There is a saying in China: If you don’t listen to the old man, you will suffer a loss before you. This sentence is often used by elders to advise young people to listen to the opinions of the elderly, otherwise it is easy to suffer losses. Of course, the times are constantly imp

There is a Chinese saying: If you don’t listen to the old man, you will suffer a loss before you.

This sentence is often used by elders to advise young people to listen to the opinions of the elderly, otherwise it is easy to suffer losses. Of course, the times are constantly improving, and the experience of the elderly is not a scientific law or theorem, and may not be really effective, but things involving human nature will often come true, and disobedient young people are quickly slapped in the face by reality.

A girl from Shandong did not listen to her parents' advice and insisted on applying for a university in Guangxi. She regretted it as soon as she registered and wanted to drop out and repeat the study

Xiaoting is a fresh graduate of Shandong this year, with a college entrance examination score of 554 points. Although it is difficult to apply for the " double first-class " university, there is still a lot of room for choosing to apply for the " double non-". There is no problem in applying to the province's Qilu University of Technology , Liaocheng University , Qufu Normal University , Binzhou Medical College , Shandong University of Finance and Economics and other universities.

After the college entrance examination results came out, when her parents discussed filling out the application form, they suggested that she apply for a university in Shandong Province so that she could take care of her parents, but Xiaoting didn't think so and insisted on applying for a university in the south and see the different scenery in the south. Her parents couldn't resist her, so they had to decide at their own discretion and were eventually admitted to Guangxi Normal University .

Summer vacation passed in a blink of an eye, and it was soon the day to register for school. Thinking of her daughter's first trip, the family decided to accompany Xiaoting to the school to go through the registration procedures, and came to Guilin, the city where Guangxi Normal University is located several days in advance. On the one hand, in order to familiarize yourself with the local environment in advance, and on the other hand, it also used it as a tourism reward for Xiaoting's college entrance examination performance.

In the few days before the start of school, the mother and daughter visited many places in Guilin. The saying " Guilin landscape A-day" is correct. Xiaoting was quite satisfied with the city of Guilin until the day when school started.

Considering the reasons for the epidemic risk, Guangxi Normal University has made special arrangements for the start of new students this year. Parents can only send their children to the school gate and cannot enter the school. After entering the school, students must also enter a quasi-home quarantine state and cannot leave the school gate again.

Seeing that the school gate was surrounded by classmates and parents who were bidding farewell, Xiaoting suddenly felt inexplicably sad. When she thought that the school was thousands of miles apart from home, the next time she saw her parents, it might be the winter vacation and Spring Festival several months later, she took advantage of the fact that she had not entered the school gate and told her mother: I want to go back to repeat the school, I want to go home, I don’t want to be here anymore.

Although the mother was reluctant to leave her daughter and was uneasy to live alone outside, she still forced herself to resist her daughter's request to go back to repeat the school.

Seeing that her mother refused, Xiaoting had to go through the admission procedures alone, but Xiaoting never gave up the idea of ​​"dismissing school and repeating the study", especially on the Mid-Autumn Festival day, she left her parents for the first time to celebrate reunion festival . She felt particularly lonely and sad. When she called back, she couldn't help but cry.

As parents, they are not in much better mood. They always feel empty these days and have the idea of ​​compromise. However, considering that their daughter is already an adult, she should pay for her willfulness, so she still pretends not to care.

The most interesting thing is the father's reaction. These days I have never stopped talking about my daughter's "how is it in school" and "whether she eats well", and I also want to come to Guilin to accompany her to study so that her daughter can study with confidence.

As the saying goes: One place of water and soil nourishes another place of people. Our country is vast and has a wide range of resources, and its geographical, climate and cultural customs are ever-changing. It is normal for a newcomer to feel uncomfortable when you first come to a strange environment. In addition, with the improvement of economic standards, children nowadays have never suffered since childhood. They have been growing up under the meticulous care of their parents, lacking the experience and skills of independent living. Suddenly, they have to leave their parents and go to a place thousands of miles away to study and live.

But only after experience can people truly grow up. Since they are already adults and have made choices, they should actively integrate into a new environment and complete a new transformation in their lives with an independent attitude. When they adapt, not only will they learn knowledge, but their thoughts and personalities will also become more mature and independent. They will not be afraid of graduating from society in the future.

For parents, the growth of their children is a farewell gradually. Let go when it’s time to let go. Raise the child to such a big age. It’s time to let go and let the child spread his wings and fly. Only in this way can the child flap his strong wings and create his own world. What parents need to do at this time is to keep a warm home for their children and come back to see it from time to time.

Of course, this incident also reminds us that in addition to considering the school and major when filling out the application form, we must also take into account geographical and location factors into consideration to see if you can adapt to the local environment and whether you can adapt to the life away from your parents. Don’t make a quick decision and make hasty decisions, wasting years of hard work.