#New high school first#
Background: The first year of high school is the stage of laying the foundation. The teaching content of the three years of high school basically ends in the second year of high school. Some subjects are mainly elective parts when entering the second semester of high school second year. This part has a low proportion in the college entrance examination. For example, mathematics, nearly 70% of the learning content is completed in the first year of high school. Therefore, I would like to talk to parents about this issue. The central meaning is: The first year of high school is very important, and it is very important to help children get started and get started as soon as they enter high school.
For first-year high school students, environment is brand new: new classmates, new teachers, new collectives, new life, new textbooks, new college entrance examination mode, etc. Students have an adaptation process from strange to familiar. How to adjust the learning status and learning strategies as soon as possible and seize the commanding heights of high school learning has become the key. So, what should parents do to help their children get started and get started?
Understand the difference between junior high school and high school learning. First of all, it is more difficult to learn high school knowledge. Junior high school knowledge reflects the basic nature, and high schools undertake the task of selecting talents for colleges and universities. Therefore, the knowledge content spans from junior high school to high school.
Secondly, the requirements for college entrance examination assessment capabilities have been improved. Junior high school pays more attention to the accumulation of knowledge, while high school pays more attention to the development of ability. Therefore, in high school where there are many subjects and heavy tasks, if you want to study well, you must truly know how to learn and truly learn to learn independently. As the number of self-study studies in high schools increases, we must make good use of them to improve efficiency.
: The knowledge learned is "clear, clear every day, clear every week, clear every month". If you cannot achieve self-discipline, autonomy, and self-control, and if you cannot seize the time and improve efficiency, the differentiation of grades among students is inevitable.
Again, the high school learning methods have changed significantly. Most junior high schools learn from teachers, and they are much more mechanically imitated: while high schools emphasize independent learning, pay attention to the flexible application and understanding of knowledge, and especially emphasize learning from one example and learning from other aspects.
Finally, the way of applying for high school classes is also very different. When teaching, junior high school teachers give more examples and training exercises to a knowledge point, but the learning content in high school increases, and teachers cannot talk about it all, so they can only talk about it carefully. Students must have a certain ability to learn independently and cultivate the good habit of positive thinking and completing homework independently.
Correctly hold the average test scores. There are many high school exams, and parents should correctly view their children's test scores. Each exam is an opportunity to check their learning status and exercise their abilities. They should pay more attention and pay attention to them, and guide and correct problems in a timely manner.
You cannot just look at the scores. should calmly analyze the reasons for the poor exam with your child, whether you have not worked hard in your studies, whether the exam questions are too difficult, or the basic knowledge is not in place, the exam skills must be improved, etc. Be less complaining, communicate more with your children, talk about your thoughts and experiences, and listen to your children’s thoughts and opinions. At the same time, see if your expectations for your child are too high and whether your child’s learning goals are set in line with your own reality.
Cultivate children's healthy mentality. Many students fail to take the college entrance examination. It is not all because of knowledge problems, nor is it all because of simple abilities problems. It is partly due to unstable psychological state. Parents play a key role in solving students' psychological problems. Pay attention to children's mental health and make more positive hints so that children can treat their study and life with a normal mind.
You should pay attention to its thoughts first and then pay attention to its substance. Students are also taking parents to take exams. Parents and friends should start from themselves, from now on, and start from every detail to guide and educate their children.
is neither very happy nor sad about the children's temporary progress or regression. You must face it calmly and be calm. At least in front of students, you cannot show anxiety or disappointment, otherwise it will only aggravate the pressure on children, leading to their loss of confidence and depressedness.
Learn to "transcend the curve". The better the student is, the better it will make good use of the holiday time. This is what we usually call "transcendence on the curve". During rest weeks and holidays, students can achieve "transcendence on the curve" if the management and learning at home are handled properly.
Otherwise, the living and learning habits that children have finally developed at school may be in a situation where they "destroy everything" and "return to before liberation overnight". Parents must pay attention to using rest weeks and holidays to communicate patiently with their children at home, so that they can complete their homework seriously and independently while resting and adjusting appropriately, and make phased summary and review.
During this period, parents' encouragement and supervision are very important. "The sword is sharpened by the sharpening, and plum blossoms fragrance comes from the bitter cold." "Only by fighting can you win." We must educate our children to be prepared for hard work and have a spirit of hard work. At the same time, it is necessary to provide children with a good learning environment. It is best not to organize singing, playing cards, and having a big banquet at home when their children go home to rest and study.
Learn to listen. The competition in learning is fierce and cruel. During the learning process, children will encounter difficulties and setbacks of one kind or another. In the face of regression in grades or repeated stagnation, children need to talk. The process of confiding is the process of children releasing pressure and also the process of children seeking help. Students, teachers, and parents are the main objects of their children's confidant.
When children learn to regress, when they have conflicts with their classmates, and when they have estranged from teachers, we cannot point out criticism and lessons, and we cannot tell children from an adult perspective to this and not that.
Be calm down and listen carefully. Let the child say it, let the child say it first, and the child says it, and it may be fine. -Criticism, accusation, and lessons with taste will form an opposition to children. If it is more serious, it may even cause the child to lose his or her jar. Companionship is the best education. When children go to high school, most of them live on campus. Parents can see them very little time, and it is even more difficult to meet them once when they go to college in other places.
Therefore, as long as the child is at home, we should try our best to turn off all unnecessary social engagements outside, accompany the child at home, communicate openly and honestly with the child, ask him about his situation at school, learn how to learn and live, help his child learn to summarize, learn to reflect, and help him find problems and formulate measures.
Also, high school students are in adolescence, easily impulsive, reversal, and confused. We need to take time to spend more time with us. Companionship means both companionship and companionship. We should work with our children to solve the small difficulties encountered in learning, discuss solutions to new problems that arise in life, and understand new phenomena that occur in society. We also have to accompany our children to live and study, accompany our children to grow and improve: accompany our children to face various confusions and worries, and accompany the entire process of their children's growth.
mostly communicate with the class teacher and subject teachers. Former Soviet educator Sukhomlinsky said: "Two educators, one school and a family, should not only act, but also make the same demands to their children, but also be like-minded and believe in their beliefs. Always start from the same principle. There should be no differences in the purpose, process, or means of education."
Modern information technology provides great convenience for parents and teachers to communicate with teachers. Parents can not only go to school to understand their children's dynamics, but also use WeChat, QQ and other methods to communicate students' situation with class teachers and teachers.
Students have worked hard for a while and teachers have worked hard for a lifetime. I hope parents can understand and trust teachers. If any problems arise, they should first respect the teacher’s education of students. Don’t complain. They should think in the same direction with the teacher and move in the same direction, forming an educational synergy to help children grow and improve together. Create a good family atmosphere.
This is a common feature of many outstanding students and their families for many years. They operate their families into physical and mental stations, psychological counseling rooms, and harbors of family affection. Pay attention to communication with children and pay attention to communication and guidance. Parents should cooperate with teachers to provide timely guidance on children’s worries.
Parents should encourage and praise every advantage and every progress of their children to enhance their self-confidence. If parents are not in harmony, or have a bad relationship, or have disagreement on their children's requirements, the child's heart will become floating and irritable, which will seriously affect the child's academic performance.
Don't equip your children with mobile phones. Students use mobile phones on campus, which definitely does more harm than good. Most parents can understand the school's regulations and do not equip their children with mobile phones, but a few parents also have mobile phones for their children (it may also be that the students buy them privately with their parents behind their backs).
The advantage of using mobile phones is to facilitate parents to contact their children, but students are children after all, and lack self-control. Many students use their mobile phones to surf the Internet, chat, play games, and pass on their exams. Some students also play during class hours, and hide in the bed after the lights are turned off at night, which seriously affects the rest and the quality of class the next day. As parents, it is necessary to recognize the serious harm of students using mobile phones on campus.
Follow students' diet. The body is the capital of learning, but some students are afraid of queuing up to make meals at school, so they often eat biscuits, spicy strips and instant noodles. In the long run, this can easily lead to stomach problems and , enteritis and other diseases. Sometimes they will delay classes for several days, which affects learning. In addition to strengthening education and guidance by school teachers, parents should also pay attention to observing students' dietary conditions, detect the situation early, and treat diseases early.
When you find that your child is weak, you should strengthen your nutrition in time. Love children, this is the core. But to be able to love truly, one must pay attention to methods and skills. We must care about our children in an all-round way, and we cannot just ask our children to have good grades. Everything else is easy to say. It’s not even possible to give whatever the child wants or not, on a whim.
(written by: Pei Gao)
