Children's addiction to games may make many parents worry. Recently, a third-grade boy was addicted to games and asked to "take a break from school". Many netizens applauded by their parents' "reverse education".

Children's addiction to games may make many parents worry.

Recently, in Wuhan, Hubei, a third-grade boy was addicted to games and asked to "take a break from school". Many netizens applauded by their parents' "reverse education".

Parents took the plan and agreed to the boy "take off school" after discussing with the teacher. During the "take off school", a strict "playing game plan" was formulated for him. He had to play 16 hours of games every day, eat three meals a day regularly, and he would not wait for outdated times. He had to formulate a KPI every day and review and summarize his game performance at noon and evening.

reported that the boy collapsed four times in the first three days of the game plan.

Judging from the results, "reverse education" may have achieved the goal of parents: children realize that playing games for professionals is not easy, so they choose to return to school.

But from the perspective of the educational method itself, it is hard to hide its rudeness. To be honest, this education for parents is a kind of "bullying" education. This kind of education cannot be applied to every family. Because the extreme negative stimulation of has a hidden worry, that is, children will be afraid of games and related things from then on. This fear may accompany the child throughout his life.

At the beginning of the 20th century, behaviorist psychologist Watson conducted a "Little Albert Experiment", also known as the "Plush Experiment".

The subject of the experiment was 10-month-old Albert. Watson first made Albert younger, accustomed to touching the animal with hair. Two months later, as soon as Albert younger, touching the animal with hair, there would be a loud noise next to it, and Albert younger immediately was frightened. After repeated this many times, Albert began to fear the furry items in his heart. As long as plush products appear around him, he would be so scared that he cried out. There is a saying that when Little Albert grew up, he even refused to wear sweaters, tweed coats and other clothes.

This experiment shows that direct and powerful negative stimulation is not conducive to the healthy development of children's mental health. However, in the process of education of parents, they are often accustomed to "bullying" their children, and is rough and directly cut off their children's bad living habits or tendencies.

is not established. Some time ago, a mother in Shenzhen found the bookstore owner and angrily scolded the bookstore for selling "drugs" to her children and smashing new books in the store. Some parents also found that their children fell in love early because they were worried that they would affect their studies and directly "break up the couple".

or above cases are not uncommon in news reports and film and television works. If parents love their children, they will have a profound plan for them. Every parent hopes that their children can go to the right path, which may not necessarily be the most popular among people. At least they must let their children have the ability to create stable and beautiful living conditions after entering society. Therefore, from the perspective of adults, they will "help" children to judge in advance what is the advantage and what is the disadvantage.

The problem is that parents tend to ignore their children as independent individuals and have independent intentions. Once they find that their children cannot quickly transform according to their wishes, they will take extreme measures to stop them rudely. Children who play games in reverse education and prohibit bookstores from selling "idle books" to children are all the same kind of behavior.

There is a joke that you don’t let love go to school, and you start urging your marriage after graduation. The parents' motivation behind this sentence is for their children's good. The only problem is that is full of smart calculations, and uses an almost irrefutable attitude to require children to step by step and to walk at the most ideal node.

Such a life is correct, but do children want it?

Age with the lowest cost of making mistakes, and is asked not to make mistakes; an age full of curiosity and longing has been cut off from the possibility of fresh attempts; an age who is learning about love and being loved is told that "except for grades, they are all clouds."

This does not mean that children should be left to their development, but that they need appropriate guidance and see their needs. bullying education that ignores individual autonomy is definitely not listed here.

The boy in the news, if he hates games from now on, his life may not be losing money.But if a child loses his innate creativity, curiosity about things, ability to love, and empathize with the world through constant negative education and rough interception, who is the original sin of "drugs" that harms his child's future?

Written by | Chai Gui

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