Author: Li Shuanglin
Case: Hello, Teacher Li. I am very lucky to be born in this holographic world, which gives me the opportunity to meet you by sitting at home. I met you through a friend's introduction two years ago, and since then I opened the door to numerology .
, I am ashamed that I am about 40 now, I have not started a family, have not established a career, have not achieved anything, and have become a true failure in the eyes of others.
I am the youngest in the family, with three brothers and two sisters on it. I have summarized the past few decades. I have been greatly influenced by my mother. I have listened too much to my mother since I was a child and have not rebellious at all. My mother's speech has subtly influenced my life. I have never done anything extraordinary and have never been brave. I feel that my past life is like a piece of white paper, without ups and downs, it seems smooth, but it is so smooth and boring.
The only trouble I have so far is not getting married. I have met countless girls who like me to pursue me. Because of my mother, I always feel that they are not suitable for me. I missed them one by one. I summarized it. If I cherish it, I will understand it earlier and understand that it is my own problem. Everyone can get married.
Many blind dates have not been successful in recent years. I also figured out that it is the reason for my own thoughts.
In the first half of my life, I lacked masculinity, no masculinity, and was even more timid than girls. How could this kind of submissive personality be created? I know, but it is too difficult to correct it.
I have only been to elementary school and have not expressed very well. I hope the teacher can understand and hope that the teacher can be drawn to me to help me.
Male lunar calendar year 1983 × early month × afternoon at the hour of You.
There are a few questions now that I would like to ask the teacher:
1, will there be a marriage in this life?
2, is my fate suitable for starting a business, or is it a stable job?
Wish the teacher a happy and healthy family! ! !
Question time: Gregorian calendar October 24, 2022 (Monday) 6:16 am.
Li Shuanglin replied:
There are some cases that have not been written in some cases in the past, and many friends are leaving messages, hoping to see the cases again.
Most people do not hope to learn any numerology knowledge through cases, but they still hope to understand some truths through these real case stories, inspire their wisdom, and learn some philosophy from them, so as to better deal with the difficulties encountered in life.
Over the years, I have concluded that in order to make progress, in addition to having unique and rich experiences, a person also needs the guidance of a good teacher, or meet a good person or a good book. If he can humbly ask for advice, he will definitely make himself progress every day, and it will be different after all.
In the early years, people's biggest troubles were almost all their careers and money, but now people's biggest troubles became marriage and feelings.
Both men and women have confusions related to it. Consulting for love is not just for girls, but also confuses many boys. Single people are not only boys, but many girls are gradually flowing into the "leftover women" team.
Recently, I received tests from several old friends, almost all of whom were worried about their children's marriage. When would it happen? When will it be done?
They are almost all in their early thirties, and even in their forties. I often think about this question. What causes this situation?
I think the factors here are much more complicated, including personal factors, family factors, work factors, etc. Of course, the most important thing is social factors.
Some time ago, I met a scholar who strictly criticized the current promotional advertisements. There was an advertising slogan of a high-end shopping mall: "If you love me, take me to a shopping mall", etc., saying that this advertising slogan has invisibly caused many young people to suffer. It is okay to have good conditions, but what about the poor conditions? Don’t you love it if you don’t go shopping here?
Especially nowadays girls are poisoned by capital and are increasingly unable to recognize reality or live purely in fantasy.
After listening to it, I felt very approving of it in my heart. Think about how many similar advertisements, movies, and videos there are, how terrifying and horrible it is.
Many times, it is not that I don’t want to get married, but that I am afraid of getting married.
Why are you afraid?
is afraid that this time I enter marriage, I will miss meeting a better person.
always feel that there are people who are more suitable for me, and always think that what is now is not the best. I always fantasize that I can become a princess or a prince, and I am immersed in my fantasy and cannot know the reality.
is like this, step by step, as I get older, the person who loves me has married others, and the person I love gradually doesn’t love. In the end, no matter whether it is loved or loved, there is no one left, and I am alone, alone.
There was a girl who had been in love with her partner for seven or eight years and had never been married. Later, she asked me if she was my prince charming? But before she could figure it out, her partner went to a blind date and got married.
Even if you have eight years of relationship, you may not be able to match the blind date you just met.
Many times, waiting and there is nothing left.
is like a fable we learned when we were young. Monkeys move corn, and on the way down the mountain, they always see food they think they are better. If they don’t know how to cherish it, it will be nothing in the end.
Yesterday, a friend said, "Look, this person wears a good soil?"
I said, "What is soil and what is not soil?"
After hearing this, my friend was speechless for a moment and seemed to not know how to answer. Seeing that he did not reply, I said.
"Now, no matter how earthy the clothes look, they have been fashionable and popular. The reason why we feel earthy now is because we have been watching for a long time and are tired of it." In this way, the relationship is the same. We always feel that the current bad is not really bad, but because over time, the other party's shortcomings are clear. Without curiosity and mystery, there will naturally be no attraction.
But for a stranger I just met, I became interested in curiosity. But this interest will disappear sooner or later. Just like clothes, no matter how beautiful the style is, it will become the "earth" in people's mouth in a few days. If you can't understand the truth about
, even if you go through the world, you won't get the desire in your heart.
Because, you can never get what you want in your heart. Even if you get it, you will be satisfied for a while, but you will not be as satisfied in the future, because people's hearts are greedy.
The ancients said that contentment is always happy, but how many people can truly be content. The more they get, the more they want to get, the more they have, the more they want to have.
Rights, wealth, reputation, etc. are all like this.
Here, "The Song of Unsatisfiedness" is quoted for everyone to read.
rushing all day long just for hunger, and just as soon as you fill up, you will think about your clothes.
Both food and clothing are abundant, and I also want to be a beautiful wife.
Wife and concubine are like peanuts and children, and they have no choice but to ride a horse.
A tall horse was tied in front of the door, but he was bullied because he had no official position.
The magistrate still thinks it is small, and the officials of the Ministry of Justice are not surprising.
Once he entered the court, he became the prime minister and thought that he would ascend the throne.
One day, I sit in the world, and I want to play chess in the gods;
Dongbin played chess with him, and asked him where is the ladder to heaven;
Chen Tuan played chess pieces, and every piece was fulfilled.
Nowadays, there are fewer ladders to heaven. Just put down the ladder to heaven.
The King of Hell issuing cards to urge the ghost. If this person had not arrived,
would still be low to go to heaven. If the people were satisfied, the hearts of the world would be satisfied.
head, south, north, north, east, west, and west, and the skin turns into breeze and flesh turns into mud.
I really hope that everyone in the world can read it without any trouble, and that your greedy heart can make you truly understand contentment and cherish in this life. Only in this way can you experience the happiness of being a human being.
Let’s take a look at the fate:
Qian: Guihai, Renxu, Yihai, Yiyou (Xiaozi Chou, Shenyou)
Major fortune: Gengshen, Jiwei, Wuwu, Dingsi , Bingchen, Yimao, Jiayin (1 year and October fortune)
The original fortune is unrecognizable, it seems prosperous but not strong, it seems decline but not weak. How to look at it?
month order accounts for 50% of the force, which is the climate and the general environment. You must observe the monthly order and observe the others, and you will be biased and cannot be understood.
Let’s first count the number of each of the five elements in the original field, water accounts for 4, wood accounts for 2, metal accounts for 1, earth accounts for 1, and fire accounts for 0.
The original situation was lacking fire, and the most prosperous five elements were earth. Because the commander of the chieftain, there were also water in opposition to it. There were 4 water and Yi wood in the time stem, so our party had 6, which was overwhelmingly advantageous in terms of quantity.
Although there is a You metal in the hour branch, the You metal produces the water of Hai, which indirectly promotes Yi wood, and only one Xu earth, which is lonely here, without support, so naturally it cannot be stopped. But when the body is strong, it is a fate that is not prosperous and the Yin is rich and wealth is damaged.
Let’s first briefly analyze personality. This is the key to the development of lifeline. A person’s life is developed according to temperament. Whether it is feelings, career, etc., all choices are almost in line with one’s own temperament. If it is not in line, it will not last long.
Therefore, it is a very important step to observe its innate mind.
Month Order is an outline. The so-called outline means the key. Month Order is a large climate. Any method to judge the strength and weakness of any number depends on the month Order. This is the only way.
month order is Xu, Xu tucks Wu as the original energy, and is the commander of the main wealth.
Generally, people with the commander of the wealth star have strong material desires and strong possessiveness, and are more concerned about reality.
People with strong positive wealth are more cautious in seeking wealth, and the positive seal is also strong, which is more in line with a cautious mind. People with this are generally not too bold, and they lack creativity and motivation, and the chance of starting a business is not high. Because they seek stability in everything, and the day stem has no roots, their autonomy is relatively poor, and they are easily influenced by the outside world and lack courage.
People with strong positive seals are more dedicated, but too strong is manifested as laziness, and the official and killing are not effective, which also implies lack of self-discipline, easy to be lazy, lazy, and more regular in doing things, lack of agile thinking, relying heavily on others, easy to follow the crowd, and dare not be the first.
Generally, people who have great achievements in their careers are powerful, either the official and the killer are controlled, the food and injury are strong, or the wealth star is in a pattern.
People with strong seals are difficult to achieve too much career achievements, both men and women. They are greatly affected by their personality and lack of courage. However, such people will still be blessed throughout their lives. The so-called blessing means that they will not suffer too much. If they encounter any problems, some people will help themselves. The luck of noble people is still very good.
The original bureau Xu is wealth, and this Xu also represents the wife, the woman, the career, and everything you can control.
letter said that I was greatly influenced by my mother, and this is also in line with Yin Wang. If there are too many Yins, it is easy to spoil and spoil.
Xu is wealth, which controls the water of Hai and Ren water, but there is also a lot of water in the original state, forming a situation of confrontation between earth and water. Moreover, Xu is surrounded by the Yin star, wealth is surrounded by the Yin, wealth has no energy, no way out, which also leads to difficulty in seeking wealth and a trapped marriage.
In the pattern, this is the Heavenly Prison.
Xu is surrounded by Ren Hai layer by layer, so it is difficult for Yi Wood to get this wealth. The biggest obstacle in the middle is the seal. Only by removing this seal can you get this wealth. What does
print represent?
1, can be understood as the influence of the mother.
2. Influence in personality, gentle personality, lack of autonomy.
The original situation has no food and injury stars, so wealth does not have a soul, which also means that you are not strong-willed in pursuing the object and are not too proactive.
combined with the fortune, the Wuwu fortune will be held at the age of 22-32. This decade is a very important step in the great fortune to discuss the person.
Follow marriage, mainly looking at ten years, if luck is good, the marriage will be successful, otherwise the marriage will not be successful.
Wu is Xu, which means that the month order wealth is revealed in the heavenly stems of the great fortune, and the Wu fire is generated, which is the food god. This fortune is not bad, so there should be a marriage.
In the past ten years, the opposite sex has definitely had a good relationship and has come into contact with many girls, but why haven’t they entered into marriage?
can only say that the big marriage is not done, and the small marriage is constantly there.
On the one hand, it is caused by the original wealth star being trapped, and on the other hand, it is also caused by personality.
The original Gui water is a partial seal, and it is combined with Wu Earth . Wu Gui is combined with each other. Wu Gui is combined with fire, and fire is food and injury, which becomes greedy for playfulness, enjoyment, and no practical result.
32-42 years old, Ding Si's fortune is gone, and the wealth star is gone in the past ten years, but Si fire can still trigger Xu earth, but Xu earth is not effective because it is surrounded by water.
Only when the earth is used to make the seal can the marriage be successful.
Dingsi's major fortune, although it can produce earth, it is also reversed by the original Hai water. It constitutes that the Yin star damages food and damages, and it is the owl god who seizes food.
The conflict between Si and Hai also leads to marriage turmoil.
Days and Times can also represent the wife because it belongs to the wife palace.
However, the wealth star should have arrived, but the seal star sat, which is the mother, and Xu and Hai are connected, and it is also incurred by , the oligarch , which is the sign of loneliness.
In recent years, in 2022, the year of Renyin, Yin and Hai are in harmony, but the meaning is not very significant, and the marriage is not successful in this year.
2023 In the year of Guimao, Mao and You clash, the seven kills move, and Mao and Xu combine, the wealth star moves, and this year's fate is good.
Reason:
First: Why? Yi wood is, who is Yi wood? It's also myself. Therefore, if Mao and Xu are in harmony, then you will get rich by yourself.
Second: Why is the Youjin? If the official is , the fortune god is rushing to the official, the official moves. The groom is the groom's official, and he is also an official, so his marriage is very strong this year and he may get married.
You must grasp it yourself.
2024 Jiachen year , how?
Chen and Xu clash, and Xu is damaged. If there is conflict, it is also fate, but it is very bumpy.
Therefore, if you have a little grasp of your marriage, you will be successful from the end of 20223 to the beginning of 2024.
I analyzed this fate at noon on the first day of the first day of the lunar month, so I used this hour to have a plum blossom.
main hexagram is water and wind well , mutual hexagrams fire and Zekui, and change hexagrams Kan into water. What is the solution to
?
body hexagram is Kan, the five elements are water, and the use hexagram is Xun, and the five elements are water, and the body is born and used. You must take the initiative to measure marriage matters by yourself. If you still wait, it will be difficult to succeed.
Secondly, the bodies are Li hexagrams, Li hexagrams are women, and the lower ones are Dui hexagrams, which are also women, which also means that there are peach blossoms and fate.
finally sees the change of hexagram, which is Kan hexagram , and becomes yourself again, and like yourself, it has the same sign of being alone.
From this hexagram, you can see a story.
You are not short of fate, there are women around you, Xun Gua is a woman, and later you will come into contact with more women, both Li Gua and Dui Gua, and they are relatively young, but they don’t cherish each other, and in the end they are empty.
From the perspective of Qimen, the five Yin Dun game starting from the Gengxu day and Jimao hour are as follows:
1. This is a Fuyin game, what does it represent? Passive means that you do not take the initiative to seek, but instead wait. It also means that there is no action in terms of emotions.
2. Liuhe is marriage, Liuhe falls into Kan Palace, Kan Palace is the lowest, and it is Ren + Ren. The five elements are water. In Li Palace, the five elements are fire, which is just conquered by Liuhe, which also means unfavorable marriage.
Generally, what you conquers yourself is the root of your troubles.
3. Gui is oneself. In Li Palace, it is not good to fall into the palace. Gui + Gui is Fu Yin, Gui represents Yin and Private, Li Palace is Wu Fire, Fire is wealth, and Tianying is fire, which is also wealth. From the perspective of the palace, there are fates around you.
Bing means the wife, and in Dui Palace, it means there is no wife, so you have to fill in the blank. The most recent year is 2023 Guimao, Maoyou clashes, and it is empty.
From the perspective of Qimen, when facing marriage, you must take the initiative. Secondly, next year is indeed a year with strong marriage. You must grasp it and don’t miss it.
As for career, Yinxing is too strong and the commander of the main finance. If you want to do business, you can open a store and wait for the industry. It is best to be stable. Don’t invest too much and take risks, which is not good for yourself.
From the perspective of plum blossoms, Li Gua is defeated by yourself, and there will be a woman who I don’t like very much and cannot succeed. However, this Dui Gua still has a chance, and the woman represents is also relatively young. You are interested in you in the next life, so you must grasp it well.
From the perspective of Qimen, it just so happens that my wife is also in the Dui Palace, which is in line with the Dui Gua. There is a Tianzhu Star in the Dui Palace. The woman is good at speaking and can speak well, but if she doesn't do it well, it also means that she is noisy. Lin Xuanwu, very smart, Lin Bing, and has a strong personality.
Your fate is the commander of the wealth star, and your wife must be the head of the family. You must understand this. Good family relationships must be based on tolerance.
But the change of hexagram is Kan, Kan is water, and water is the main change, which is also the original hexagram, which becomes Fu Yin, so you still need to pay more attention to this matter.
is currently in the month of Xu. The Kan hexagram is very weak and the Xun hexagram is also weak. However, the Dui hexagram is very strong. You will be born in the next life, because of this Dui hexagram, you still have a destiny and you must grasp it yourself.
And the time branch of the horoscope You metal, You metal is the only one that has a relationship with Xu. You metal is born from Xu, representing your child. In 2023 Mao You clashes, there is a sign of moving children, which indirectly leads to the wife, or gets married to the child.
In short, all the signs show that the fate next year is very good, you can grasp it yourself and you can succeed.
Life suggestions:
Recently, I read Caigentan and saw that there was such a saying that was really good. I will share with you here: " When you are old, you will be infected when you are strong; when you are weak, you will be infected when you are in a prosperous state."
The general meaning is that the diseases that a person will be born when he is old are the roots of the disease left by young and strong states; the sins suffered after the decline of the family are the roots of the disaster caused by the prosperity of the family.
Therefore, ancient people often said: "Be prepared for danger in times of peace, and think about it, be prepared without any trouble."
When people are going smoothly, they often adhere to the idea of "no taboos". No matter what they do, they are bold, without awe, and without fear. They always feel that they have been smooth, and they should be smooth, but they don't know that when the good use is used up, disasters will continue to arise.
So, I said that when I am old and sick, they are all caused by my youth. For example, for girls nowadays, there are more and more infertility in and . The fundamental reason is, in addition to healthy diet, it also has a lot to do with clothing, such as always exposing the navel, causing coldness in the abdomen and leaving the root cause of the disease.
Like to wear knee-exposed pants, it will definitely cause cold joints. As you get older, you will feel pain.
Some people may ask, isn’t it okay to wear shorts?
is not. Because shorts are not affected by local cold, but knee holes are affected by fixed cold, so the cold is naturally even worse.
Of course, it is difficult for people to believe these words to young people who are healthy and healthy, because when they are healthy and do not feel uncomfortable, they will not easily believe them.
is like a lucky person who does everything smoothly. If you tell him to be cautious, he will not believe it.
It is precisely because of this reason that many mistakes are made when you are very smooth and prosperous.
And when the fault accumulates to a certain amount, and when good luck is exhausted, disaster will follow. It is too late to understand everything again.
There are always people around you saying, "If I had known the present, I would not have been like that in the past." But I don't know that if I went back to the past, I might not have been like this again. People will always have healed the scar and forget the pain. When they reach a comfortable environment, they will forget the pain.
is like when a couple quarrels, and every time the man sincerely repents, but after a while, he still has to quarrel. The biggest problem for
people is that it is easy to forget.
Good things are easy to forget, and bad things are easy to forget. This kind of forgetting depends on how you choose to forget.
For example, when you hear the principles I mentioned above, you will definitely say, Oh, I know these principles, but in a few days, I forget them all. If you encounter related problems, you don’t know how to solve them.
Therefore, practitioners need to do good deeds every day, which is to constantly remind themselves of what should be and what should not be done.
is like drinking. When you get drunk, you feel extremely uncomfortable, like being tortured, and you swear that you will never drink again, but when you wake up, you will continue to have two brothers, Liu Liu Liu.
Shameless: Li Shuanglin
Han Yin year Oct 1st
