For parents, students’ test scores are just the rope that is sliding on us. When our grades are good, our scalp will be looser and when our grades are bad, our hair will be fluttered. But for the family of primary school students, the scalp is still well maintained. After all, el

For parents, the test scores of students are just the rope that is sliding on us. If our scores in are good, our scalp will be loose and our hair will be fluttered.

But is still good for primary school students' families. After all, elementary school students don’t have much to learn, and in order to care about the psychology of students of lower age groups, their grades will not be too low now. Before the policy of undisclosed ranking scores was introduced, everyone's grades were not that unappreciated. They were basically double-hundred, 99, 98, and the worst students may be 94, 95, but are scores like really authentic? After the third monthly exam results came out, parents finally realized the reality

One thing that many novice parents have experienced was that saw that students had good grades in their exams and happily sent them to show off in their circle of friends. said that my child will definitely make a fortune in the future, but the comments I received in are all weird.

Before, some parents reported that their child scored 300 points. He was very happy and posted on his Moments that my child was from Tsinghua University on . The result of was commented by relatives: went to junior high school and high school, it was useless now.

This parent was very angry at the time. thought that his relatives were slandering him. But in fact, experienced parents will know that half of what his relatives said were correct, that is, 's grades in primary school are indeed deceptive.

For example, this mother deeply realized the correctness of this sentence in practice. We will call his child Xiao Liu for the time being. is now in junior high school, but his study is very troubled.

In fact, before going to junior high school, parents were quite confident in Xiao Liu's learning ability. After all, when , was basically the best child in class, and the exams were basically full marks.

and parents usually complete their homework with Xiao Liu to study together, so they also feel that Xiao Liu doesn’t actually focus on learning , but the score is good, so parents think that Xiao Liu is still a talented player.

But after entering junior high school, parents felt that they might have thought it was wrong. Xiao Liu was admitted to junior high school in September this year. After the start of school, he experienced a basic test, taking the midterm exam twice a month. Now has just passed the second monthly exam.

But in these 4 exams, in addition to the results of the basic exam, they are also quite satisfied. The rankings of the monthly midterm exam and another monthly exam are one after another. After is still in the upper reaches when it was surveyed, it is now in the middle reaches.

This month, middle school students took a total of 5 subjects, the best English score was 99, and the other subjects were basically below 90 points. made parents who could only receive 100 points very anxious.

used to be full marks, but why did not even get 90 points after entering junior high school? This may be attributed to the learning gap between primary and junior high schools. After all, it is recognized that the amount of knowledge in primary and junior high schools has a large difference.

Although there is no unified large-scale examination from primary school to junior high school, it is essentially a diversion. Even if is assigned to school and school district housing, it does screen out some children who are not suitable for entering good junior high school to continue to attend school.

Therefore, after entering junior high school, many students will feel that the amount of knowledge in suddenly increases, the difficulty is suddenly increased, and the quality of the students around them will suddenly increase. This causes many students to retreat after entering junior high school.

But at this time we parents should not be too anxious, because we need to realize that this is a normal situation and it is not necessarily a bad thing. For example, this mother has a very good idea, and he thinks this is an opportunity to let her daughter recognize her strength.

Because not only are our parents blinded by their grades in elementary school, but many people who cannot tell the status quo, children are more likely to be blinded by their grades in elementary school, and they may be complacent about their past achievements.

And every monthly exam in junior high school is a warning to students. lets them understand what level they are at and how to adjust their learning status after is easy to know. This is a good thing for students to improve their grades.

But I have to say that the above is just an ideal state. In fact, more students will give up on themselves or have some negative mentality because they don’t know why their grades are so bad. requires us parents to resolve this.

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In fact, if the first monthly exam and the first midterm exam after going to school, the students' grades are not very good, and it may be that they are not adapted. Parents do not need to intervene too much at this time. The second monthly exam in is the best time to intervene.

Parents should tell students why this is the reason for the decline in grades and tell students that it is not entirely because of the students' own problems. At the same time, encourages and encourages students slightly, and allows students to adjust their learning status in junior high school as soon as possible.

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