Happy family, parents rely on love to lead the house, and children also obey the adults out of love for their parents.
In life, every aspect of food, clothing, housing and transportation needs money, so "money" is very important to every family. Therefore, family members work hard to make money. People work hard to make money and get up early every day to work in the dark in order to obtain funds that they can feel at ease, so that they can have a clear conscience when they spend money.
When you go out to work, you must earn money by your own ability. Remember not to be greedy and earn money that does not belong to you. Even if you successfully earn money with ignorance, there will be no good results in the end. For a family, money is very important. In addition to money, these five things are equally important, and none of them are indispensable, otherwise the consequences will be terrible.
01 Lack of fighting spirit
In life, everyone will have different dreams, and working hard for their own dreams is the fighting spirit. If one loses the will to fight, then it is no different from salted fish. No matter what stage of your life you are now, if you don't abandon or give up, then you will succeed in the end.
But when a person has no fighting spirit, he has lost hope in life and has no motivation to improve. Many people with prominent backgrounds rely on the power of the family and do not work hard to make progress. In the end, they lose all their possessions and have to end up with one. A miserable end. Zhu Di of the Ming Dynasty once said: "You must be born with ambitions, and only then can you achieve something. All people in the world who have achieved a career will not succeed without fighting spirit."
02 lack of good deeds
do more good deeds, You can accumulate some blessings for your children and grandchildren, and the whole family will be happy and happy. Parents' behavior will affect the next generation of children. When parents continue to do good deeds, then the next generations of children will understand the importance of doing good and accumulating virtue. A family with a good family style is bound to be happy and harmonious.
03 Lack of filial piety
Filial piety is the most basic moral cultivation of every Chinese. In a family, if the children and grandchildren are not filial, then the parents will have great grievances against their children and affect the harmony of the family. The family lacks harmony, and in the end it will only end up in a situation where the family is broken up, even if the family is big, it will definitely be consumed.
04 Lack of diligence and thrift
Li Shangyin once said: “Looking at the kingdoms and homes of the sages in the past, they all went from diligence and thrift to luxury.” It is precisely because of this that the decline and fall of many dynasties is due to the late development of the country. If a family wants to develop well, it also needs to promote diligence and thrift, so that it can continuously accumulate wealth and reach the pinnacle of life.
05 Lack of kindness
For a family, the most important thing is to be kind and happy, because home is a warm harbor for everyone who goes out to work. If even the family is no longer warm, then what is the meaning of everyone's existence? As a family, if there is no harmony, then the development of family members will also be affected.
For example, pregnant women in the family will have fetal gas because of the unkindness at home, which will affect the growth of their children. So for the elderly, family disharmony will increase the burden on the heart of the elderly and easily cause cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases in the elderly. For a family, the disharmony of adults will also affect the development of children to a certain extent, so family harmony is very important.
Summary: Only when a
family is harmonious, will the children of this family continue to become talented and prosperous. If a family lacks harmony and filial piety, it will definitely cause terrible consequences. It is not terrible for a family to lack money. Money can be earned through hard work, but the lack of a good family tradition will lead to the fall of a family.
