In the movie " The Grandmaster ", Ip Man said: "I didn't see a mountain before the age of forty. I only realized after the age of forty that what is harder to cross than a mountain is life."
Life is like a high peak that is unsightly, and everyone is climbing in it.
Occasionally, lucky people can climb to the top of the mountain and enjoy the scenery of " overlooking all the mountains and ". For most people, "no way out before, no way back after" is the norm in life.
The former is generally difficult to understand the misfortune of the latter. If you ask them, why can you climb the mountain, achieve the leap of your destiny, and get what you want? I believe they will give you a lot of chicken soup.
To be honest, in this world, if there are rich people, there will definitely be poor people. Without poor people, how can we set off the rich?
Of course, a little poor is destined. And some poverty is caused by oneself. This is what we often call "destiny". fate, five points are destined by heaven, five points rely on hard work; luck depends entirely on the will of heaven.
has a bitter face and is hard to be noble. The hard work of most people is related to these four points.
1. Talented, but no chance to encounter.
A great sage once said that People with good fortune but bad luck are like driving a luxury car on a mountain road, with bumpy and twists and turns. People who are lucky but have bad luck are like driving on the highway with a tractor, and they go to the extreme, but the hardware is not good.
There are too few people who can have good fortune and good luck. For ordinary people, either they are not talented enough, they cannot seize opportunities when they come to them, or they are talented enough, but they just cannot encounter opportunities.
In ancient times, there was a general who studied military books since childhood and practiced swords diligently, hoping to make achievements on the battlefield one day. Who knew that when he was old, he still had no chance to make achievements, and his positions were obtained through qualifications.
Therefore, he died of depression and before leaving, he sighed to the people around him that he had no chance to make achievements in this life, which is a pity.
The principles are similar. Some people with are particularly talented, but they have no chance to encounter them and can only gradually grow old in time and live the self that they look down upon the most in their hearts. Perhaps, the tragedy of life is hard to fulfill.
There are too few people who can seize opportunities with their own talents.
2. No luck is good, and everything you do fails.
In my hometown, there was such a middle-aged man who went to the city to work hard in his early years and made a little money, so he started his business with others. Who knew that there were many accidents in the middle and lost a lot of money.
Later, he continued to start a business, either opening a restaurant or an online store. He also wanted to open a studio in the past two years. Even though he knew how to do the project, he often encountered sudden disasters and all his efforts were in vain.
This corresponds to the saying: "Not everyone has the life of a boss."
Some people are born to be the life of workers, so they can only work everywhere and become the boss's subordinates. Even if you are promoted, you can only become a deputy and cannot become a person who is talking. This has nothing to do with ability, but with life.
Some people are born with the fate of their bosses, is like the Internet tycoon who has three times in the college entrance examination and is not very good at mathematics. His college entrance examination scores are not as high as others, but he can pass the test smoothly whenever he encounters anything and achieves his life at the forefront.
Sometimes, whether you have something like luck really determines your life.
3. I don’t have enough vision and are still bound by old ideas.
If opportunities and luck are too illusory, then a person's "eye" is related to a person's ability.
What exactly is "eye"? is like Liu Bei Whenever he meets Zhuge Liang , he delegates power to let him do things and trusts him very much. This is the vision of "knowing people".
is like Sima Yi When he saw Cao Shuang taking the emperor out, he took the opportunity to launch the Gaopingling Incident and seized the power of Wei State . This is the vision of "doing things".
Control your subordinates with the perspective of "knowing people" and make a fortune with the perspective of "doing things". This is the basic condition for becoming a boss. is just these two conditions, and many people cannot do it.
Why? Because ordinary people are easily bound by old ideas. For example, eight years ago, when e-commerce was developing, many people insisted on offline, thus missing an opportunity of the times.
There are some opportunities, and as long as you miss it once, it will not appear again. This is destined that people with weak eyes will not be able to do well.
4. Too greedy and don’t know how to stop.
Master Nan said that people with excessive greed can only gain poverty.
Let’s take a look at the two words “greed” and “poverty”. What are the commonalities and differences? The common point is that it is all related to "money". The difference is that the former focuses on today's money, while the latter is related to "diversity of money".
Pay too much attention to money and be too greedy, so poverty occurs. This is what is called "everything will turn against you."
He earned one million, had a house and a car, and could live a comfortable life, but he was not satisfied and insisted on mortgageing his house and car to play leverage . In the end, his money was short and he could not turn over for the rest of his life.
examples are countless in life, but people will not learn from the lessons. In their opinion, if others are unlucky, it does not mean that they are unlucky too. is often this kind of "lucky" mentality that has caused many people to suffer.
So it is better not to be too greedy in life. Only by being content with happiness and being able to stop at the right time can you keep your blessings.
text/Shushan Youlu
