I helped my roommate bring meals, and when I asked for money, I was ridiculed for being "dead poor". Shouldn't I ask for money?

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In many people’s impressions, college life is often colorful, and students are also full of expectations for college.

However, the university is a small society, students enjoy the good life of the university at the same time, will also be hit by some from the "small society", so different people have different evaluations of the university.

In the university, we will also meet all kinds of people, everyone comes from the world , personalities and living habits are also very different. During this period, students may also encounter certain problems.

I helped my roommate bring meals, but when I asked for money, I was ridiculed for being "dead to death". Most students also choose to live in school , only a few students are close to home or go out to rent a house.

However, the dormitory will inevitably come into contact with roommates. Some people say that the university dormitory is like a open blind box . No one tells you who lives in it and what your personality will be. You can only get along through later break-in.

Recently, a freshman from posted a post on the Internet for help. usually has a regular schedule of life, and eats regularly every day, but the roommates in the dormitory often forget to eat because of playing games. .

According to this university student’s own description,When I take a break at noon every day, goes to the cafeteria to eat alone, and the other 3 roommates will go back to the dorm to rest. But these three roommates often ask themselves to help bring meals.

Everyone gave money for the two previous meals, but the three roommates who brought meals at noon in the last two days never said again. I spent more than 100 yuan for to bring them food in a few days , and my quality of life began to decline.

After bringing a meal the most recently, I finally couldn't help asking my roommate for the meal. But the attitude of one of the roommates was chilling. She said "You still need dozens of dollars. Are you dead?"

I was ridiculed by helping my roommate bring meals. Could it be that I did something wrong?

This classmate also said that he was innocent. was kind enough to help you bring meals, but didn't even get a thank you, and was ridiculed by others. Although the roommates have returned the money to themselves, they have also been far away from themselves.

After this college student encountered this incident, he posted the incident on the Internet, hoping to seek help from netizens and let everyone think of a solution for themselves. What should do now?

Actually, from my personal point of view, I think there is nothing wrong with this college student . Helping people to bring meals was out of kindness, but the behavior of the three roommates was very inappropriate.

People bring you food out of sentiment. Since you have already spoken, as a roommate, you cannot refuse this request. But you see it as someone’s responsibility to help with food.Know that is your roommate, not your mother.

In the last few days, not only helped bring the meal without thank you, but even ridiculed the roommate who came to beg for the meal. I want to ask if this is a problem that a college student should have? The purpose of students receiving higher education is not to prevent you from giving money.

This college student who asked for help may think that he is a freshman, and he has no experience and didn’t think of a solution for a while, but what I want to tell this student is: refuses decisively, so don’t let such friends. .

What should I do if my roommate relationship breaks down in college?

As mentioned earlier, the university dormitory is like an open blind box, You never know what kind of roommate will be assigned. If you can get a group of like-minded netizens, everyone will be happy, and the four years of university will be very pleasant.

But if it is a group of different personalities, has 4 people to create 3 groups , then at this time the dormitory becomes a big game, and the relationship between the dormitories also becomes precarious.

If students encounter this situation, they can contact the instructor or the dormitory teacher to apply for the replacement of dormitory . As long as the reason is sufficient, the problem of changing dormitory can basically be solved.

If you don’t want to be troublesome, students should also remember that living in university is for you to go to . As long as you can improve your abilities during this period of time, you will naturally encounter more changes in the future. Excellent people.

There is a saying that those alone in universities are often excellent people . So students don’t be afraid of being alone, as long as you do your own thing, what other people think is other people’s business.

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Then again, the dormitory relationship during college can indeed strongly influence the quality of life in the four years of the university , you still have to maintain the dormitory relationship, even if you nod your head. Handover should also be well maintained.

Secondly, in the dormitory relationship, please also remember: Only when you exchange your sincerity can you gain sincerity . For the vast majority of students, everyone is reasonable, and there are very few things that happen to the student above.

In the process of getting along in the dormitory, as long as everyone can respect each other and understand , it is relatively easy to create a good dormitory environment. Finally, I also hope that everyone can grasp the four years of university and strive to improve their personal abilities while building a good dormitory relationship.

Today's topic:

What do you think of the matter of "helping roommates bring meals, but begging for food but you are so poor"? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.

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