: When it comes to falling in love, I believe everyone is familiar with it.
In primary and secondary school stage, if teachers or parents find out that they are in love, they will generally stop them because children of this age are not yet mature in their thinking and have heavy studies, so they should focus on learning. However, if the child is allowed to fall in love early, it will have a great impact on his studies and may even miss his future.
After arriving in college, love will no longer be bound by teachers and parents. As long as you appreciate each other, you can choose to be together.
But, at the same time, a new chaos began to appear in colleges. That is "love at will".
likes it casually, breaking up easily, and even having intimate relationships is casual. This view of love has caused quite a lot of harm to some young college students today, and may also affect their future development.
So how to fall in love correctly and establish a correct view of love is particularly important.
Notice of the Ministry of Education: Encourage colleges and universities to strengthen psychological education in love and guide the establishment of a correct view of love
Regarding the issue of college students' love, the Ministry of Education has also issued relevant notices, which clarified the direction.
According to the official website of the Ministry of Education, the Ministry of Education encourages colleges and universities to strengthen psychological education in love based on actual conditions and students' characteristics. In this way, students can be guided to establish a correct view of love and love.
From this sentence, we can learn that the Ministry of Education hopes that universities can offer relevant courses to guide college students to avoid losing themselves in love or being hurt by it.
It is worth mentioning that some universities have indeed started love-related courses, such as love psychology , etc.
These courses have indeed caused quite a stir, and some people even question whether these courses are necessary. However, it has a good effect after opening.
Judging from past experience, some college students are indeed easily controlled during the process of falling in love, easily lose themselves, and make their situation very passive.
There are also college students who are relatively simple, don’t know what is good and what is bad, don’t know how to pursue, and don’t know how to give up, so they will be hurt inadvertently.
Therefore, for those who are about to enter society, they do need such a course to improve their abilities in love, so as to understand themselves better, cherish others more, and establish a correct view of love.
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If you have followed the examples around you or the actual cases that have occurred in recent years, you will find that many college students are easily controlled during the relationship, which is what we often call "PUA" (mind control).
is the typical case of "Peking University Bao Li", from a talented woman from Peking University to an end of suicide in a hotel; from her lively and cheerful before to her depressed end; the reason for all this is because she suffered from her boyfriend's PUA.
If it weren't for the exposure of the relevant chat records, we really don't understand that a talented girl from Peking University would have done such a thing. But as the saying goes: those in the authorities are confused, while those onlookers are clear. If we were her, if we suffered a PUA from our partner often, maybe we would have the same ending as her.
So, from the perspective of the past, the college student group actually needs love psychology education, so that they can accept systematic learning, thereby improving their self-cognition, allowing themselves to find their position in a romantic relationship, understand when to pursue and when to give up, and establish a correct view of love and love, rather than being too extreme or blind.
On the other hand, some college students are more restrained and do not know how to start a relationship. Even if they meet someone they like, they don’t know how to express it.
So this part of the course can not only prevent everyone from being hurt, but also teach you some methods and experiences to make people of appropriate age love bravely. As long as they are not blind or extreme, they are together based on the reasons for mutual appreciation, then all this is worth encouraging.
Finally, how do you view the practice of the Ministry of Education encouraging colleges and universities to strengthen psychological education in love?
