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Many people think that the emergence of love mainly comes from feelings. Whether it is a blind date or a natural understanding, it seems that if you feel it right, it will be OK. Then, when breaking up, you often lose your feelings.
Xiaochen said: If you ask carefully, many people can’t tell the reason about this “feeling”, anyway, the feeling is the feeling. Although there will be academic explanations such as dopamine and pheromones in science, I think this feeling should actually be called "expectation" - only when you have expectations for someone can you have the so-called feeling.
Many times, "expectation" is the battery of love. It will gradually be full, and it will gradually consume over time. Then the battery of love is insufficient, and finally it is forced to shut down and each other down. Just like a netizen said this -
@Miao Dawang: I think the signal of breaking up is that I have no expectations for the other party, including the expectation of replying to the message. At this time, my heart was calm and soothing, without any pain, and I might feel a little regretful, but it was much better than the intense emotions such as anger and sadness that I had before. A very magical experience, it is from not recognizing the intersection to restoring peace, like an life cycle .
Perhaps, every love is a life cycle, and our hearts are experiencing new life and death in it...
Come, draw cards to see how our cosmic energy will be displayed this week - before starting to draw tarot cards, we will find a quiet place to meditate and visualize, and ask for guidance on cosmic energy. After a quiet meditation, after a set of reshuffle, cut cards, and draw cards, the emotional luck of the 12 constellations is revealed...
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card face: Holy Grail 2 未分
Keywords: Happy and beautiful time, love ripples in life
Single people
Holy Grail 2 symbolizes love and harmony, and is a good card second only to lovers' cards, which indicates that Aries will have a better chance of peach blossom this week, and interpersonal relationships will be greatly improved. If you yearn for a relationship, you can pay more attention this week. You may meet the person you like, and the other party may be very consistent with your feelings. In short, this week is worth looking forward to.
Some Aries may restrain their straightforward temperament and become more harmonious, and be at ease in social interaction. In this comfortable communication atmosphere, it is easy to gain good opportunities.
. Some Aries who are in an ambiguous state will gradually heat up this week. In addition to closer care and greetings, they will also have more sweetness of love. Perhaps you have already regarded each other as lovers. Anyway, they know each other well, but they have not pointed it out yet. Some Aries may not want to drag on because of their inner joy and decide to make it clear to the other party.
People with partners
This week your relationship is warm and sweet, and you will enjoy the life of the two world very much. You will eat, drink and have fun, and you will want to try it with your partner. No matter what you do, you will feel happy and satisfied. For example, go to the internet celebrity store to check in for delicious food, like hang out on the sofa and watch TV shows, like go to see solo exhibitions and gardens together, as if happiness is rippling everywhere in life.
Some Aries may get engaged/married; some Aries may resolve previous conflicts with their partners and bring their feelings back on track; some Aries may also reunite with their old love.
For Aries who are facing separation and a state of partnering in another place, their relationship is warming up, and previous conflicts or differences are expected to be resolved, and partners in another place may decide to be together.
card face: Pope card,
keyword: Although you have your own ideas, you have to compromise
singles
Pope card aims to guide the spiritual level, but it also has certain constraints. So this week for Taurus, some of the thoughts in their hearts will have an answer, for example, you will set a new goal/direction for yourself, whether in terms of feelings or life, and you may make a choice, but this choice may also be a matter of love.
Some Taurus may be arranged by their families to date blind dates. You may not be willing to do so, but you cannot violate it. You may even be forced to do so in reluctance. There is no need to resist too much. In fact, just let it go. Some Taurus will meet good lovers, which is also a joy to everyone.
Some Taurus in an ambiguous state may become clear this week. Maybe you have been looking at each other for a long time and feel good about each other. Under this premise, you may formally determine the relationship and may even make some commitments to the future, such as important decisions such as cohabitation and marriage. However, you may not want to rush these things, but still hope to make progress smoothly.
People with partners
This week you may face some external pressure, which may disrupt your original plan and may also allow you to remeasure each other's relationship, such as being educated by parents, and considering getting married or having children according to traditional ideas or customs. But some Taurus will stick to their ideas more stubbornly and do not accept such preaching too much. They will be more resistant in their hearts and may have disputes with their parents.
Some Taurus will compromise under the nagging of their parents, such as in terms of children's education or family affairs. They may be under pressure from elders, or they may be simply upset and not wanting to continue arguing and concessions. Some Taurus may spend more energy on taking care of their parents or elders, such as helping them with some things, or their parents and elders need to take care of their daily life when they come to visit.
For Taurus facing separation and a state of partnering in another place, although the contradictions have eased, the result does not seem to be very satisfactory, and some things still need to be discussed in the long run.
Cards: Star Coin 8 Reverse
Keywords: The problem of reality is becoming more and more obvious, and the inner uneasiness and dissatisfaction are increasing
Singles
Reverse Star Coin 8 hides dissatisfaction with reality and material things, which will stir up your anxiety about security, which will also make your worries about life greater than your expectations for feelings. Maybe you are eager to have both fish and bear's paw, but in fact, the pressure of real life or work/study makes you have to stop such aspirations, or based on some realistic considerations, you have to raise the standards for choosing a partner, which makes you feel helpless.
Some active Gemini may spend a lot of money in vain in order to solve certain problems they encounter. For example, you have made a lot of investment in some interpersonal relationships, but the gains are not ideal; for example, you have signed up for a blind date but the people you meet are not satisfied.
For some Gemini who are in an ambiguous state, they should pay more attention to their financial expenses this week, such as buying gifts for the other party to please the other party, or the other party may borrow money from you, and you can't refuse, etc. Some Gemini may have already paid a lot of money, time and energy for the other party before, but have not received the desired response or commitment, so you should consider whether it is worth it.
People with partners
This week you may spend a lot of money on your family or partner, such as adding clothes for your partner, buying some household items, spending money for your children, etc. Although you have always been silently controlling everything, you may feel a little tired inside, and I hope the other party can share some of the burden in some aspects.
Some Gemini may be worried about themselves because their partners or family members only care about themselves in their daily lives, not only ignore family matters, but also show peace of mind. They will feel a little disappointed with such feelings or life, and even feel discouraged. This is not a good sign, be careful.
part Gemini who faces separation and remote companionship, the real problems of money or life have become the focus of your dispute, which will also put your relationship in more tests.
card face: Sword 8 reverse
keywords: face the anxiety in your heart directly, and regain your life
single person
Sword 8 is a trapped card, but the constraints and blindness it presents are more of a state of self-inflicting. But fortunately, this is a reverse card, which means you have got rid of such constraints or inner troubles.
Cancers will become more emotionally stable or firm this week. Some Cancers will put down their mental burdens and no longer worry about some problems that are not unsettling, and cheer up again. Some Cancers will step out of the sad swamp of emotional memories and look forward to a new relationship. Cancer, who is in an ambiguous state, may realize this week that some of the things you are worried about may be really a big deal, or realize that you may be a little done in some aspects. After discovering these problems, you will try to improve each other's ways of getting along with each other and may become proactive. Some Cancers may suppress their cowardice and bravely want the other person to express their feelings.
People with partners
This week you may want to change the way you get along with your partner, such as your previous sensitivity or certain practices, which will make each other's relationship full of dangers; or you have been blindly tolerant and concession before, making you feel that your sense of security is being eroded step by step, etc. You will make up your mind to change this situation, and there may be some disputes, but you must face it and don’t escape any more.
Some Cancers may suddenly become more and make up their minds to make some decisions. Perhaps you finally understand that blindly compromising and seeking everything will not solve any problem, and you cannot retreat.
As for some Cancers who are facing separation and a state of companionship in other places, some pain must be faced, and some decisions must be cruel. Facing them directly may not be a relief.
Cards: Magicians, the correct position,
Keywords: a new beginning, a new life, it is worth grasping it well
Singles
Magicians indicate a new beginning, have strong action and creativity, and most importantly, this new beginning often has the right time, place and people. So, whether it is life or relationship, if you want to have a new beginning, this week is a very good time. And if you feel that you are not ready, then it's time to prepare now.
So, this week, Leo has a good chance of peach blossoms. You may meet some new people or have some new discoveries. If you like it, you can try it bravely, and it is easy to start a new relationship.
Leo, who is in an ambiguous state, there may be some new changes in your relationship this week. You may experience new things with each other, such as asking each other to visit a restaurant and eat your favorite food, such as going to an art exhibition with each other, and you all enjoy it. Some Leos may be very satisfied with each other and will formally determine their relationship with each other.
People with partners
Your relationship will go to a higher level this week. If you have any conflicts before, it will be easy to ease this week. You also hope to start over. For Leo with a relatively stable relationship, you may have more time with your partner/family this week so that you can enjoy the fun of life and happy times.
Some Leo will be willing to discuss new ideas/new plans with their partners/family, such as house purchase and sale or decoration, and you will promote these things more pragmatically, while also improving your relationship.
As for some Leo who are facing separation and a state of partnering in another place, the problem can be solved well and the relationship between them will also have a new beginning.
Cards: Holy Grail ACE Orthodox
Keywords: Understanding and support Let love last forever
Singles
Holy Grail ACE symbolizes love and support, and it often indicates a new beginning.This is of course good news, and there may be some good opportunities around you this week. Please pay more attention to some people around you, and some new love stories may happen.
Some Virgos may have always been a little self-admiring, but they are eager to meet a lover who can understand them. Now a good opportunity will appear. If you want to seize it, you can take the initiative to get closer.
Virgos in an ambiguous state, perhaps you just admire each other before, but they just released some emotional possibilities intentionally or unintentionally. However, they are not sure in the mutual temptation, and they are nervous but a little excited, which makes you feel a vague feeling of love. If there are no other obstacles or concerns between you, your relationship will likely be formal.
People with partners
This week, you may experience some emotional experiences in your partner that are different from the past, or you have some new imaginations about your relationship, such as the emotional bond between the two parties has become as strong as family, or because they have experienced certain things together before, their love for each other has become deeper, or your relationship can actually become more romantic and selfless.
Some Virgos may have plans to get married/engage. This week is good for pregnancy preparation, and some Virgos may usher in the birth of a new life, which may be your top priority at the moment.
As for some Virgos who are facing separation and a state of partnering in another place, they are willing to devote more understanding and support to each other, and the contradictions will be resolved; partners in another place may make important decisions, such as moving together to live together.
Cards: Scepter King, rank
Keywords: Abandon those glitz and exaggeration, face life with a mature mind
Singles
Scepter King symbolizes maturity and confidence, and means success or steady control. This will bring stable energy to Libra , allowing some excellent qualities that Libra itself has to amplify, such as socializing. In this case, Libra will appear more positive and energetic this week.
This week, your attitude towards feelings will be more mature. Although there are still high standards and requirements, you will pay more attention to the other person's character, such as whether the other person is steady, reliable, and responsible, such as whether his views on life and life are positive. Some older successful people or people who are relatively stable in all aspects may attract your attention more. Some Libras may receive help from older male nobles, such as elders or leaders and teachers in the family.
For Libra in an ambiguous state, your relationship may be less relaxed this week. You may have touched a point in your heart. You all hope to think about each other's relationship more maturely. You may talk more deeply about some things, and you may also have more cautious writing in your heart. Some Libras may feel that they have almost done what they should say, do, and they may make certain decisions.
People with partners
This week you will pay more attention to communication and interaction with each other, such as discussing future plans together, discussing some family arrangements, or some work ideas. The topics may be more realistic and serious, but the idea of advancing and retreating together can also make your relationship more stable.
Some Libras may have planned to make some new attempts. Now that they have the trust and support of their partners, they are more confident and full of energy.
. Some Libras who are facing separation and remote companionship, good communication can solve many problems, their relationship will be repaired, and they will have more confidence to face the future.
Cards: Star Coin 6 Reverse
Keywords: There is a knot in the heart, but it is difficult to resolve, emotional crisis
Singles
Star Coin 6 appears on the surface a state of sharing and giving, but in fact it emphasizes a state of balance. The reverse position means that this state of balance is broken, and you are easily trapped in a obsession with rewards, or the originally stable relationship is imbalanced because you care too much about something.
Some Scorpios may focus more on the gains and losses of certain interests, which may lead to the possible situation of original cooperation and friendship. Some Scorpios may care about certain real interests when considering new relationships. Even if they have new relationships, they may not be too pure, or they may also seem a little cautious because they have suffered some losses in the past.
and in an ambiguous state, you may feel out of control this week. You may have had something back and forth before, as if everything is under your control, but now this sense of control is missing, such as if you cannot get the other party's timely response, or there are more and more differences between you, and the other party obviously does not follow some of your suggestions. Some Scorpios may be very dissatisfied with the other party and will ignore it if you want to.
People with partners
The gap between you may become bigger and bigger this week, and your mentality may become more and more extreme. This may be because the original sense of balance between you has been broken, which makes you very upset. For example, you have always had the final say in the family big or small matters, but now the other party's attitude has become tougher; for example, why do you think you are always giving in your relationship, and you satisfy whatever your partner needs, but you cannot get a response when you need support; or you think your partner is always spending money, without restraint, and you don't listen.
Some Scorpios may cause big quarrels due to some trivial matters, and it is very likely that the resentment you have accumulated over a long time has finally erupted. Some Scorpios may experience breakdowns, leading to breakups/divorce. I have to remind you more: Don’t always “you feel”, and sometimes think about the other person’s feelings more.
Scorpios who are facing separation and a state of partnering in another place, you each have their own dissatisfaction and grievances, as if they have had enough of each other, and things are hard to turn around.
card face: scepter ACE reverse
keywords: feelings are prone to disputes, and mood becomes negative
singles
reverse scepter ACE hidden signs of obstacles. Some of your plans or plans may be disappointed this week, or they have to be delayed by some other people or things. As for relationships, you don’t have particularly great enthusiasm or enthusiasm to start paying attention to new relationship opportunities this week.
Some Sagittarius are prone to touch the scene and are immersed in memories of the past that are intertwined with joy and sorrow, especially when a person has nothing to do, he is more likely to think a lot. Some Sagittarius even have a negative attitude towards feelings, and it is difficult to be interested in developing new feelings.
For some Sagittarius in ambiguous state, your relationship will not make much progress this week. If it had been lukewarm before, it would still remain the same now. But at this time you are also prone to making wrong decisions, such as suddenly not wanting to continue, or doing something inexplicably angering the other party, causing your relationship to come to an abrupt end. Some Sagittarius may negatively believe that there is no future in this relationship.
People with partners
This week it is easy to have dissonance in communication with their partners, which may be due to some emotional problems or gambling. Anyway, they just don’t want to listen to the other person, or they just don’t want to say anything after a few words, etc. Some Sagittarius may have to temporarily separate from their partners due to new work arrangements and other relationships.
In addition, this week is not suitable for the promotion of some new plans, such as new family plans, wanting to buy a new house, new furniture, etc., or wanting to repair a certain place in your home. In addition, it is not suitable for pregnancy this week.
part Sagittarius who are facing separation and partnering in another place, the differences between you have become bigger, it is difficult to have a result, and it is easy to lose hope for your relationship.
card face: control card reverse
keywords: mind becomes dull, communication is prone to problems
single person
reverse control card means out of control and confusion. This week you are like "not in the service area", and the navigation is a bit unreachable, which makes your thoughts and reality easily dislocation. The whole person may be a little confused and not in the state at all, and the sluggish state can easily make many opportunities slim.
Some Capricorns may deliberately avoid certain people and things, and probably have no mood or mind to care about them. Some Capricorns always feel a little unable to keep up with the pace when they get along with others, or they often get distracted and think about other things. If you are not in a hurry about your relationship, you can first steadily and reorganize your status, and then take the exam.
As for Capricorns who are in an ambiguous state, your relationship may be a little stuck this week, or you may feel that the other party does not understand you, or you may feel that the other party and you have some conflicts in certain ideas. You might as well let yourself be quiet first and think about some of your confusions, such as what you like, what kind of relationships you need, why do you feel that you cannot communicate well with each other, and whether the two parties have some disagreements.
People with partners
This week you are prone to physical and mental disorder, or some small frictions between the two people recur, but there is no better way to reconcile for the time being, which can easily make you upset, but it seems that there is nothing to do.
Some Capricorns may feel that the other person does not care about him as much as before, or understand him, and they will feel a little disappointed or disappointed, but they do not want to communicate well with him when they are frustrated. Just holding him in this way, which will easily intensify some conflicts.
, and some Capricorns who are facing separation and partner status in other places, you say east but the other party is saying that, you can't talk about the key points, you are always not on the same channel, and your heart is getting tired.
Cards: World Cards Reversal
Keywords: Low pressure spreads, and I can’t find the outlet in my heart
Singles
World Cards symbolize success and success, and also means pioneering and qualitative change. Although this week is a reverse, it does not mean that it must be a bad thing, because it implies your hesitation state. Maybe your downturn was still spreading last week, or maybe you had figured out something, but now new problems are emerging, which makes you feel upset and confused again. But it should be understood that this is probably just you are disturbing yourself.
In terms of romance, some Aquarius may have new discoveries, such as a more suitable candidate. This may be another opportunity or a test. Strictly speaking, this is not bad, but it makes it easier for you to find an outlet. You just need to reorganize your mind to move forward smoothly, and there may be unexpected surprises.
Aquarius, who is in an ambiguous state, may encounter certain things this week, which will touch you a little, making you feel like you can't see hope; or there may be differences on certain issues, making you a little disagreeable. In short, the enthusiasm between you is gradually cooling down, the freshness of the past is also beginning to disappear, and there may be a sense of loss lingering.
People with partners
Low pressure is still shrouded this week, and your relationship may be affected by other things and appear a little low. For example, some external pressures need to be considered (work/money/cooperation, etc.), which makes you worry; or some situations in the family involve your energy (parents/children may need you), making you have no time to take care of your feelings.
Some Aquarius or your partner may have a feeling of "giving will never get rewarded" in their relationship, which will force you to re-look at each other's relationship, or just want to have a good rest for a while.
Aquarius, who is facing separation and a state of partnering in other places, may still not be able to solve some things. They are a little negative and are becoming less and less hopeless.
card face: star coin 3 新
keywords: has many more practical plans and efforts for relationships
single people
star coin 3 tends to work or talent, and for the life level, it also implies a process of learning and growth, which will make Pisces appear more independent. This week you may have some plans for your own love life. This plan is not as illusory as daydreaming in your daily life, but will be more down-to-earth and more realistic.
Some Pisces may have a discussion with friends or family, such as what kind of person they want to be with, when to fall in love, etc. Your thinking will be very clear, and it will no longer be a confusing account. Some Pisces may be interested in some people who are more in line at work/study, or may encounter situations where others introduce you to someone else. However, some Pisces seem to wake up, busy with work or study, and have no intention of falling in love.
Pisces, who is in an ambiguous state, this week you may pay more attention to whether the foundation between you is solid, and you will rarely consider some realistic issues, such as material conditions. But it may also be that through your observation and understanding, you begin to feel that the other person is indeed a more reliable person and wants to rely on it. In short, this week you will rarely stop falling in love and will look at each other's relationships and future more rationally.
People with partners
This week you may often discuss, communicate or divide the labor into some realistic things, such as buying a new house, discussing decoration, etc., such as children's education, division of labor in housework, etc., such as some specific arrangements for weddings. Your thoughts are no longer about love and love recently, and the things you consider are more realistic, but your relationship is also very harmonious and has a tacit understanding between them. In fact, it is also a rare happiness.
part, Pisces, who are facing separation and a state of partner in another place, have more normal communication and discussion, and some differences or contradictions have also eased. Partners in another place will have a discussion about each other's future.
