When I was frustrated in life, I went to visit a friend who was quite successful in his career, and during the chat, he talked about fate. I asked: Does this world have a destiny? He said: Of course. I ask again: What is fate? Since it is destined, what is the use of struggling?
He didn’t answer my question directly, but he smiled and grabbed my left hand and said he might as well look at my palm and tell my fortune. After telling me about lifeline , love line, career line and so on, suddenly, he said to me: Stretch out your hand and make an action like me. His action is: raise his left hand, slowly and more and more tightly clenched his fist. He asked: Did you hold it tightly? I was a little confused and replied: Hold on tight. He asked again: Where is the fate line of and ? I answered mechanically: It's in my hand. He asked again: Excuse me, where is fate? It was like a blow to my head! Suddenly it dawned on me: It turns out that your destiny is in your own hands!
He continued calmly: No matter what others tell you, no matter how the "fortune tellers" tell you, remember, your destiny is in your own hands, not in other people's mouths! This is fate. Of course, if you look at your own fist, you will find that part of your lifeline is still outside and has not been grasped. What enlightenment can it give us? Most of your destiny is in your own hands, but part of it is in the hands of "God". Throughout the ages, for those who have achieved great success, the meaning of "struggle" is to work hard throughout their lives! Go for it.! Only then will there be gains! Regardless of success or failure! The trajectory of your life is in your own hands!
The so-called destiny of a person from birth is nothing more than a fortune teller making an accurate life prediction for you based on your birth date, palmistry, face, etc.! This is the understanding and origin of destiny from ancient times to the present. Whether a person's fate is destined is a difficult question to answer. Some people believe that fate is destined! Some people firmly believe that my destiny is up to me! No matter what your beliefs are, you should keep your destiny firmly in your own hands. Even if there are too many ups and downs and helplessness, you can't lose control of your life! If your destiny is always in the hands of others, then you will have no freedom at all!
The most powerful famous ministers and generals in history, Guan Zhong Le Yi, Fan Li Sun Wu, Xiao He Han Xin, Wei Zheng Guo Ziyi, Wang Anshi Yue Fei, Liu Bowen Lan Yu, Zhang Tingyu Zeng Guofan , etc., are all under one person and above ten thousand people, but their fate is not in their own hands, but always in the hands of the emperor! The scenery and ending of life are not something you can decide! But it’s not destiny! The successes and failures of these famous officials and generals were summarized and commented upon by later generations. There are many celebrities who can control their own destiny very accurately. For example, Wang Yangming of Ming Dynasty has been pursuing the truth all his life, "studying things to gain knowledge, and integrating knowledge and action", and has realized his pursuit of truth and made contributions to real society! A wonderful and splendid life is worth thinking about for everyone!
Throughout the ages, when people are frustrated in life, they inevitably go to the master to tell fortunes and predict what life will be like in the future. Whether the master’s painstaking predictions can all come true, no one can 100% guarantee that they will come true. However, practical experience tells people that fortune telling has very accurate predictions! There are also very ridiculous predictions that cannot be realized! Just like rolling dice, 1 to 6 appear randomly! Maybe God is playing dice with humans to determine fate!
Therefore, "My fate is up to me, not God" shouted by Nezha in the animated movie " Nezha: The Devil Boy Comes into the World" will resonate strongly with countless adults and children! Life is only a few decades, how to spend it, what to do, this is a question that everyone must seriously think about. You must not choose to lie down and do nothing just because fate is destined. You must dare to choose the lifestyle and pursuit of life that you like! Don't let others decide all your choices!
