In recent years, the conflict between parents and schools has mainly focused on parents and teachers, and most of the root causes of the conflict comes from homework. Many parents believe that since their children are in school, the teacher will take care of their studies, includ

In recent years, the conflict between parents and schools has mainly focused on parents and teachers, and most of the root causes of the conflict come from homework. Many parents believe that since their children are in school, the teacher will take care of their studies, including homework issues. If the child cannot complete his homework, it is the teacher's business. Don't always look for parents.

Recently, a parent posted a question: students do not hand in their homework. Is it the teacher’s responsibility or the parents’ responsibility? She also listed several reasons.

1. Why is our class? Are so many students not handing in their homework every day?

Is it true that students can’t do homework? Or do students don’t want to do their homework? Or do students not know about homework?

2. Parents don’t know what their children’s homework is, and parents don’t know what their children have to do after they finish it!

The child is in the fifth grade, should parents let go?

From the parents' conversation, it seems that the reason is also very legitimate. At least it is not that the parents are unwilling to care, but that they cannot control it. But in actual teaching, we all know that as teachers, if the child cannot complete his homework, he will definitely contact the parents as soon as possible, believing that the parents’ supervision is not in place. So the question is, who is responsible for the child’s homework issues?

Personally believe that before children develop good habits, parents have greater responsibilities and simple reasons.

First: This homework generally refers to the evening homework. The evening homework is completed by the child at home, and parents are responsible for supervision.

Many parents believe that since parents have sent their children to school, they will leave all the learning matters to the teacher. It is the teacher's responsibility for children to have poor learning, which means that the teacher has not taught well; it is the teacher's responsibility for children to have not completed their homework, which means that the teacher's education is not in place. But is this really the reality?

For example, this evening homework is completed by the child at home. Is there no obligation for parents to urge the child to complete it? Even if the teacher is willing, it is impossible to go to the students' homes to supervise them one by one. Besides, children are not very proactive in learning. What if the child doesn’t listen to the teacher, he will not write? What can the teacher do? Teachers nowadays dare not punish children physically.

Relatively speaking, parents have greater rights. If their children dare not do their homework, they are fully qualified to use some corporal punishment to treat their children, and the children dare not resist. Therefore, this aspect will make parents educate their children better.

As for parents who say that there are too many homework or not doing homework, those are not reasons. Why do some children complete their homework very early? Don’t you know if parents will ask other children if they do homework?

Second: Let children develop good study habits and parents have unshirkable responsibilities, especially the habit of completing homework independently.

The most important thing for primary school students is to develop good study habits, which includes the habit of listening carefully and completing homework independently. Many people believe that this is the responsibility of the school teachers and has nothing to do with parents. Personally, they believe that these are precisely the responsibility of parents.

Good study habits are closely related to children's good living habits. If a child has good living habits, then his study habits will not be too bad. Good living habits come from the cultivation of parents. Parents should consciously cultivate their children’s good habits, including not littering, eating and sleeping on time, not lying, not moving other people’s things, not accepting gifts from strangers, etc. When the child goes to kindergarten, parents should also develop some simple learning habits, such as sleeping independently, not speaking in class, not making small moves, getting along with children in a friendly manner, not beating or scolding, listening to teachers, etc. As long as the child performs well in kindergarten, he will not perform too badly after going to elementary school.

It can be said that children’s study habits have a lot to do with parents. Children’s failure to do homework is a long-term indulgence of parents. If parents strictly require it, children will not be unable to complete their homework.

Of course, teachers have great responsibilities in their children's learning, but they cannot deny the responsibilities of parents. Only when the two parties work closely together can the children be better.

Nowadays, many parents don’t want to care about their children’s learning, and think that everything in learning belongs to the teacher and has nothing to do with the parents. This is definitely a ruling and unreasonable reason.

Of course, teachers have the responsibility to let children learn well, but the teacher teaches so many students, why do some children learn well but some are very poor? Is it the teacher who treats injustice? Of course not, but each parent attaches different importance to their children's education. Some parents tutor their children at home every day, and it is difficult for their children to not be excellent; while some parents may not even have seen their children's homework. How is it possible if you don’t want to give and still want your child to have excellent grades?

Unless the child is born with a particularly outstanding child, the more parents give, the better the child will be. Parents' education is definitely very related.

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Currently, education is for parents, because the education provided by the school has reached its peak, and now schools are equipped with carefully selected teachers. Children cannot become talents, and they really cannot blame others. Similarly, parents should not shirk the responsibility when it comes to their children's homework. The teacher will definitely take care of it, but not every child will listen. So in the end, it depends on the parents. After all, the children belong to the parents, which determines the parents' future happiness index.

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