When you are a child, you should do the "five no complaints" and "seven no blames" when you are a parent. Please try to keep a calm mind, and life may be more sunny!
"Five No Complaints" of Love Your Parents
1. Don't complain about your parents' incompetence
Don't complain about "What kind of father should be, what kind of mother should be", you should say sincerely: "I accept, you are like this; I accept, I chose you; I enjoy everything you gave me."
2. Don't complain about your parents' incompetence
Only those who truly love you will talk about you, and parents will never talk about someone who has nothing to do with them.
3. Don’t complain about parents complain about
. Parents complain about us, but they just don’t satisfy us now. When we do well enough, they yearn for us to be better!
4. Don’t complain about your parents being slow
You are old and you are naturally inconvenient to move. Never dislike your parents being slow, because we can never imagine how they patiently taught us to walk when we were young.
5. Don’t complain about your parents being sick
How much can we do when your parents are sick? Is it really that I have no filial son in front of the bed for a long time? There are often news in society that children do not support the elderly. Can we be someone who takes care of our parents with all our heart and responsibilities...
Life is not for complaining. We grow up, and our parents grow old until we leave us... Without our parents, we will not be able to do so. It is better to understand your parents than to complain about them. If even parents can’t tolerate it, how can they tolerate the world? Filial piety is the first priority for all virtues. From now on, don’t complain about your parents anymore.
"Seven No Responsibility" for children
1. Don't Responsibility to the public
In public, don't blame the children, give the children dignity in front of everyone.
2. Sad regret or blame
If the child has already felt ashamed and regretted his mistakes, adults should not blame the child.
3. Don’t blame
. Don’t blame the child before going to bed at night. At this time, he blamed him, and the child went to bed with a depressed and lost mood, either unable to sleep at night or had nightmares.
4. Don’t blame the child when you are eating. At this time, blaming the child can easily lead to weak spleen and stomach.
5. Don’t blame
. Don’t blame the child when he is particularly happy. When a person is happy, the meridians are in a state of unblocking. If the child is suddenly blamed, the meridians will be held back immediately, which will cause great harm to the child's body.
6. Don’t blame the child when he cries.
7. Don’t blame the disease
Don’t blame the child when he is sick. Sickness is when the human body is most vulnerable, and children need more care and warmth from their parents, which is more effective than any drug.
I hope all parents and children can see this article! Keep a calm mind and life will be more sunny!
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