One joy: The college entrance examination is over and the results are out. One worry: The time has come to start filling out the application form. I see that many families with college entrance examination students around me have different ideas from their children at this moment, which triggers all kinds of grievances and grievances on both sides before the exam. The release of various emotions such as tolerance and giving.
Before the exam, both parties still have common goals to achieve, and they are afraid of affecting their review, so they can tolerate it, put aside disputes on many issues, and control their emotions; after the exam, the results are out, and the city, school, major, etc. are selected. Because the two parties consider things from different angles, few can reach an agreement, and there are many quarrels or even falling out.
Control and anti-control have become the dividing line between two generations at this time. Parents hope that their sons will become dragons and their daughters will become phoenixes. The deeper their love, the deeper their responsibility. In the name of love; children have been controlled, and they have endured until now that they can finally break free from the "birdcage" and want to make their own decisions and fly freely, thinking about how to realize their dreams.
But after all, they are two generations, the two generations who have just matured and the two generations who think they are mature. When it comes to filling in volunteers, I think: everyone needs to control their emotions well, speak well, understand each other, and don’t take the issue too far. , let alone harm each other or break up.
I recall that when my children asked for our opinions on this issue, my suggestion was that the school should be located in a coastal city or a provincial capital city, and the choice of school and major should be left to the children. There was no dispute and everyone was happy.
As a parent, I believe that our children are not our private property. They also have their own path to take in life. When it’s time to let go, let them go completely. Don’t kidnap your children in the name of love. Don’t let them be loved forever. Let them Being independent and allowing them to grow quickly is what we are really gratified about.
As children, we must also fully understand the painstaking efforts of our parents, be grateful, have good intentions, and put ourselves in their shoes, because sooner or later we will have to become parents and play the same role.
Conclusion: Never try to change anyone, including your loved ones. The more you do good to others, the more likely they will hate you. Many things are innate, and paranoia is deep in the bones. Everyone who comes into this world will have their own path to walk and disasters to experience. If they do not encounter major setbacks and disasters in life, most people will not truly understand it.
This may be the true meaning of being a human being!
