University is like a melting pot, bringing together students from all over the world, various activities, and students of different personalities can be said to be all-encompassing, which is eye-opening and has a lot of feelings.
Most students need to learn to live in the group. Everyone has their own personality, good and bad habits, big or small temper, and may also meet strange roommates. Four years of collective life, say it is not long or short, and students should adapt as soon as possible.
In the past, college roommates were randomly assigned, beds were first come first served, and check-in was like opening a blind box. Lucky students met like-minded people, but unfortunately they all had their own characteristics and could not get along with anyone.
conflicts in college dormitories occur from time to time. Although needs to focus on learning, roommates do not get along well will affect their emotions and more or less will affect their learning. For this reason, many colleges and universities have come up with new solutions, let’s take a look.
Lanzhou University turns on the "text search" mode. All freshmen have to write resumes. The most common one is that they do not call
Lanzhou University has moved in, and they meet a relatively matching roommate . This is thanks to the school's "new operation". As soon as the school started, freshmen were required to write resumes, and adopts the "text search" method.
school poster, using mind map to make a simple self-introduction. Law School has published a 70-question questionnaire to help students find "soul roommates". The School of Civil Engineering and Mechanics has an exclusive website. Freshmen choose tags for themselves and form teams on their own.
There are also schools that ask freshmen to write self-introductions and then find their ideal roommates. Among these introductions, the most written is "no call". It seems that this problem troubles many students. I don't know what kind of scene it will be like when those call students gather in a dormitory. It's interesting to think about . In the introduction to
, there are a few more points to talk about, such as regular routines, such as going to bed early and getting up early, some go to bed late and get up late, and some are casual. The personality is basically "social cow", "social terror", "social terror first", "social terror later", and "extreme social terror" and "social rhino".
College students of the same type live together, have common topics, and get along more friendly. colleges have also conducted follow-up surveys. College students' satisfaction with dormitory relationships has increased year by year. By the 2020 class, the satisfaction rate is as high as more than 98%.
is not only Lanzhou University, but also these universities have also changed their roommate assignment methods. College students are very satisfied with . The colleges and universities are considerate, so college students are so happy.
Many universities have turned on the "humanized roommate selection" mode, and even "couple dormitory"
Chengdu University adopts "big data" and conducts basic surveys based on students' different eating habits, personality characteristics, and special habits. Most students fill in questionnaires on the school's official website, and the system will automatically recommend several suitable roommates to college students. This year the server has been upgraded, and the degree of matching is higher.
Shanghai Jiaotong University provides freshmen with "selected roommates" services for freshmen , which largely avoids conflicts among classmates due to life problems, work and rest issues, and personal hygiene issues, and creates a harmonious dormitory relationship. Students with common interests and hobbies and like to study, live together, have a more motivated learning, and college students adapt to the new environment faster.
The more heartwarming thing is Nankai University . If a college student has obtained a certificate and has prepared the relevant procedures, he can move into the school's couple's dormitory . Although it has some controversy, it is also very enviable.
Some universities may not have the conditions to choose a roommate on their own. However, in order to improve college students' satisfaction with the dormitory, they have made improvements. Chengdu Neusoft College can choose a bed for themselves, and at the same time, they can make notes and introduce their basic situation. College students voluntarily choose whether to move in.
More and more universities provide humanized services to college students, and has also become a highlight of university publicity. Indeed, some students attach great importance to the school's dormitory environment.
After going to college, you have to focus most of your energy on your studies. However, living in the dormitory is uncomfortable, and you often have unhappy things with your roommates, and you are also upset. Therefore, these services launched by universities are worthy of praise.
College students and their roommates live in harmony and spend a wonderful college time together
to go to college. What should we do to get along with our roommates peacefully? In fact, this can be regarded as a "learning in interpersonal communication". college students should remember to maintain "sincerity", "friendliness" and "tolerance".
respects each other's privacy and habits. Even if you can't stand , you don't make any comments without affecting you, and don't comment privately. Everyone has their own bottom line, don't touch it.
treats people sincerely, does not be contributing without reservation, treats people kindly, does not be humble or arrogant, does not offend others, I do not offend others, tolerate others, seek common ground while reserving differences, does not take the initiative to make enemies, does not form gangs on the surface, and can get along with anyone, and at the same time, the word "safety" must be engraved in the heart. You must not have the intention to harm others, and you must be careful of others.
College life has begun. Freshmen should adapt as soon as possible, learn with their roommates, work towards their goals together, and not be greedy for comfort, and be brave while they are young.
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