has a news today. said that the parents of a class group in Liuzhou, Guangxi should thank the teacher before the Teacher's Day. After discussing the decision by the family committee, everyone raised 40 yuan per person. But a parent clearly stated: NO. So " Family Committee " used "to unite", "Everyone agrees" ... For the reason, the parents who said: "No" retreated.
我看到这个新闻时,我的第一个疑问就是:这个“家委会”干得这么起劲儿,会不会是“剃头挑子一头热”? root is the teacher's "hint" or "explicit" request to give gifts? Still really: "If you don't dislike it, you must accept the intention of our parents and children ~"? As a result, the teacher was "embarrassed" and said that "not human inside and outside"?
The spontaneous "gift" of children is even more moving
. After graduating from college, I worked in private middle schools for two years.
He comes from the northeast to Guizhou to teach, and can only take a plane home during the New Year each year. The children in the class were distressed by the teacher, and they spontaneously paid more than 1,000 yuan, and gave it to the teacher at the New Year's Day Gala.
did not know that the "New Year's Day Gift" was actually the child's "crowdfunding ticket money". When he opened the "gift" and the children wrote to him, the children wrote to him. He burst into tears in an instant - he thought about it and still collected the money, but at the beginning of the second semester, he secretly filled the money into each student's rice card.
He told the children: The teacher received your heart, but the teacher hopes that you can be good and learn well. Therefore Many children are crying.
Children "Wish" is more important to be more important than parent "collectives". Maybe the child just wants to give this teacher a gift. In fact, this is understandable.
If my child really likes the teacher, he is willing to give the teacher gift. I guess I will not only pay the 40 yuan "part", I will also "inspire" my two babies -help them find ways to do right. The teacher has a separate, fancy "confession".
If my child does not like the teacher, I will ask him in detail and understand the specific situation. As long as it does not hurt my baby's physical and mental health, I will ask my child: "There are other classmates in the class who want Gifts, do you want to give it to the teacher? "When my child did not oppose strong opposition, I might also go to the 40 yuan — reaching out not to laugh, I will feel that when I communicate with the teacher, I feel" upright. ", Is no different from the parents around!
Of course, if the child is strongly opposed, let alone give gifts, maybe I will directly visit the teacher -the child's physical and mental health is the most important. In addition The important thing is the communication between parents and teachers.
This is the "laughed" teacher's treatment, or is the "brainless" family committee showing off the power of Sesame?
Three points with the teacher to get along with the teacher
parents give gifts to the teacher (not sending a car and sending a house). Promotion exam, It is the children's excellent politeness, and it is not the 760 yuan.
hahaha. Therefore, it is better to follow these three principles to get along with the teacher:
is not the border. Whether you are a parent or a member of the family committee, you are assisting and cooperating with the teacher's work, not the teacher himself. But do n’t get more than a good replacement, or even replace the teacher “issuing orders”. Perhaps it is to help children or teachers at a certain time, but once you develop this habit, you really do n’t see it — after all, no adults like to obey obey Another person.Two is not to bring the "hidden rules" in society into school. is a gift of gifts, and when I know grade leaders, and principals, I have specially asked the teacher to take care of my children and the like.
Third is to pay attention to the information released by the teacher at any time and respond in time.
This is not a notice with leaders in the unit in the unit. It is a reason for you to respond to progress in a timely manner. If you do n’t respond to the teacher, you will make the teacher have the feeling of whether you do n’t care about the child or the teacher, which is very detrimental to the child's life in school.
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