In ancient my country, if we could win the "No. 1, No. 1, and Tanhua" in the imperial examination, it would be a major event to glorify our ancestors and even get promoted and make money. But now, the college entrance examination is also regarded as a very important one in our country. Can it also determine your destiny as before?
Those friends who were admitted to college, have you felt the perfection of your life now? And do those friends who did not take the college entrance examination or failed the college entrance examination feel that their lives have been destroyed?
I myself graduated from university. As a veteran, I tell you that the only one who can determine our destiny is ourselves.
But declare it in advance, this only represents my personal opinion. If you feel uncomfortable, I hope you will understand!
College Entrance Examination is actually no longer considered education. To be more precise, this is a kind of competition, a tool and means that can allocate social resources.
The so-called education is to hope that children can gain more knowledge so that they can better understand their interests and ideals in the process of learning, and then give full play to their own advantages and strive to achieve their goals.
What's more, education should not be fixed and single. After all, each of us has completely different intelligence, emotional intelligence, and talent.
For example, I studied mechatronics for four years, but in the end I became an editor of an advertising company.
Since the college entrance examination is a competition for students, there must be a win or lose in this game, and the criteria for determining the win or lose in this game can only be fixed and single!
Even everyone knows that many of the cultural knowledge we learn in school cannot be applied in real life at all, just to face the college entrance examination. Most parents will not take their children's interests and hobbies into consideration at all. Everything except learning is not important.
I don’t know who made this rule. All students must achieve results under the established standard answers to be considered successful!
But I have to admit that with the rules, I can only abide by them. And there is indeed a very obvious situation of shortage of resources in our country. Although I personally think that the college entrance examination is not the most important, I admit that in , there is no fairer competition in the whole world than the college entrance examination.
Because the college entrance examination is the only opportunity that can provide children from lower-level families to compete fairly with the children of wealthy families for the best university placement. Whether you are a grassroots princess or a noble prince, you must pass the college entrance examination and compete before you can let students from all over the world sit equally in the same university classroom and receive the same educational resources.
If in the past, can you imagine the peasant's children studying with Prince Ge? Therefore, the college entrance examination is definitely the most fair competition in the world, and it does give ordinary people the best opportunity to rise, so it is still worth taking it seriously.
But I also said that the college entrance examination is not the most important thing, and I should be taken seriously. Isn’t this inconsistent? Then you can listen to me and continue.
I have worked for ten years. In the same company, you will find that the salary of junior college students and undergraduate students is actually the same for the same job. But you must remember one premise, that is, the recruitment threshold of this company is not high and the requirements for education are relatively low.
. Let you take it seriously, and do your best within your own abilities. Even if you can’t go to Peking University and Tsinghua University, at least you can try your best to choose a better school with your score.
As I have said before, everyone's intelligence, emotional intelligence, and talent are different. If you fail to get into college in the end, it will not hinder your life. After all, all roads lead to Rome, so don’t be able to escape from the rules set.
Most people only start to decide their life direction after they arrive in society. If they lose the opportunity to take the college entrance examination, it does not mean that you have no other choice. Finding a direction that suits you is even more important than going to college.
Of course, this premise must require that you are not an ignorant person. After all, some people miss the college entrance examination just because they are greedy for pleasure, and they will miss more after the college entrance examination.
If you work hard in the college entrance examination but fail to succeed, you at least know which aspect you are excellent. For example, Newton and Einstein are both genius scientists, but they always work hard where they are dedicated and good at. They are not successful because they are excellent in every subject.
and Li Ka-shing . A person who has not even graduated from junior high school has not delayed his becoming the richest man in Hong Kong.
Maybe these people are too far away from us, so let me talk about some examples around me.
My high school classmate was admitted to a good university. He studied civil engineering majors his parents wanted him to study, but after a year of study, he found that he did not like this lifestyle. Because he has been particularly fond of travel since junior high school and always watch information about tourist holy places around the world. So he chose to work as a tour guide. Of course, because of his initial academic qualifications, his salary was not high, but his cultural background for each city scenic spot is more professional than that of a professional. From domestic to international travel. In order to improve myself, I also learned more languages from the country. Now I have set up an international travel agency and earn millions of dollars every year!
There is also a classmate who has been studying countdown, so the college entrance examination naturally failed. However, he liked to study computers since he was a child. He made game plug-ins by himself when he was in his first year of high school. Moreover, his computer technology is self-study, which is completely a personal hobby. Now he works as an programmer for in a big company in Shanghai. And when we were 19 years old, he had already started to earn 6,000 a month. More than ten years ago, he was not a small amount. Now he is buying a house and a car in Shanghai.
There is another classmate who is not good at studying, but his emotional intelligence is particularly high and he is very good at speaking. Sales make him do things so prosperous.
So, it’s not that you fail the college entrance examination and your life will be over, but there must also be a premise. At least you must have something you are good at, or have your own interests and hobbies. Even if you just like playing games, you still have a lot of work related to playing games now. It just depends on whether you are willing to work hard for your interests and hobbies!
, including the college entrance examination, there are thousands of choices in this world, and everyone has infinite possibilities. My cousin has not graduated from junior high school, but he has been a military fan since he was a child. When he got old, he became a soldier. Now he stayed in the army to work and has also achieved his life goals.
. Some students who are particularly good at studying have been admitted to good universities, but they can’t do anything except study. Some students even feel that the college entrance examination is over and there is no need to get up early and go to study late. They start to retaliately entertain, playing games or going to bars every day! Finally, he was expelled from the school directly.
The best negative textbook like me, so what if I go to college, I chose a major that my family wants me to choose. I spent four years in college. When I was internship, I found that I didn’t like this job at all, but I felt that I didn’t want to waste my major, so I bit the bullet and worked for a while. In the end, there was no development.
Because this is not a job I like to do, I couldn't devote myself well. In the end, I mustered up the courage and chose to be an editor that has nothing to do with my major.
So, the college entrance examination is not the most important for me personally, but it is really important to find the field you are good at in the learning process and cultivate your interests and hobbies!
Our lives cannot be fixedly modeled just because of a college entrance examination. If you are not good at studying for exams and force yourself to study, you will only hate learning. The college entrance examination is never the one that determines one's destiny. For us Chinese, although the college entrance examination is fair and fair, it does deviate from the basic significance of education.
Education is not only formulated for the college entrance examination, but also fixed the thoughts of most people. When everyone generally believes that students can only have a good life when they get into a good school, they can only force their children to work harder. Even if their children are really not suitable, even if their children have their own fields of expertise, they are still banned in the inherent thinking logic, forcing them to complete a task that not everyone can complete.
Children should work hard in the field they are good at as much as possible, and should not be bound to a cage where they are not excellent if they do not get the first place in the exam. Many parents often say, "They are all the same children, and they know how to work hard, and you don't have to be bad. Why can't you study hard?"
is correct, and you are all parents, and you are also people who have never been to college. Why can other parents earn millions annually, but you only earn a few thousand yuan a month? Of course, few children dare to say such words.
Finally, I can only hope that every student can try the college entrance examination as much as possible, but the college entrance examination only provides you with the opportunity of fair competition and does not determine your destiny. No matter whether you succeed in the college entrance examination or what kind of university you go to, you must remember that you are clear about what field you are good at and what interests and hobbies are? Then decide your future development direction. No one can change the cruelty brought by education now, but the choice of destiny is in your own hands!
If you like military affairs, you will be a soldier. If you like geography, you will be a tour guide. If you like computers, you will be a programmer... Do what you are really good at, but you can't do nothing!
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