higher than that of a local household registration. To be honest, even if we have a local household registration, we still have a high admission score. According to our daughter's grades, even if we have a local household registration, we may not be able to get into a public high school.
However, the tuition fees for private high schools are very expensive, and the cheapest three years are also 200,000 yuan less, and the teaching level of private high schools is not guaranteed. Therefore, my daughter was under great psychological pressure at that time. She was determined to take the public high school entrance exam. Unfortunately, although she worked very hard, her grades were never improved, especially in math. Once, she actually scored more than 30 points.
My daughter is getting more and more stressed, and she looks a little depressed. She is in a bad mood all day long, she goes to bed very late at night, and is drowsy during the day. I saw it and was anxious. I found some time to talk to my daughter. I said, "Don't create pressure on myself anymore. Anyway, there will always be some children who can't go to high school, and it doesn't matter if they can't go to high school. Vocational and technical schools are all good choices. There are all roads that lead to Rome . There are many choices in life, and it's not just one way to go to high school."
My daughter said, "I still want to try my best. I will try my best! If you can't get into high school, don't blame me!"
I said, "Of course not. No matter how many points you get, you are our daughter. You can continue to work hard, but there must be a limit. You must work hard without affecting your health. Don't put pressure on yourself psychologically, relax, and don't be nervous."
My daughter's condition has improved a lot in the next few months, and I always remind her by her side not to have psychological pressure, just try her best!
Later, my daughter's high school entrance examination score came out, and the score was a little better than I thought. This score could not be attended by public high schools, but there was still no problem in going to private high schools. We enrolled in a high school closer to home and were admitted. Tuition fees are a little expensive, but they are within the acceptable range.
Now my daughter is a first-year high school student. After a year of observation, we unanimously feel that the teaching level of teachers in private high schools is also very good, and the school management is also very strict. We are quite satisfied with this school.
So, if you ask me this question, public high schools, private high schools, vocational high schools, technical schools, which one is the right choice?
I want to say that it depends on the actual situation. Each child’s situation is different and the choice is different. Just choose one that suits you according to your own situation!
If your child has good academic performance and there is no problem getting into a public high school, then of course he will choose a public high school.
If your child’s academic performance is not that good, he will not be able to get into a public high school, but he can get into a private high school. This depends on the actual situation of the family, because the tuition fee for a private high school in three years is at least 200,000 yuan. If the family really can’t afford it, there is no need to choose this path.
If the child’s grades do not meet the scores of a private high school, you can choose a vocational high school or a technical school. It is best to choose a major that the child is interested in, or a major that is helpful for future employment, and make long-term plans.
No matter which choice you make, there is no right or wrong. There are no two identical leaves in this world, and there will be no two identical people. Each child has his own way to go, and choosing a path that suits him is the best choice!
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